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Welcome to the Carpool podcast with Kelly.
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Everyone likes to tell me how toxic candles are.
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Like, I can't post about a candle without being like, you would act like I'm sprain, like,
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gasoline in my home with the messages I get about candles.
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And respectfully, like, I just need you guys to just like, let me have that.
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Like, let me have my candle.
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If you don't want to let them in your home, that's fine.
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If candles are what takes me out, like, that's what takes me out.
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And Liz, your mom time off, starts now.
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Welcome back to the Carpool podcast with Kelly and Kate, co-host alert.
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Y'all, Kelly was like, Hey, can you please help me?
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You know, Liz doesn't have childcare.
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And I was like, Kelly, I have been waiting for this moment, because you're on here as
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But, but I'm waiting my whole life for this.
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And I would hit the pressures on because like, when you're a guest, like, you know,
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you can kind of sit back, relax.
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Like it's up to me to ask the questions, keep the conversation going.
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We're equally responsible for keeping the conversation going.
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I don't, I don't have questions prepared for you.
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Like this is not, this is not necessarily a walk in the park.
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Um, and really like, I can't believe you said yes, because the biggest thing that's
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changed since the last one we've talked is now your New York Times best selling author.
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And like, I just couldn't believe you just like had a slot available.
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Like don't you have like best selling author things to be doing today?
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Like that was just crazy.
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You would think, but actually you become a best selling author and then you still like
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wake up and make your children's lunches and just clean your house and do your laundry
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and all the things.
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So the book's been out now almost a month.
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And I find it fascinating how I'm not tired of the content.
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Like it's just, it's just like, it was, it was the pre, you were writing it,
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you were, it was the pre-order.
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It was the podcast.
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Now it's the book tour.
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Like you're just keeping it so fun and fresh.
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Are you enjoying author life?
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This part is very fun.
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Like I'm really, really trying to soak it up.
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It almost reminds me of like when they're, when you have your first baby and everyone
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is so excited and everyone wants the news and then, you know, no offense, but it's
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like by the time you have your fourth, they're like, Hey, just text me.
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Like they're not coming to the hospital.
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I feel like this is my first and I'm just so it's like it's just never going to be this
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Like even if I were to write another book or do another book tour, like it just won't
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be this like excitement around the first one.
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And so I'm really, really trying to soak it in as best I can while also being like
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equally very tired during the process.
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Um, I mean everyone, I mean, I know a lot of people my personal life who have
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now got their hands on the book, everyone's loving it is there.
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And if you haven't got it, it's you need to go order it.
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Cause right now it's instant gratification.
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Cause you can probably just like get the audio book right away.
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You could get the Kindle version right away or you can get it on a day and a
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half and on Amazon.
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So if you like couldn't stomach the idea of like doing a pre-order now is
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the time to just get it in your hands today.
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When do you hit the libraries?
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How does that work?
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I'm in the libraries.
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You're in the libraries.
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That was really fun.
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We actually told people ahead of time, like you can request the book to
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Like that's something people do.
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Um, and then they were like, some people were like, I'm number 15 already on
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my library's wait list and I was in like a place that would have been like in
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like Columbus, Ohio.
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And I would be like, Oh my gosh, you know, you just don't assume that
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there's like even people following you outside of your geographic area.
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So you're like, well, um, yeah, I feel like it was such a, it's such
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a unique, I'll call it a genre of a book because it's not technically an
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It's not technically like a self-help book.
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It's not technically, it's not fiction.
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Like it's just this like combination of it's about you.
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It's about your life, but you're inspiring.
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You're learning, you're being relatable.
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You're a great storyteller.
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Like it's just like, what is, what is this?
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What are you calling this genre?
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Well, it's funny because they put me in the religion section probably
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because I worked with a Christian publishing house, but I, which
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I'm fine with, but at the same time, I kind of wish they didn't just
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because like I would never want, I think that if you do not share the same
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faith as me, you would still like have a hundred percent get out of the book.
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Yeah, that's shocking that they would put you there.
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Yeah, I think it's because I'm through a Christian publishing house,
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but I would, but I think that the struggles that I have are like
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universal to other, other people, no matter like what you believe.
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And I think that you would find, you would feel yourself like seen
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and understood in a lot of ways, no matter what your faith is.
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But on the New York Times, I'm self-help like that's my classification.
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It's so funny, too, because on Amazon, you get into all these
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like different ranking categories and it'll be like, number one in Christian
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women's self-help, right?
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And then there's Christian women's issues or self-help or like there's so many
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like subsets, it's kind of funny.
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That's kind of how the podcasts are, too, because like our category is
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leisure and then we're like, but then we're so we like, we're like,
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we don't rank as high in leisure, but then we rank like so high in auto,
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but like auto is a category in leisure.
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It's it's the same thing.
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It's yeah, you know, it's just like everyone loves a label.
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Yes. Well, how is so now you're on the road, like you're touring.
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Yes, your book touring.
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Yes, I'm doing 10 stops.
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So I'd started in Charleston and then I just did two in North Carolina.
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And my kids, like my whole family came with me to that stop.
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And that was really fun, like for them to really all four of them.
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And people were like asking them to sign their books, you know.
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So Alberta is drawing like a heart into people's books.
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Gosh. And then this upcoming weekend, I'll do Charlotte,
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Greenville and Birmingham, which in my head, we're like close together.
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They're really not very close together.
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And I'll do those with my mom.
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And then I'll do two around the D.C.
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Charlottesville area with one of my best friends.
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Yeah. And then I'll do Augusta in there, which isn't too far from Charleston.
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So we spaced them out kind of so that I would be gone for a couple of days,
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but then be home for like five to six days.
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Just I don't think I could have mentally done a lot in a row.
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And then also just for the sake of our kids, I was like,
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I need to come home and then leave and come home like just, yeah.
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You know, and I think like one thing that everyone's talking about
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is how good your outfits have been.
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Did you hire a stylist?
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I did not hire a stylist.
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I have been trying to get better just in my life.
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But my aunt and my cousin, like my aunt and her daughter,
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have been just helpful, especially with like, I feel like I can.
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I can really hone in on one part of an outfit really well.
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But I very much struggle with like, OK, what shoes do I pair with this?
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Shoes are the hardest part for me.
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So sometimes I would text my aunt and my cousin, me in like five out
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like the same outfit with five pairs of shoes.
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And I'm like, yeah, which one and they will help me with the footwear.
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And then I there's like a couple of outfits that I have like splurged on.
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But then rent the runway I am doing for the first time.
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And I am loving it.
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I don't know if I would do it forever.
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Like I don't know if I would be able to be like,
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do I have enough going on in my life?
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But for something like this, I mean,
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like my outfit last night or two nights ago,
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two of my upcoming outfits in the next week are all rent the runway.
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Will you outfit repeat or will every book tour get something fun and fresh?
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Everyone gets something fun and fresh.
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Yeah, that's so hard.
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It's like my one chance.
