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Welcome to the Carpool podcast with Kelly. You're showing someone a song that they don't know.
And then you like sing it to them? And it's like, shut up. Like, let me listen to it.
Like, sorry I haven't heard this song. First of all, you singing it poorly is not helping me.
And Liz. You know what? I don't even like, you haven't heard that song? No. I don't pull out
your phone and put Spotify on it. Oh, don't. Your mom time off starts now. Welcome back
to the Carpool podcast with Kelly. And Liz. And the unnamed baby Saint John.
But stay tuned because she may be named by the end of this episode. We have Colleen from naming
baby. Come on to give me a naming consultation, which is literally my dream come true.
It was like, I could sit in on them all day. Like if she ever needs an assistant, a sounding board,
like if anyone wants me in my no experience to do a baby naming console, like I would love to.
I love baby names. I'm obsessed. It's really fun. And this is the only time in your life
you're going to do it. Like you really get one shot because even when you have like grand babies,
like you got to stay out of that conversation. You have to stay so far out of that. This is your
only time to do it. And it's really exciting. Naming animals like just does nothing for me.
Like we have so many animals. Like you think it would like scratch the itch a little bit.
It doesn't scratch my itch at all to want to name another baby. Well, because a baby you're
thinking about an adult, you're thinking of who they're going to be, have a very caring name.
I love the sipset as she calls them. Like how it sounds to my other kids names. I just,
yeah, I love all of it. I love it. Also, it was really fun. Literally my dream come true. And just
like, I just like loved sitting there and just like having someone just like listen to me
to talk about all my irrational thoughts about it. And she asked hard hitting questions. You know,
one of her first questions out of the gate was what about Kelly? And I think we've all been
wondering what about the name Kelly? I think you've been pried. No, I think a lot of people have
actually. Oh, okay. Well, stay tuned because I answer what about Kelly? Anyway, before that,
it's post 4th of July. And I'm just so pleased to report that I again, once again, love being a
kid mom and I am sorry to be annoying, thriving is for so many summers, it hadn't been my summer.
And this summer is in fact my summer. I know. No, I'm very happy for you. It's very much deserved.
You very much earned it. Yeah. And I am just so happy to see you happy.
I love it. Like it's just so fun to have my whole body to myself to like give it all to my
children and like a more in a different way than like a pregnancy breastfeeding way.
Mm hmm. And I'm just having so much fun. We had such a good time at the lake. The kids had so much
fun. And like I'm getting to where it's like, I don't want summer to end. Like what?
But I know I'm just thinking about you saying like you're giving your body to your kids in a way.
It's like, yeah, like you getting on a tube with Libby, your kids are probably like, mom's getting
on a tube normally because normally mom's been sitting in the boat breastfeeding a baby.
Like mom couldn't get on the tube. No, you love it. And like, I just really think, I know we
talked about this in the last episode, but like my brain is just wired like a child. Not like an
eye. So we had, we had some of our, of my cousin's kids come down and she has like older kids. So
I think her kids are like, I don't know, 10 through 11 through six. She's got four boys.
Like, so she has a lot of kids. And I was just like, I was coming up with the best games. So
I played the one game where like I stood on the other end of the deck dock. I'm sorry. The other
end of the dock. And they had to try to cannonball get me wet. Like they did it for hours.
Oh yeah, sure. Like so fun. Or did I get you? And I'm like, not a drop. Try harder. Like it was
so funny. They're like, oh no. Let's jump in together. Like their belly flopping. Like they
were having, that's just such a fun game. We played categories classic where you jump off the
high dive and mid jump. I say color and you have to say something. Classic. Yeah, done.
We had one of those like water mats that like go on the lake and we kept inching it
further and further into the water to see if they could clear the jump over it.
So fun. Like so. And these games, like cause you, you've always said you don't love playing like
with your kids. You don't like getting on the ground and fighting dinosaurs, but I'm not doing
pretend play. No, you like this kind of stuff. Like you're having fun. You want me to have a game
capture the flag? Done. Yeah. Yeah. Like let's go. In George and Heidi, we're just like keeping up
with them and it was so fun. Like really, I just had a really great weekend. It's fun to see your
kids with older kids because you see that they're maybe more ready for things or they'll catch on
to things that you maybe weren't, didn't think they were ready for. Yeah. If they can like follow
older kids doing it. Totally. So that's, that's a lot of fun. Well, while you were doing that,
I did not go to the Ozarks because I'm just too freaking pregnant. And I'll be honest with you
would have probably brought the vibe down. Well, okay. So this week and I've been meeting
a post this in the Facebook group because I have been experiencing what Google is in myself and
diagnosing as pelvic girdle pain, which if you've experienced pelvic girdle pain, which one in five
pregnant women do WTF is this. I am in constant pain. It hurts to walk. stand. It
hurts to lay down. Like when I'm laying in bed, rolling over and agonizing pain.
