Know, Like, and Trust — What Reality TV Taught Us About Auto Repair Customers [E233]
Chris Cotton Weekly Blitz
Chris Cotton Weekly BlitzNov 17, 2025
Know, Like, and Trust — What Reality TV Taught Us About Auto Repair Customers [E233]
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This is the Automotive Repair Podcast Network. It's your weekly blitz with Chris keeping you in the game. Hey everybody welcome back to another episode of the weekly blitz. The podcast where we cut through the noise and talk about what it really takes to run a profitable well-led auto repair shop. Before we jump in, I want to give a quick thank you.
For all of you, our dedicated listeners, I appreciate each and every shop owner, manager and team member who tunes in, takes notes and does the work. If you've got a topic you'd like to hear about or you'd like to share your story, shoot me an email at Chris at autofixs.com.
This episode, the title is probably going to be something like no like and trust what reality TV taught us about auto repair customers.
I was going for a walk a couple days ago and I was listening to a podcast. It was, I think the guy's name Sean Duffy, he was on the real world and now he's in the government, he was a congressman, etc.
And he was talking about what it was like to be on an original episode of reality TV. And so I got to thinking about it while I'm walking, I'm a big shop marketing pros fan, they talk about the book no like and trust.
And I'm thinking about it, you know, I grew up in that generation, I'll be 53 in a couple of weeks and we grew up watching those shows and having them in our lives back way before MTV ruined it, right?
We grew up with survivor, big brother, the real world friends, wasn't reality, but man, it felt real. And kind of what it made me feel like inside was that we grew up and we could find like one person on that cast that we related to and it made us know like and trust those people, you know, again, no like and trust what reality TV taught us about auto repair customers.
That's where this came from, this is where it was in my mind because that connection felt real and we were part of their circle, right? I feel like the magic of those shows was simple, we got to know them, we liked them and eventually we trusted them.
And in that trust kept us tuning in week after week. And here's the thing, the same formula applies to our business, especially in the auto repair industry.
And so today I want to talk about how that no like and trust framework and what I learned from growing up with reality TV is the exact same foundation you need for building strong lasting relationships with your customers.
Think about why those shows worked, why they work. We saw the good, the bad and the ugly, you know, some of these shows now I don't watch, but they're out there like love is blind.
The bachelor, you know, people are messy and they're flawed and they're real and they're hot mess and sometimes their mess is bigger than our mess and we could relate to at least one of them.
You know, I don't know, maybe you see yourself in a cast member wanted to hang out with them and it wasn't about being perfect, right? It was about being authentic.
So now fast forward into our world auto repair, too many shops hide behind a counter, they hide behind industry jargon, maybe behind a corporate image, you know, but people aren't looking for polished perfection anymore.
They're looking for real in the book, they ask you answer, they talk about the idea, the moment you start addressing your customers fears doubts and questions, you build trust faster than any advertisement ever could.
So think about that we don't earn trust by talking at customers, we earn it by talking with them answering what they're really asking even the uncomfortable stuff.
Let's connect this to something simple when someone new finds your shop law online, that's your pilot episode, the first phone call they make, that's your first impression, that's your season premiere.
The first visit is your season one and whether or not they come back again, that depends on whether they binge watch your show or switch channels.
You know, there's a book called endless customers, they talk about creating a customer journey that doesn't end after the sale and in it he says that real marketing happens after the first transaction.
When you keep showing up providing value and earning trust over time and that's what reality shows did so well, they didn't win us over one episode they kept us coming back by being consistent and genuine.
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Okay, period in the store, there is nobody better than they them and what they do. All right, the framework, no like trust. So how do we make this happen in our shops?
Number one, you got to know and you got to be transparent. That's what that means. Be the shop that answers questions before they're even asked, publish videos, frequently asked questions, blog posts, short reels where your text explain why something matters, show your process, let customers peak behind the curtain
and let them be proud of what they see, not like skipping up to the odds and being shocked and all out by what they see. You know, people don't buy from businesses, they don't understand transparency builds familiarity and familiarity builds comfort.