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I'm telling you, you've really honed in on your personal style.
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Like I feel like I'm going to start like looking.
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I feel like I'll start sending you stuff
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because I think I could pinpoint like, oh, this is so Kate.
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I think the dress you were the run the run the runway dress.
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I think you had last night.
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Was stunning on you.
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And I feel like, you know, it's good with especially with rent the runway
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because you start to realize like designers that you're like, OK,
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this designer fits me well.
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I know what size I am.
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And then like, for instance, that was Ola Johnson, who is not cheap.
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But I was on rent the runway.
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So I was like, OK, this is wonderful.
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If I want to I'm wearing a dress of hers next week.
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And again, I rented it.
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And the best part was like the events over.
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It's like wrinkled.
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I've been in it all, you know, the whole time.
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And I'm like, and I just get to return this dirty.
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So the whole concept I have had a very good experience with so far,
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especially for like, and I think I was telling my sister a lot.
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I feel like you get the dopamine hit of getting to wear something really fun
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and like maybe like a little outside your box or like colorful
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or something that if you weren't like four to five times in a row,
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you might be like, OK, yeah.
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I feel like I've been wearing this a lot.
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But on rent the runway, you just kind of get like all the fun of it
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and then you return it right off.
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It's yeah, I'm obsessed.
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They've been really good.
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I should get on that because I have so much trouble in October.
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I have to go on like four or five trips in October.
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The trips are fun and they're only like one one night.
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I think I have three one night trips and then one, maybe two, two night trips.
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It's going to be every week that I'm gone.
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And yeah, it's like what to wear.
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It's like truthfully, it's just it's just one of the hardest parts.
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And I hate packing clothes.
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I hate packing clothes like that.
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And I haven't used it, but rent the runway does have like stylists
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that you can be like, I'm wearing this outfit.
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Can you give me shoes that you think would be good?
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And they don't like help you do that.
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I just like love when you're like shopping like J Crew or wherever.
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And they're like, do you just want this whole outfit?
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And I'm like, yeah, you know, like I love I like when they do that
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with the kids close to because I love matching.
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I love and I think I think we kind of like to dress our kids the same way, too.
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What one, like, you know, whatever, like not we like to try to dress our kids the same way.
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But I love like the bright mixed prints, like like very like fun colors.
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And it is sometimes so hard to like put those outfits together.
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So I love when I'm shopping on like Bowdoin or Hannah Anderson or even like Gap.
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They're like, do you just want these leggings that go with this shirt?
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I'm like, yeah, I do.
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So couldn't be easier.
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And then also, I do think a huge part of my struggle right now is because of just the
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like free for all that shoes are having.
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So I'm doing an ad for anthropology and I'm so excited.
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It's for the Colette pant, which I love.
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And I just got my first collect pant.
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Oh, they're amazing.
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I was like, you know what?
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I'm just going to see what shoes they put the model in.
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And I'll just get those shoes to wear with the outfit.
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So the model is in like a super cute like vest that matches the Colette pant,
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like a very stylish look.
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And then on the bottom, this was red.
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This was like a red look.
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But then on the bottom, she is wearing half calf socks and sneakers, which I'm
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like, OK, I get because it's like it's just kind of that like raw trendiness.
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But I was like, if I wore this, like, I mean, it looks like I could go to a
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That's how like, you know, slim, stylish put together the top two pieces are.
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And I was like, OK, I get what they're trying to do here, but I would feel like
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a total fool like it would look like I just forgot.
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Like I was running and I forgot to change my shoes.
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And so I'm like, come on, anthropology, like throw me a bone.
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What shoes would you actually wear with this?
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No, the shoes are out of control.
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I'm so tired of it because and now that I think like, you know what
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days I miss, I miss the days and I know people can still wear this.
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And I'm and Elizabeth and I talked about this literally yesterday.
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I miss the days of skinny jeans and riding boots.
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And like that was the only option.
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Like we just wore skinny jeans and riding boots.
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And now we've developed all these new jeans, which in a way, I think have
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been good because there's so many like people can now really wear the jeans
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that are the most flattering to their body type.
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But now that leaves with the questions, like now I have.
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So now I have certain shoes that can only go with certain cuts of jeans
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and vice versa, like it's egg.
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And like what are we supposed to do in the winter when we have these jeans
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that aren't skinny and then I don't want to have exposed ankles?
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Like I totally get how these cute Mary Janes are fun for now.
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But what what is my what does my January look like?
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And that is where we are different, because I was just thinking
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I owned a pair of riding boots and like never got to wear them
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because we would just sweat.
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Like we would like so desperately want to put on the riding boots
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and you would have like a panic attack because you would you were so hot.
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But I'm living my best life because in January,
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I am in like Mary Janes with my ankles showing because I live in Charleston.
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OK, yeah. So it is you should move here.
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We actually have different realities.
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Yeah, no, because we get like we probably get your win.
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We like the the days on the calendar
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where it makes sense to wear a pant in the Mary Jane.
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I'm telling you, it's like 12 days a year.
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Or it's like, I mean, it's just like we have such extremes here
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in the Midwest, like it's so hot and then it's winter.
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That's so interesting. Yeah.
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OK, well, that that makes sense. I'm sorry.
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I thought speaking of like shopping and outfits,
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one segment that we have planned for today is to do our last three transactions
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where we share our recent bank accounts of transactions. Yes.
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I would love to know why don't you kick us off?
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Like what's one of the last three things that you bought?
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OK, one of the last three it's a hitter is
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well, an Apple Watch because my Apple Watch broke.
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OK, and I have not had it for like a week.
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And I don't you know, I don't know if you're an Apple Watch person or not.
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But I have felt I have felt lost.
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I have felt I don't know where I am in space.
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I never know what time it is.
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My Apple Watch tells me what's next on my calendar
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because it just shows like what's next on a calendar.
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And so I have just been I feel like an astronaut
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that is untethered from the spaceship and is just floating.
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And it comes today and I am thrilled.
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Yeah, I don't I've I wore an Apple Watch
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back when they first came out when I was selling cars because I was like,
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oh, it'll be so nice because when I'm on the lot,
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like I can get the notifications from my customers.
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And I didn't like how tethered I felt like I didn't like that.
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My phone was constantly beeping.
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I do think I have considered getting back to the Apple Watch game
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because one for two main features.
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One, I'd love to ping my phone because literally where is my phone?
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Yes, that's the other thing like where is my phone?
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I'm always going on my laptop to do the find my opinion.
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Like it's exhausting.
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And I also would love to get a more accurate step count in a day.
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I agree, because I just don't like I don't carry my phone around enough
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to feel like it's accurate.
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So I've considered now you can probably turn off notifications.
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Like if I don't want to have text notifications
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or like Gmail notifications on my Apple Watch, I don't have to do that.
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You can turn them all off. Yes.
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I was like, is this what everyone else feels like
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that doesn't know how many steps they've taken because I like to know
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how many steps I've taken.