So can't believe I have to do this for several more weeks. Doesn't seem right. Doesn't seem fair.
I thought with my first one, I thought I was so good at being pregnant. I'm just like, I have no
pain. I have no nausea. Like I'm just built for this. Like I'm just better. I'm just so good at
being pregnant. Anyway, I've been immediately humbled and I'm struggling in a big way. But
I'm going to push through. You're going to push through and we're, I'm here to help in any way
I can. I mean, Cal, I was laying in bed the other night and I told Maddie, I'm like,
it will be easier to have a baby right now than to, for me to be experiencing this. Like that's
how bad it is. And that's crazy to think that I'm like, I just need to get a third child. I just
need a third child out of the womb to take care of because in the womb, it's not working for me.
I'm so sorry, Biebs.
It's fine. I am so thankful for you and for mom and for Maddie and for everyone helping me out.
So I'm really, really lucky.
Well, I did develop, or I didn't, I did become aware of like a new ick
that I just like want to bring up. And it's something that I have done in the past. And I just
want us to as like, as a, as a population, as a generation, if we need to stop doing this.
Okay. You know, when you like tell someone like, oh, have you heard this song before? Or like,
you don't know this song? Or like, you know this, you're showing someone a song that they don't know.
And then you like sing it to them like, like, you're like, let's go. Like then, and it's like,
shut up. Like, let me listen to it. Like, sorry, I haven't heard this song. First of all, you singing
it poorly is not helping me. And like, why, I can't sing along with you. So just shut up.
You know what? I don't even like, you haven't heard that song. No, I don't pull out your phone and
put Spotify on. Send it to me in a text if you're that passionate about it. Because, because then
we have to sit there for three minutes and I have to pretend like I, like, I will maybe grow to like
that song. But I need to listen to a song a couple of times. The first time I hear a song, I don't
like it. But don't let me sit now in silence with, well, in silence with you outside of the song
playing and like, have me have to react. And then I'm saying, and then they're like singing it,
like louder, like pointing at you. Like, you're like, what am I supposed to do with, I don't know
this song. Like, yeah, hate, hate, hate. Okay, I agree. That just obviously came up at the
like, party in this weekend, you know, in, in party and we, like Charlotte posted a recap reel,
our brother's fiance. And I'm like, Oh my gosh, we like drink so much. That was my one takeaway
from the video. I'm like, it's a really cute, well done video. It looked like so much fun.
Oh my gosh, all they did was drink. I did not drink that much. But
well, it's also just a snippet of it all, you know, it was just a snippet, but it was fun.
You're showing. Yeah, it looked like fun. I was playing categories. And I mean, I got my hair
wet every single day. Like I was in the lake. I'm a fun, I'm a fun mom. You are fun. I just don't
like sitting with a baby. Like I would just so much rather not do that. I would rather be playing
with the kids, but not the toddlers. There's a difference for me. I don't want to play with
the toddlers. I want to play with the kids. Yeah. Another like big development, because I've
already been working on my summer notes. And at the end of summer, I'm going to give a summer
note recap, but like really like to me, the MVP of the weekend was life is good in their
patriotic t-shirts. I'm so happy for the recommendation and to have found life is good
t-shirts, because the one thing about life is good is it's all they do. They're, they're a t-shirt
company. And I love investing in decent play clothes. Like I like a hundred percent cotton
shirt and I like a well-made t-shirt. Like a t-shirt I can pass down. I like t-shirts I can wash a
hundred times. And I love Hannah Anderson, Bowden, T. Those kids shirts are upwards of, sometimes
they're $29 a pop for a kid's t-shirt, because I'm sorry, be so for real. Be
And so sometimes I'll buy them on clearance or sometimes I'll find them thrifting or like
sometimes I will buy one. But like t-collection, who I love t. I mean, I love t-collection and I do,
I do, I buy a ton of resale from them. I do buy some new things. I wanted to buy an American
Girl doll shirt for Hattie because they had an American Girl doll edition. It's a $39 t-shirt.
Get out of here. I'm not playing that for a child t-shirt and I'm not a good laundress,
so it's going to get stained. If I was a better laundress, maybe I'd feel differently. I'm not.
Yeah. Life is good shirts, great quality, great prints, 100% cotton washes great $16 and sometimes
they have sales. And that is enough. It's a specialty shirt, like 16 bucks times four. It's
still not amazing. It's not $8. It's not cat and jack, but they are so amazing. I literally cannot
wait to see what they can do for fall and Christmas. Yeah. No, they're going to be good
ones to buy when you just like buy the sibling, the sibling set and it's like a special occasion
t-shirt. No, right. But I'm telling you, I mean, they had one deal where it was like,
you bought 45 shirts, you got one for free. So you paid for four shirts. I'm like,
okay, that was good. So then it made all the shirts a little cheaper and they're so...