Number two, like be relatable. I want you to humanize your shop, show the faces behind the counters and the hands behind the tools, share a picture of your team barbecue, introduce your text by name with a short story.
Here's Jake, our suspension specialist. He's also the guy who grills the best brisket in Durango. That's the stuff that makes people smile and think I'd like to do business with them.
We just ended breaks for breasts, shout out to us, pat ourselves on the back. We gave out over $2,000 in free break pads and was able to almost donate $2,000 to the Cleveland clinic.
But one of the things we did, like wait in September, almost too late, I'm like, man, I want to do pink shirts for everybody that works at the front. So we took a picture at the counter in our pink shirts.
And that was in most of our marketing and everything for the month for breaks or breasts. And then we just did a follow up marketing thing where we talked about what we're able to do for the community.
Number three, trust, be consistent, deliver what you promise always when you say we'll call you to make the call it 155.
Trust is is built in these micro moments. Every small promise kept reinforces the big one, okay?
And don't be afraid to reviews respond to all of them. Good, batter, ugly and respond with honesty and professionalism. Maybe don't hit the send button as soon as you get it done. Maybe write it up.
Come back 30 minutes later and read it and be like, hey, is this something I really want out there? But when you do that, you're showing the world that you're real and that you care.
Again, we want people that know like and trust us. We want to know like and trust other people.
You know, when it comes to storytelling in the connection, one of the reasons people love friends was because it mirrored real life.
Work stress, relationships, money issues, personal growth. Hey, how you doing?
You know, you can do the same with your business. Tell stories. Talk about the customer who drove 50 miles to see you because another shop didn't explain their issue.
Talk about how your team helps someone get back on the road for their kids graduation. These aren't marketing moments. They're human moments.
And just like friends had characters you loved, your shop should have its own cast of heroes. Maybe your advisor is the Joey loyal friendly and maybe a little goofy but always reliable.
And so funny that that's it. I have a Joey in my shop. His name is Joey. I don't know that he's goofy but he is reliable as hell and he is great and people come in looking for him.
You know, maybe your technician is Monica detail obsessed and gets the job done right. Build your story around those personalities and values. That's how customers form emotional connections with your shop.
Maybe the biggest lesson I've learned from both TV and businesses this people remember how you make them feel.
They'll forget the bill total or the exact repair but they're going to remember the trust. They're going to remember feeling heard and they're going to remember being treated like family.
So if you want customers to know I can trust you let them see the real you show your process. Tell your story. Keep your promises. That's the recipe that's going to turn one time visitors into lifelong customers.
And I'm just drew blank on this. I don't know why I didn't add it in. There's a quote by John to Julius. I think that says customers remember how you made them feel long after prices for God.
Oh, I think I nailed that will keep it. I want you to go out and check out more great shows on the automotive repair podcast network including remarkable results radio business by the numbers diagnosing the aftermarket A to Z.
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I'm coach Chris cotton reminding you be real be consistent and build that no like trust. Every day have a great day everybody remember to rising grind.
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About this episode
Exploring the connection between reality TV and customer relationships in auto repair, this episode emphasizes the importance of the 'know, like, trust' framework. Chris shares insights on how authentic storytelling and transparency can build lasting customer connections. Drawing parallels with reality shows, he discusses the significance of being relatable and consistent in service. Real-life examples and marketing strategies are shared to illustrate how to humanize the business and foster trust, ultimately turning first-time visitors into loyal customers.
Original notes
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Episode Summary:
Coach Chris Cotton dives into how reality TV and shows like Friends shaped the way people connect with authenticity — and how those same emotional triggers apply in today’s auto repair world. Using lessons from They Ask, You Answer by Marcus Sheridan and Endless Customers by John Jantsch, Chris shares how shop owners can build deep customer loyalty through transparency, consistency, and storytelling.
Key Takeaways:
Authenticity beats perfection — customers connect to what’s real.