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How many do you get in a day?
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Like without trying, it is it is so incredibly
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like what's the word I'm looking for up and down.
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Like one day I'll get like 4,000 and I'm like, OK, that wasn't great.
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And then I can get like 12,000.
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But 10,000 is harder than it looks.
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That's what Elizabeth told me, because Elizabeth is an aura ring
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and she's like 10,000.
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It's a long walk and a lot of activity.
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Yes, 10,000 is hard.
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And where do we come up with 10,000?
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And what does 10,000 mean?
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I don't know. It's a good point.
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Like, why couldn't we switch it to five?
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Well, it's just so much more doable.
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OK, so that's a good one. I might, like I said, I'm considering.
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I'm also trying to decide if I'm going to get a new iPhone.
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My camera, I think that the I think that Apple sabotage is me
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because like my camera, just my camera is so foggy all the time now.
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And it's like it doesn't like Elizabeth and I have content phones.
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So if we film content that has a shared iCloud,
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so she we can like easily find our footage and edit it.
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My content phone literally couldn't have a CRISPR cleaner camera.
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My phone, like I literally hold them up next to her
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with both the cameras on and I'm like, how is one so much better?
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And I've adjusted the settings.
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I've done absolutely everything.
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What is your content phone?
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Like I'm telling you, it's the same iPhone.
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It was the same. It's the same iPhone.
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Oh, well, it's the same iPhone.
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But mine's the bigger size, my personal one.
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I'm telling you, there's something messed up.
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I think Apple is just like, they just know I'm going to cave and buy it.
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But I'm not buying the air and I need to decide.
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I just think like they're getting there.
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The cameras are kind of becoming almost too much, you know?
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And I get that they're trying to they hear what they need to come out with is.
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Like, I'm not a photographer.
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Like, I don't need a foot.
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I need really crisp, clear video like come out with the influencer phone.
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Like, enough of us are doing it. Yeah, I don't need 12 lenses.
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I don't like 12 lenses because then it's like changing the depth of the video.
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Like, while I'm recording, it's horrible. Yeah.
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And you use a nice camera a lot, right?
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No, we've stopped. Oh, you've stopped.
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Now we just use our iPhones because it's so much easier to keep our footage
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because like now Elizabeth and I are so organized that like when we film,
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let's say like the Ford Bronco tour, then on the content phone that we share
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to share the cloud, me, Elizabeth and our website editor.
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We have a Ford Bronco folder.
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So any video we've done at the Bronco, any photo we've done at the Bronco,
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any car set we've been in the Bronco can all be found in the folder.
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So it was one of the best businesses we did.
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But anyway, one of my recent transactions I literally shared about last night
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is I had to read by the parchment papers.
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Always. I mean, I know it's like if you don't know what we're talking about,
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you can buy parchment papers on Amazon, the 12 by 16, they're pre cut
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and you just pull them out.
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And it's the most I use at least I use them once a day.
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Yeah, I had someone stop me on my book tour and was like, Hey,
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I just have to ask you the pre cut parchment paper.
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Like, is it really that big of a deal to just like bring out parchment paper
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and do it? And I was like, well, it's just like about it's like anything
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in life that you can make more convenient.
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I was like, once you just reach down and pull that sheet out
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versus like getting out the whole thing and like trying to see if you got
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the right amount for your pan and I was like, yes, it's it really is
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that much easier and it's not like it's so much more expensive.
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No, you know, I use them where I like it.
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The best is when I'm we eat a lot of meat, grill a lot of meat.
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So I love to put it on a cookie sheet, put my raw meat, season it.
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And then when I put my meat on the grill, I take the parchment paper off
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and now I have a clean pan.
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Yes, like that I'm telling you, like that is enough.
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I'm obsessed and I just it lasted me exactly one year.
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So. Yeah, you really are.
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It's 14 bucks for for one year.
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Yeah, I know I really am.
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OK, another one of mine is my daughter,
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Millie is turning seven on Friday.
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And that was another big, big part of the book tour.
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I was like, I cannot be gone on the 19th.
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I have to be on the 19th.
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And we I took her to this was like one of the best things I've done.
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Her birthday was coming up.
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It's in the middle of my book tour.
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I'm like, I'm overly stressing about it
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because it just felt like this like big thing of like,
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what what does Millie's birthday mean?
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Because also, she is not having a birthday party this year.
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We don't you don't get a birthday party every year in my house.
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It's like we do them on certain ages.
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So I took her to coffee and I was like, what?
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Like, tell me about what you would love to do on your birthday.
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And she was like, I would love to have ice cream Sundays and watch a movie.
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It's a Friday night with like two friends in the name
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that both live in the neighborhood.
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And I was like, OK, OK.
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And then I was like, what what does an ice cream Sunday mean?
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And she told me to ice cream flavors and she told me three toppings.
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Like the most in my head, I was like, OK, I need mini M&Ms.
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I need crushed Oreos.
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And she was like, I would love it if there were sprinkles,
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whipped cream and chocolate sauce.
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And I it just was so much easier than I had like lived it up to be.
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And so it was like, OK, I need to go to the store
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and I need to get cookie dough ice cream and strawberry ice cream.
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And then I need to get these three toppings like that was what.
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And then I was like, what about the pizza?
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And she was like, I would love Papa John's.
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Like I was like, OK, it could not be easier.
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So all of a sudden, this thing that just felt like really big was like,
20:42
actually, this is not a big deal.
20:44
Like this is so easy.
20:46
And so the next day I needed to go to the grocery store.
20:48
And I was like, her birthday is not for a week and a half,
20:51
but I am just going to go ahead and I'm going to buy these two flavors
20:53
of ice cream and these three toppings that she wants.
20:56
So I guess that's just to say sometimes just talking to your children
21:01
and finding out now somebody I told this story on Instagram is almost like
21:04
way still Alberta says she like wants a trip to Europe like totally would.
21:09
But it's like funny when you're like,
21:11
their like desires are so much easier than what you would even think.
21:16
That's so and like, I love that you brought her into it.
21:20
Made it a conversation.
21:21
That sounds delicious.
21:22
Like what a great birthday party or birthday.
21:25
Yeah. So that's that's so fun.
21:28
You know, how do you how do you has a big birthday next month?
21:30
She's turning five big.
21:33
So it is big and yeah, it was it was a different answer.
21:37
You know, it was this, that and another thing.
21:40
And it is she she gets this, that and another thing
21:44
because five is a big birthday.
21:45
And then George is like going to be seven and seven again,
21:47
isn't like a big birthday for us.
21:49
And he's like, well, I'm going to do that too.
21:51
And it's like, no, you're not.
21:53
Sorry, yeah, they are different.
21:55
And we had Johnny turn eight and I'll and Millie turned five
21:59
in the same year, which is five and eight or two of our big.
22:02
It's like one, five, eight and ten is kind of what we've landed on.
22:05
I'm going to steal that. I like that ten is a is a trip.