Well, and you're getting to the age two where it's like, you can't buy cat and jack shirts that
are all going to match because George and they don't make them. They're not going to have the same
prints. They're not going to go together. I don't really need them to match all that much as much
as I'm just looking for like a fun go together. Go together. I'm just looking for like a fun
festive shirt. And I was just really excited about what, about what cat and jack could do for me.
About what life is good could do for you. Sorry. What did I say? Cat and jack?
Yeah. Yeah. No, I'm excited to see what, how life is good will continue to serve me.
No, it's exciting. Another big note I have for like, if you are a younger family and you're a
Lake family, my recommendation to... So like Tyler bought us all life jackets. He was very
body, what is it called? Body glove. Shout out. Best life jackets. And Tyler's like,
I'm just buying all of our family matching life jackets. Cause when we go to the lake,
there's no question like which one is which. It's like all the stumpy ones are these blue
and orange life jackets. And I was like, it's a good idea. Like just buy the life jackets.
And so we bought like literally two sizes in some of the sizes because like whatever,
we did the math. We own like seven of these life jackets now. And our biggest regret,
I looked at them today and I'm like, you should have got them red, white and blue.
Okay. Yeah. Because when you're at the lake, because first of all, summer is patriotic. Like
I'm wearing red, white and blue always looks good in the summer, whether it's the fourth of July
or not. And I was a little mad that all my kids had these like red, white and blue shirts and
shorts and swimsuits. And then they have to put on an orange life jacket. Oh, it was a really good
note. I kind of want to adopt. I'm gonna do that. I'm going to try and find a red, white and blue
and I'm going to buy my family all matching life jackets. Yeah. Because we need to do that.
That's a good note. I appreciate that. And also I wrote on my note to think about like,
when I'm buying summer clothes for the kids, remember they're going to be wearing a lot of
red, white and blue. So like only having black shorts isn't very helpful. Like I'd love a navy.
I'd love a red. Sure. Like I wish George would have had red shorts. Yeah. You know what? I think
like a color scheme for your child is a good idea. But I like that you can make that a seasonal
color scheme. So it's like in the fall, he doesn't only have to wear like you can introduce greens
and such in the fall if you want to. But like, yeah, maybe when you're doing because at this age,
you have to like buy them wardrobes every freaking season. Yeah, maybe like stick to a color scheme.
Well, and I'm thinking about their summer crocs, because as you guys know, one of my notes last
year was like, I just believe in buying name grand crocs because I just think they hold up well.
My kids wear crocs all summer. Like that's all we wear. Next summer, I will buy the girls white
and I will buy the boys navy. So again, Libby isn't wearing her red, white and blue and these
sparkly pink crocs. Yeah. And guess what? I'm telling you our new summer color scheme is red,
white and blue. I love red, white. I think red, white and blue with a hint of red and I can take
the white and blue into the other seasons because we wear a lot of white and blue in this house.
And then we'll introduce the red. But yeah, I'm not doing, I'm not buying orange shorts anymore.
I'm just not doing this game. I'm not playing this game. I approve of all of this. Yeah,
so that was that's one of my biggest summer takeaway notes. Because even if we're not,
then everyone matches, everyone goes together and like it's so effortless.
Mm hmm. Yeah. Yeah. So big note for me. Okay. I like it.
Don't you like that? Like I really thought that through.
No, I love it. I'm gonna, I'm going to adopt it. I'm going to, I'm going to take it. It was helpful
for me. Okay. So thank you. Thank Let's see. What else? Something on my,
what I'm thinking, we're just like thinking two totally different things is I'm thinking about
my hospital bag and I have started packing it and I've started watching content around hospital
bags and my new egg is and there's a time that I like this and there's a time that as influencers
we've done things like this, but like I'm so sick of watching reels where someone will pack
something and it's like everything they just bought off Amazon. And I know you've never used
any of this stuff and you're telling me to comment link for all of the stuff that you just bought
you don't even know if it's good or not. And I see it a lot in packing videos like let's pack my,
let's pack my hospital bag, let's pack my car. And I'm like, you don't,
this is all brand new stuff. I don't know if you actually use this stuff. Like, you know what I mean?