22:08
And so Millie had a birthday at home
22:12
and John Robert wanted to go to Topgolf.
22:14
And I remember thinking like, OK,
22:16
when we got like the cost for Topgolf, thinking like,
22:18
oh, wow, this is like not cheap.
22:20
But let me tell you what,
22:22
you think that an at-home birthday party is cheap.
22:25
And then you like rent the bounce house
22:27
and you get the Chick-fil-A platter and you get the juice boxes
22:30
and you think about how you have to clean your home
22:32
and you get a cake and you're like, I would do Topgolf
22:36
three times over for all the hidden costs
22:39
of the at-home birthday party.
22:41
It can definitely it can definitely escalate.
22:43
Yeah. And we don't I don't know when we're going to get here.
22:46
But like the way that we do birthday parties
22:48
and maybe this is where I live and who we hang out with,
22:50
like even George's birthday,
22:54
like if I'm invited and we have a lot of family friends.
22:56
So like if I'm inviting kids,
22:58
it's like they're bringing their husband and all of their kids.
22:59
So like next thing, you know, I'm feeding 40 people.
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Yes. I'm like, oh, my gosh, like this is.
23:05
So I've started with Hattie's birthday.
23:06
I think I'm going to be like, it's two to four.
23:09
Like this is not I'm not having a birthday party
23:11
over a meal time anymore.
23:12
Like this is just crazy.
23:14
This is so much work.
23:17
OK, one of my last transactions
23:19
is I had a Facebook Marketplace run this morning.
23:23
Like I just like I'm so loving Facebook Marketplace these days.
23:27
And you got to be careful because the only it's
23:30
it's the most sensitive algorithm out there.
23:33
I talk about this a lot.
23:34
But like if you stare like and I still come up,
23:38
but I stared at a reborn baby doll too long
23:40
that was for sale because I was trying to figure out what it was.
23:43
And now like that's what that's at least 25 percent
23:46
of my Facebook Marketplace feed is reborn baby dolls
23:48
or their clothes or their accessories.
23:49
Like Facebook just I'm probably about to do it
23:51
because at this point it's like they do look kind of cute.
23:53
Maybe I will take one and now I know what they're going for.
23:56
So it feels like a good deal for when I do it.
23:58
Not what I bought, though.
24:02
They just make it worth the drive.
24:03
I bought a lot of boat in clothes for Hattie.
24:08
That's a big that's a steal.
24:10
No, I got eight pairs of leggings for eight dollars a piece.
24:15
And they were so it's every color
24:16
and it was every color under the rainbow.
24:18
They were her size.
24:19
They were great conditions.
24:21
She's like they were worn lightly.
24:23
Like there's no holes, reps, tears, stains and what?
24:27
So those are I got eight dollars a piece.
24:28
So I got 60 dollars for eight leggings
24:30
and they're easily twenty dollars a piece.
24:32
Yeah. So I was very excited.
24:34
And then I love going whenever I'm buying something from a seller,
24:37
though, I will always go look at like what else they have.
24:40
And she separately had a boat in tunic listed
24:42
that was also in Hattie size.
24:44
So I said, hey, add the tunic.
24:46
So I'm jazzed about it.
24:49
Jazz and I was very inspired by your person
24:53
that you had on that did Facebook resell.
24:56
I still just have not gotten there.
24:58
I think by the time I get to the place
24:59
where I want things out of my house,
25:01
I like want them out of my house.
25:03
And I remember her saying in the episode,
25:04
you really do have to be OK to hold on to things
25:07
and like wait for someone to want to purchase them.
25:10
Yeah, which is where I'm not.
25:11
I'm like, I got to get this out.
25:13
No, she says like she just posted that
25:16
in her names, the marketplace mom on Instagram
25:19
that she just sold something that had been listed
25:20
for like a year and a half.
25:22
I know. I'm like, oh, my gosh.
25:25
I'm like, where's your storage?
25:26
She keeps. So she keeps a bin.
25:28
So she has a bin in a closet.
25:30
It's like if you have a closet and a bin, like I could.
25:34
It's great. It's like clothing.
25:36
And I do like even if you're not maybe if you're.
25:42
Even if you're not the most like money motivated person
25:44
because several times she's saying
25:45
like she's selling things for like three to five dollars,
25:47
what you know, still adds up.
25:49
But I do think it's such a service to like list it
25:52
and get it into get into hands of someone who needs it.
25:54
Because I mean, that I mean,
25:56
Bowdoin's a little different because those are expensive,
25:57
but like she knew what she had and I was so happy that I didn't.
26:00
Like I I was going to buy her some Bowdoin leggings.
26:02
So the fact that I just got to do it for eight dollars a piece,
26:04
I was so grateful that she just listed them together,
26:07
made it so easy on me.
26:09
I even try to negotiate. I just paid it.
26:10
Yeah. Speaking of personal style, I look at Bowdoin
26:13
and I like want to be a woman that dresses
26:16
like I do in a Bowdoin catalog.
26:19
I don't know why I'm not, but it's like I just I'm like,
26:22
I think it's so aspirational, but it never it never ends up on me
26:25
at looking the same way.
26:26
Well, it's a lot of dresses. Yes.
26:29
It's a lot of dresses.
26:31
Their pants don't come in tall sizes.
26:32
Like that's really hard for me.
26:34
I definitely like the Bowdoin kids.
26:40
OK, my final transaction,
26:42
which honestly is almost like a ditch to the drive through.
26:45
And we have talked about this before we talked about this
26:48
on the last take them a meal when we chatted.
26:52
But I just cannot say enough about buying a quiche
26:56
from your favorite. Sure.
26:58
Bakery, I haven't just it's not.
27:00
I don't even have that busy of a week,
27:02
but I just feel very physically drained.
27:05
And I just got back and I'll like leave again this weekend.
27:09
And for me to I'll go buy a quiche and it will be a great
27:13
like it might be like spinach and feta or, you know, whatever.
27:17
And then I will eat it for lunch every day with a bagged salad.
27:21
And just it is such an elevated, delightful lunch.
27:26
And, you know, sometimes I go at the quiche is like twenty five dollars,
27:29
which I feel like you're like, oh, twenty five dollars.
27:32
Like why should I want to pay for this?
27:34
But I think I'm going to do it myself.
27:36
I'm not in twenty five dollars for like five days of lunches.
27:40
Yeah. Is is a pencil.
27:45
I love the passion in your voice when you talk about this.
27:47
I need to find my local bakery with a quiche.
27:49
I have not. Yeah, I don't have one.
27:54
And an average quiche is tough because I can make an average quiche for sure.
27:59
So I need to really work on sourcing that.
28:01
You need the one where you're like, wow, this crust, this is a real crust.
28:04
And I, yeah, I like a lot of ingredients, too, because I mean, I could do
28:09
a ham and cheddar. I want I want a feta.
28:11
I want maybe a goat cheese or like some roasted
28:15
thundered tomatoes, like I want something.
28:17
And I also think it's a good.
28:20
Yeah, because it's not.
28:21
I think sometimes we forget to.
28:27
Like it's all about like, you know, what am I going to feed the kids?
28:29
Like getting the kids lunches, getting the kids breakfast, getting the kids
28:32
dinner, and then we deserve to have like, I love that Kate eats a fancy lunch.
28:37
It's like, well, I'm home alone during the day while the kids are at school,
28:42
like working. And so that's when I could like kind of have my moment in the sun.
28:46
Yes. And eat your food where nobody else is like, I didn't like that or I don't want that.
28:50
It's like, I don't care. It's actually not for you.
28:53
Yeah, for me. That's a really great idea.
28:54
I'm going to put that on my list of things to source today.
28:57
I've just got to find one. I know I've got to find one.
29:00
Okay. My last transaction was I am so excited because I'm working with a dream
29:06
partner of mine, which is athletic.
29:08
Yay. Yes. So I did one athletic activation.
29:11
Now I'm doing my second athletic activation and I one thing about working
29:17
with athletic and the capacity that I am, though, is they do make you buy your own
29:19
product and then which is fine because then you get the commission and they
29:22
give you a floppy. It's fine. I'd buy it anyway.
29:25
But I just placed my athletic order for my upcoming activation.
29:29
The only sting that I kind of told my manager, I was like, no, but like,
29:33
I'm promoting the sale, but like, I don't get to do the sale.
29:36
Oh, yeah. That is a saying.
29:39
You know what I mean? So like athletic, I don't know if I can say it,
29:41
but like it is going to be, they're having a sale coming up, but they're like,
29:44
hey, you have to buy pieces for the sale. It's like, well, can I get the sale price?
29:47
Do I have to, no, I'm like, oh, okay.
29:50
But I mean, I love, love, love, athletic.
29:52
So I just, I can't wait for my order to come in.
29:55
Can't wait for my order to come in.
29:56
And they support your tall girl, lifestyle.
29:58
They support my tall girl lifestyle.
30:00
They also just like run a little big, which is just,
30:02
I just feel like every brand should do that.
30:04
You know, like there's nothing worse than a brand running small.
30:06
So like I'm normally like getting normally like my true size is probably a medium,
30:11
but sometimes I buy smalls in Atlanta and that just, it's just, it's like a fun,
30:14
it's just like a fun thing to feel.
30:15
It's such a cute girlie.
30:17
Yeah. It's just like, so that's like, that's fun.
30:20
And they have, I love, love, love,
30:23
athletic fall and winter because, you know, the summer, the summer is just,
30:27
the pieces aren't very exciting.
30:28
Like, you know, it's a tennis skirt and a tank top.
30:30
Like that's just all you're doing.
30:31
But this is like jogger, long sleeve tee, trench coat, hat.
30:35
Like it's just like, it's a, it's a fit.
30:39
I did live my escort girl summer.
30:41
Like I just embraced my escort lifestyle.
30:45
And so I am feeling a little lost going into fall of what is my new escort.
30:50
But do you guys have, I, but like how long, how long will it be hot there for?
30:55
Well, it's funny because we're getting like cool weather.
30:57
We're, aren't you all getting like kind of unseasonably warm weather?
31:00
Yeah. We're unseasonably warm.
31:01
Okay. So it was 100 degrees yesterday.
31:03
Yes. We are getting like the weirdest cold weather for September.
31:06
Like everyone is rejoicing.
31:08
We're outside. We're like what, it's, it's bizarre that it's 65 degrees outside.
31:13
So yeah, Nate was telling me there's like some sort of weird pattern that's like,
31:17
we're getting cool weather.
31:18
You're getting warm weather when y'all should be getting, you know,
31:20
but I mean, we'll get like, it'll get chilly.
31:24
And because we're so weak, we will feel like it's really cold.
31:28
Like I'll be wearing a winter coat because I feel cold,
31:30
but you would be like, this isn't very cold.
31:32
Okay. But we'll get into like the 40s.
31:34
We'll get into the 40s.
31:35
And like when do you, like when would it be appropriate to like make a chili?
31:39
Like what, is that like not a November?
31:41
That's not a November thing.
31:42
Yeah. Probably November.
31:43
Cause unfortunately, Halloween is like very hit or miss.
31:47
You're like, should I buy my child a long sleeve outfit?
31:51
And then the year you do, it's like 80 degrees.
31:55
So Halloween is always like, it stinks when it's a hot Halloween.
31:59
You're just like, this feels wrong.
32:01
Yes. We go through the, yes.
32:03
We go through the same thing.
32:04
Okay. That makes me feel better, but y'all have that.
32:06
Yeah. November gets a way more consistent.
32:09
Okay. Well, that was fun.
32:11
I'm glad we've been transacting a little bit.
32:13
Okay. Next thing I wanted to do with Kate is called,
32:16
is our base model luxury where we share a recent new discovery.
32:19
And this is something, it might be an item,
32:22
it might just be a vibe, it might just be a thing,
32:23
but it's something that's just like elevating your daily life.
32:28
I'm going to start, and this is like, so,
32:30
this is like not a groundbreaking one,
32:32
but it really is something that's,
32:34
I'm very much like trying to kind of like ease into fall.
32:39
And I just love, I love trying to cultivate that vibe,
32:45
even when the weather is not there yet.
32:47
Okay. I'll just say is like the two things that I,
32:49
the two things that I did is I got out my fall tea towels.
32:54
I think that there's,
32:54
I think it's so easy and so fun to have a seasonal tea towel.
33:00
It's the changing of the guard.
33:01
And it's just, it's the tea towel that you,
33:03
maybe you just keep out, you use it.
33:05
It's not like no one's allowed to touch it,
33:07
but then I wash and I put it back where it goes.
33:09
I like though, like to really kind of commit to the bit
33:12
and like I put my summer ones in the closet.
33:15
Like they don't sit in the drawer
33:16
because I think it's like so fun to just bring out.
33:19
And you could so, I actually got,
33:21
we got a great gift for one of our wedding presents
33:24
was someone got me a tea towel for every holiday,
33:27
which was just like fun.
33:28
So like they gave me like a cute 4th of July, a cute Easter.
33:30
So like I had all of these.
33:32
And then I have of course like my date,
33:33
my date, like my other dish towels,
33:35
but I bring out that seasonal one.
33:38
The problem is now, have you tried geometry towels?
33:40
Okay. No, but yesterday I was like, I need to try this.
33:44
I feel kind of passionate that I really like
33:46
the ones that I have,
33:48
but I think I need to trust you and try this.
33:51
For all I know this is going to be parchment paper.
33:53
And just like you thought about it and you love it now,
33:56
maybe I will be like, Kelly, I've been wrong.
33:58
I apologize for not trusting you more.
34:01
Not just kind of hurt because I feel like anything you,
34:03
I don't even, if you tell me to buy something just like,
34:05
I'm like, okay, sure.
34:06
I don't ask a question.
34:09
Now I would say I did not,
34:11
I wasn't very passionate about my towels.
34:13
So I could see how like maybe I just,
34:16
I was just using like a classic like target one.
34:20
But I think that they're excellent.
34:21
I think that the Amazon,
34:22
like the thousands of Amazon reviews they have will back me up.
34:26
I'm going to order some today.
34:28
I'm going to send you one.
34:31
I'm just going to do that.
34:31
I'm going to text, I'm going to text my,
34:37
this isn't right now and say send Kate a geometry towel.
34:41
And I'm even going to pick it.
34:44
Should I go for my base?
34:47
I have a, I have a part two to mine.
34:49
My part two is that I've also been,
34:51
I've brought out my seasonal candle.
34:54
I like candles and I get like,
34:56
I don't know why like people,
34:59
I mean, I, I don't know why.
35:01
Everyone likes to say,
35:02
tell me how toxic candles are.
35:03
Like I can't post about a candle without being like,
35:05
you would act like I'm spraying like gasoline in my home with the messages
35:10
I get about candles and respectfully,
35:12
like I just need you guys just,
35:13
just like, let me have that.
35:14
Like let me have my candle.
35:16
If you don't want to let them in your home, that's fine.
35:18
But like if candles are what takes me out,
35:21
like if that, like that's what takes me out.
35:24
We have a candle lit in the kitchen right now.
35:26
And I'm like, if candles are wrong,
35:28
I don't want to be right.
35:31
I'm just going to train my body to filter those toxins out.
35:33
I just think I like fragrance in general.
35:36
I just like fragrance.
35:37
I like fragrance and like I've,
35:39
I've stopped using the dryer beads.
35:40
Like you guys yelled at me for that.
35:42
So that's my, I'm, I'm not using that.
35:44
I'm using unscented soap.
35:46
Like that's, I use branch basics on my counters.
35:49
Like respectfully, like let me have my candle.
35:52
And I like bringing out a fall candle.
35:54
Now I don't do a sweet,
35:55
I don't like a sweet pumpkin set.
35:58
I'm more of like, what's like a sweater,
36:00
weather, fallen leaves, crisp, you know?
36:04
Like I don't do, I don't do the,
36:06
I don't like to do sweet scents.
36:08
I like to do sweeter scents in the spring surprisingly.
36:10
But anyway, so I have my fall candle.
36:12
I have my dish towels out.
36:13
And it's just kind of like totally
36:14
changed the vibe of my kitchen.
36:16
Yes. Wow. Okay. I love that.
36:18
Cause even when it's like hot outside, you know,
36:20
yeah, we can just, we can cultivate that vibe inside.
36:24
Well adjacent to the dish towels,
36:26
I actually bought, recently bought new bed sheets
36:29
because rifle paper company did a collab
36:32
with the company store.
36:34
And I, I shared them on Instagram.
36:36
Oh my God. I saw these yesterday.
36:38
Please go on this tangent.
36:39
This is such a good one.
36:42
And there, I have just realized,
36:45
I interestingly enough at anthropology,
36:48
when I got to work with them,
36:49
I got to, you know, buy some stuff
36:50
and I bought some floral bed sheets,
36:52
like colorful bed sheets.
36:55
I put them on my bed and all of a sudden I was like,
36:58
this provided so much like color to my bedroom.
37:03
I, I, I don't like make my bed fully.
37:06
I like pull my sheets up and then fold them down
37:08
so you can like see the lip of the sheets.
37:11
So do you put them on backwards then?
37:15
I put them so that when you fold them,
37:17
You see the pretty.
37:18
Um, that's like funny because that's how I was taught
37:21
and I'm like, no, no, Nate, you're doing it wrong.
37:22
And he's like, why do you do it this way?
37:24
And I'm like, this is the way you do it.
37:25
So that when you fold it, you see the pretty side.
37:27
But, um, it's like, and our,
37:29
we have a one story house and so we,
37:31
I go through my bedroom to get to my office.
37:34
So I see my bedroom a lot during the day.
37:37
And the difference in having like a bright or just seasonal
37:42
or pretty bed sheet.
37:44
I'm obsessed with this tub.
37:46
And I think that there was this huge phase of the white bed sheet,
37:49
like hotel living, crisp, white bed sheet.
37:53
But my walls are like a cream color.
37:56
There's nothing in my bedroom that's like overly colorful.
38:00
And so the bed sheets just all of a sudden bring this
38:03
like really fun element and I can,
38:04
you can change them so easily.
38:06
It's not like I'm committing to a comforter or a duvet.
38:09
I'm just like, and so the ones I got, they're floral,
38:12
but the colors like definitely pull autumn.
38:15
Like it's like, yeah.
38:16
No, I'm looking at it right now.
38:17
They're, it's called the Lottie, right?
38:19
Yes, the Lottie and it's, and they did multiple
38:22
like rifle paper company did this big collab.
38:24
Kelly will link them for you, but they are,
38:26
and it's so funny because I just posted a picture
38:28
of Alberta in the bed and then I got so many of like,
38:31
what are these bed sheets?
38:33
And it's just a small thing.
38:35
It's, you're so right.
38:36
It's such like, it's so fun.
38:39
Oh, they're selling out.
38:40
Oh, Lottie sold out.
38:41
I'll have Lottie sold out in my, in a king.
38:44
Okay. Well, there's lots of others.
38:45
There's lots of others.
38:46
Yeah. I'm going to do this
38:52
I just have all the whites and I like my,
38:54
I like my duvet cover, but what if I got printed sheets?
38:59
And it's such a, like if you were to like in two years
39:01
be like, whoa, totally over that phase.
39:03
It's like you didn't wallpaper your bedroom.
39:07
Like it's so, it's such an easier thing to change.
39:12
And so that has been just like this fun.
39:14
Like I just walk in.
39:15
That has kind of been like my,
39:16
my changing of the tea towel.
39:18
Like I'm like, oh, they just feel kind of fall,
39:21
but they're not like over.
39:22
I could wear them anytime a year.
39:23
Like it's not like they have Christmas trees on them,
39:25
but they just feel kind of fall.
39:27
And that has just made me happy.
39:29
Also, yeah, I'm obsessed.
39:31
My mother-in-law kind of had something similar.
39:32
She, she was, and this is like an even easier way to do it.
39:36
She's really into pillowcases.
39:38
So she does something really cute.
39:40
Like whenever our kids go to our house to nap,
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she, she has bins of pillowcases.
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So like they have their pillow and she goes,
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go pick out what pillowcase you want for your nap.
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And it's so precious.
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And then she got, she was getting rid of a lot of pillowcases
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because she has so many.
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So she like gave us a lot of the pillowcases
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from the kids childhood.
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And like, let me be clear,
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they don't match the kids beds at all.
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Literally, who cares?
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It's so fun. George is like, you know,
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so when we do sheet change,
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I'm like, go pick out your new pillowcases
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you want on your bed.
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And it is just like so, so fun.
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And so you could just so, like so easily just start,
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when you go buy pillowcases for even cheaper,
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so you could just buy your kid a Halloween pillowcase.
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And like, you know, their beds does not have to be,
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their beds don't have to match.
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Like my kids' rooms look like they're, they're busy,
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but they're, but they're their rooms.
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And when they're older and they want to,
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they want to do that, they can.
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And like, I just like, I'm not going to stress myself out.
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Our kids also, it's like,
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I bought them matching bedspreads.
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They are in the closet and my girls are using like fleece prints.
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Well, they, two of them have Lola blankets
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and they are, they sleep with their Lola blanket.
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And then the other one's like a fleece princess blanket.
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It's like they're, it's so ugly.
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But I'm like, you know what?
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That's like what they love.
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That's what they love.
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So we're going to quickly move into industry news
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and then we're going to dish the drive through.
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There's not a ton of stories happening,
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but I thought this one was kind of interesting
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and it kind of bring it up one more topic
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I wanted to talk about.
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And that is, this is from Motor Trend.
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And it says, car design, AI can't design cars worth a damn.
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So AI, here's my issue with AI.
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I thought it was going to be like this big, scary thing.
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And I'm just so incredibly annoyed with it at this point
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because I have been, and I think Facebook is the worst.
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And I still, I told you,
41:24
I'm really big on marketplace right now.
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So I'm still logging on to Facebook a lot
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and like just scrolling like that feed.
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And every single story on Facebook
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is just like a fake AI story.
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Or it's like they're taking someone's face,
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making it look like they're crying
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and like putting a fake story with it.
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And like you look at like where the news force is from
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and it's from this like random group.
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And I'm just like, I don't even want to go on Facebook anymore
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because now I know that nothing's real that I'm reading
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and I'm just exhausted.
41:52
Like I guess I really thought it was going to be more scary.
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And it's just, it's just annoying.
41:59
Okay. On a similar note, not scary.
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First off, I loved Liz's episode
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on what she was using chat GPT for.
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I was like, it gave me like a lot of great ideas.
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But on a similar note, Nate and I have laughed like multiple times.
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Chat GPT has just keeps getting things wrong for us.
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And so like this is very simple.
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I was like trying to schedule my flights
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for this upcoming book tour stuff.
42:22
And I was like, what time zone is Birmingham in?
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And it was like central time.
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And I was like, great.
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And then I just really wanted to double check myself.
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And I was like, okay, so what time is it in Birmingham?
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And it told me it was two hours back from my time.
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So then I looked at Nate and I was like,
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wait, is central time two hours behind us?
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And he was like, Kate, no, it's one hour behind us.
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And I was like, okay, well, chat GPT is telling me
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that it's two hours earlier in Birmingham.
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And then I just quickly Googled
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what time is it in Birmingham?
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And it gave me the correct time.
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Chat GPT gave me the wrong time.
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I was like, what time is it currently in Birmingham?
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And chat GPT gave me the wrong answer.
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And I was like, how did you miss?
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Like, it wasn't even a hard question.
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That should have been a layup.
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I'm like, what if I had been like,
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okay, that's what time it is in Birmingham?
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And that's where I think like, I'm keeping my money on Google.
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Because the thing is like,
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chat GPT may have been the first, but like,
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I think Google's Gemini is a lot better than it was.
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And I just trust Google more.
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So I have not, I like, I've never,
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I have not paid for chat GPT.
43:32
I don't feel that need to do that.
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And I've just been kind of on my Gemini grind.
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And I just, I don't know.
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Do you pay for Gemini?
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No, I'm just like asking that things.
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I think it's, it's just,
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and I think there's going to be things
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we're going to use it.
43:48
But I really was like,
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I remember when it first came out thinking like,
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this is so scary because no one's going to know
43:53
if the images they're seeing are real or fake.
43:55
And it's like, no, actually we all do
43:56
because to the media's credit,
43:59
which like I literally hate to credit the media ever,
44:01
but like they really do.
44:03
I think you can trust the trusted sources.
44:05
Like if they, if like,
44:06
if they're putting something that you're like,
44:07
okay, that's what the person actually said.
44:09
But I think it's kind of scary for celebrities
44:10
because I'm already seeing like,
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Travis Kelsey said this.
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And it's like, he just like,
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they're just making up stories.
44:15
It's just these bots that are like
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making up these stories,
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putting a picture of his face with a quote.
44:20
And it's like, he didn't do any of that.
44:22
Like it's just, I'm just kind of like,
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I'm just like over it.
44:25
Like I think it's just, I'm bored with it.
44:27
I'm honestly bored with it.
44:28
So anyway, but one problem that is happening in auto
44:30
is because people are falling for it,
44:32
which we're going to get smarter.
44:34
And certainly the generation below us
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is going to get really smart
44:37
and just know what's real and what's not.
44:40
But they put out a lot of AI renderings of cars.
44:42
So like one thing that came out was like the excursion,
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the Ford excursion,
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which was like a very popular full size car
44:48
that they don't make anymore.
44:49
They're like, Ford's bringing the excursion back.
44:51
And it's like this rendered photo.
44:53
And it, I don't know, it looks really cool,
44:55
but it doesn't exist.
44:56
So you got to be mindful.
44:59
You got to be mindful.
45:00
Speaking of things in the future,
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this is a story from Car Dealership Guy.
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It says, Hyundai Motor temporarily grounds
45:08
And it just kind of reminded me like,
45:09
where are we at with air taxis?
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You know, like why,
45:12
which is like, where are we at with flying cars?
45:14
Because I did think we would have
45:15
flying cars by now in a way.
45:18
And apparently they were doing it at Hyundai Motor.
45:22
So it says, but they're pausing it because
45:27
they are having a leadership shakeup.
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And it's just not as big of a priority.
45:31
But it says when Hyundai launched Hyundai's EVTOL strategy,
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it's signaled a major bet on the future of mobility,
45:38
taking flight in the air with the company announcing in 2021
45:41
that will be part of its $7.4 billion investment
45:44
in smart mobility solutions.
45:46
And I'm just wondering,
45:48
crystal ball, do you think cars will take to the air
45:51
or do you think that we're fine on the ground?
45:56
That's a great question.
45:57
I definitely was very much believing,
45:59
didn't they say the Jetsons was meant to be
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or 2030 or something mild the year of the Jetsons?
46:07
I don't know how I feel about it.
46:09
I think I feel kind of scary about it
46:11
because I'm just like, do we have the tech,
46:12
not even the tech for the cars to fly,
46:15
but the tech for the navigation in the air.
46:21
That's the part that I'm like,
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how are we going to navigate this well, guys?
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First of all, the Jetsons was 2062,
46:28
so there is still some time.
46:30
That makes us feel good.
46:31
I'm aligned with you.
46:32
It just feels like another new thing we have to regulate.
46:34
And I just wonder, are we that far off from teleporting?
46:38
Because that actually would get me excited.
46:40
I would love to just teleport somewhere.
46:43
And I'm just wondering if it's like,
46:44
we can just skip over the whole fly
46:47
and let's go from driving to teleporting.
46:49
I'm going to be honest with you, Cal.
46:50
I think we're really far from that.
46:53
I think that's fair.
46:55
I also would imagine, like,
46:56
if they don't like scented candles,
46:57
like I can't imagine what they would say about teleporting.
46:59
Like putting your family through that.
47:00
But yeah, we're probably far off from that.
47:03
I would love to see a deeper jump
47:06
in everyone doing more automated driving,
47:08
but I'm personally not doing it, you know?
47:14
My car, like even if it wants to stay in the lanes,
47:16
it beeps at me if like my hand comes off the wheel.
47:19
Like it's like, don't you take your hand off the wheel though.
47:22
So it's like, trust us,
47:24
but don't you take that hand off that wheel, Missy.
47:26
Whereas I know some cars are like,
47:28
you can truly like sit back and drink your coffee.
47:30
Yeah, some cars will just keep your eyes on the road.
47:32
We'll take it from here.
47:34
Yeah, I do think that you're right.
47:35
That probably is next step before we teleport.
47:37
And I think it'll be interesting to...
47:42
I think it'll be interesting
47:43
if cars ever like not even so much
47:44
that I want to like sit there and scroll my phone
47:46
while I'm on the road.
47:47
But I think what would be more interesting
47:48
is if then a car could drop you off
47:51
and then go back and get another member of your family
47:52
or like go get another member of something.
47:54
Like I think that's what kind of my...
47:55
It's been my dad's prediction that the thing with cars is they're such...
47:59
They spend so much of their life sitting
48:00
and like it's kind of like such a waste
48:02
that it would be cool if it's like
48:03
the car can take the kids to school,
48:05
come back, pick you up, take you to work,
48:07
leave work to go, you know, get the kids.
48:10
Like so that could just be kind of like families,
48:13
my people to get down to having less cars
48:15
if the cars could start coming back home.
48:18
So I think we'll probably...
48:19
I think I'll probably...
48:19
We'll probably see that in our lifetime.
48:25
Next last segment, we have to do dish the drive-through.
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We share an easy dinner recipe to mix it up
48:29
to get you out of your...
48:39
and then if you have one,
48:40
I'd love to hear what you're doing too.
48:42
But I feel like every six months,
48:45
I just bring up tuna on the podcast
48:47
because it's just like some of those things.
48:51
Every couple of months it comes across my desk
48:52
and I hyper fixate on it and then I stop.
48:55
But recently I have been making a tuna melt
48:57
and it is unbelievable.
49:00
So I just take tuna,
49:01
I take a little bit of mayo,
49:02
a little bit of Dijon.
49:03
I add a little pickle juice.
49:07
I put it on a bagel,
49:10
I put a piece of pepper jack cheese on it
49:12
and then I put it in my air fryer
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for like three minutes.
49:19
You know, I don't actually...
49:21
It's hard for me to get behind warm tuna.
49:29
I'm already trusting you the dish towels.
49:31
That might be the warm tuna.
49:33
I don't want to plant my flag on that for you.
49:35
Like if it doesn't sound good,
49:36
it doesn't sound good.
49:38
But it's excellent.
49:40
I'm going to have it for lunch.
49:41
Like I can't wait to wrap this so I can go make it.
49:43
I'll send you a pic.
49:43
Okay. Please send me a pic.
49:45
Mine was kind of adjacent is...
49:47
And I've shared this as a real like last year.
49:49
But I just think that the grilled cheese sandwich...
49:55
Like when I make it...
49:55
So I'll make them for dinner
49:57
and it's like I'm making my kids like a grilled cheese sandwich.
49:59
Half of them don't even want a good bread.
50:01
They want like the crappy white bread
50:03
with like a slice of cheese.
50:06
The cutting boards out.
50:07
I'm already doing it.
50:08
So then for myself, I will like use a better cheese.
50:12
I will slice an apple on there.
50:14
I will put like a fun...
50:16
I'll put like fig preserves if I have them.
50:20
I'll use sourdough bread if I have it.
50:22
I'm still using the same cutting board.
50:25
But I feel like I can have such an elevated
50:28
grilled cheese experience
50:30
while at the same time giving my kids
50:31
whatever version of a grilled cheese.
50:33
And if I'm cutting the apple for my sandwich,
50:35
I can put apple on their plates.
50:36
Like I can use all the same elements.
50:40
I love a meal that's on a spectrum.
50:43
Like I love a meal where it's like
50:45
you can do the most, you can do the least.
50:46
Like you can do it for the kids, you can do it for you.
50:48
I think that's like just...
50:49
I think those are really versatile
50:50
and important meals to have
50:51
when you have a big family
50:52
and just like different preferences.
50:54
And like, I mean, I just can't wait for the day my kids...
50:57
I kind of like really appreciate the cook
50:58
that I think I am some days, you know?
51:00
Because like right now, like they're just such.
51:02
My talents are so wasted, not wasted, of course.
51:04
But like, they don't know what I'm capable of.
51:06
And my husband, like it doesn't know what I'm capable of either.
51:08
But I'm with you. I would love.
51:10
Just like no one in my family would eat a sassy grilled cheese, but me.
51:13
But one day they will.
51:15
And I'm so excited to share that with my children.
51:17
Yeah, me too, Kelly.
51:19
We're in the same boat.
51:20
Well, George doesn't like cheese.
51:22
And I'm telling you, it's the most annoying thing.
51:25
He's just like so like...
51:29
He doesn't like cheese.
51:34
Each of my kids is different.
51:34
Johnny's like my best eater, but he doesn't really like pasta,
51:37
which is like devastating.
51:40
So it's like he, I'm making, I'm making him like meatballs on the side
51:44
so that he'll eat the meatballs because,
51:45
but he's like so not a picky person that I'm like,
51:48
I kind of just have to give it to him.
51:49
I'm like, you know, I feel like pasta, it's okay.
51:50
He'll eat like sushi or Indian food.
51:54
Whereas nobody else is going to touch that.
51:55
Yeah, that's, that's kind of how George is.
51:57
Like George is probably my best eater.
52:00
All my kids are pretty decent eaters.
52:01
You actually, your kids are really great eaters from what I can tell.
52:04
I've been pretty blessed with what they're all, they're all good eaters.
52:07
And so I think honestly, I think George's,
52:09
I think I feel George is the most because they'll all eat veggies, fruit, protein.
52:15
Like what else, what else can you really ask for?
52:18
Well, anyway, Kate, that's our episode.
52:20
Thank you so much for having me.
52:22
You haven't, you saved my butt.
52:24
So thank you so much for joining the Carpool podcast
52:27
and we will talk to you guys next time.
52:29
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52:33
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