I just like the moment I see like a clear plastic container that's going to be stuffed with more
plastic things. I'm, I'm like, I'm logging off like I'm done. But something that I've noticed
about the hospital, I started packing my hospital bag and I almost felt like I was doing it wrong
because I don't have anything new in my bag. It's like, these are the pajamas I wore. I've had for
three years. These are the, my toilet, my toiletry bag is, you know, has toiletries
remnants all over it. Like it's not pretty. It's not new. Like I'm not going to post a pack my
hospital bag with me because it's all like ugly and not aesthetically pleasing. But because
I've watched so many reels of other people packing their beautiful hospital bags, I feel like I'm
literally doing it wrong. Liz, I think, you know, to be a successful content creator, it's also
knowing where your strengths lie and there are going to be more aesthetically pleasing, more
organized, better hospital packing videos than you. So don't even throw your hat in the ring.
No, I'm not. And so that's not what I'm saying. I'm not going to throw my hat in the ring.
But what I'm saying is that because I've watched so many and because the internet just had so many
beautiful ones and I, I, I have a false sense of reality. Yeah. And I think that's a problem.
So I'm just like drawing, I'm trying to, what's the solution? Well, no, I'm just saying that
it's normal to not, to just have like your old crusty stuff bringing to the hospital.
The only, anything new that's coming with me to the hospital is going to be for the baby because
I do like to buy my babies their own individual swaddle because I associate a pattern with my
child as a newborn. But like, no, I'm not buying like a new robe and new pajamas and new everything.
And I'm not going to, I don't take photos in the hospital. Like you're just not going to see it.
And I'm just so on like that side of Instagram. And I just like, okay, I don't know. I just like,
I just want everyone to, I just want people to know if anyone else is feeling like me and like
their stuff doesn't feel good enough because what you see on the internet, it's just
they're, it's just, it's not true. It's not real. I think that's, I think that's a real,
I think it's always good to just remind people of that. I was just reflecting and I wanted to
share my reflections. And that's what this, and that's why you have a platform in the podcast.
Exactly. Exactly. Who else would you say to? Yeah, I mean, I'm just like wondering have you
gotten any hate for like your child not having a room and like having a dresser in a hallway?
And I also know for a fact you own a Louis Vuitton purse too.
No, I haven't, I haven't faced any hate for it yet, but I stay off that side of the internet.
Right. I don't look at the hate stuff anymore.
And that's on growth. No, I haven't, haven't had that yet.
Well, should we get to that? You're just so much more polarizing than me though.
I'm so polarizing. Yeah.
Yeah, we can get to, to our interview. I loved it.
I want to do, okay, we don't have to do it on this episode, but like also I just
really enjoyed a lot of good like snackies and dips this weekend too. Okay.
And like I just like love a snackie and a dip.
Okay. Well, like what are you thinking of specifically? So let me just, let me just get
them out of the way really fast because we're only doing one episode a week and people might
want to throw this for their next shindig. So there's two dips that will be gone if you make
them and they're both three ingredients, four, one's four ingredients and I'm not counting the
chips, but total chips included five ingredients. Okay. Okay. The first one is mama J's taco dip
classic. So this is our childhood, our mom's best friend, we call our mama J and her dip is sour
cream, taco seasoning, spread thinly on like, you know, a pie dish. These are, you can make
these both in a pie dish. Sour cream, taco seasoning, mix it up, spread on a pie dish,
top with shredded cheese, add diced cherry tomatoes, serve with tostinos or serve with like a
tortilla chip. Unbelievable. Will be gone. Can't, Elizabeth will not be gone.
Insane, delicious. I think sometimes she's added like olives in the past. Like you can
unnecessary, but like, I'm sorry, get out of here with like your seven layer dip with the
refried beans. I'm sorry, get out of here. I don't want that. It's, it's unnecessary. I know I'm
browned guacamole. I don't want any of that. This is like a good go to boat. Like you put it in the
fridge. You can make it the day before you put in the fridge, you pull it out. It's easy. Yeah. And
you will eat it. You can make it on the boat. You can make, you can mix the, the top of the
seasoning in the, in the sour cream container and then bring it on. Just serve that if you have to.
I mean, it's better in a pie dish with cheese, but if you don't have that headspace, you don't have
the headspace. Yeah. The next one does require to be baked, but it's so worth it. It's a same pie
dish, well different pie dish, which maybe you're bringing to cream cheese on the bottom.
Okay. Then you get canned chili. Okay. Oh, you've had, this is Susie's dip. I don't think I've had
this. Cream cheese on the bottom, canned chili. I prefer like a no bean canned chili. Okay. I know.
It's like, like, it's, it's like, Oh, I would never eat canned chili. You're fine. It's great in a
dip. Top it with cheddar cheese, pop it in the oven till the cheese is melty and everything gets like,
Oh, okay. Now I have a picture in it. I didn't know it was canned chili. I never thought about
how you make it. It's canned chili. Okay. Serve with Fritos. Unbelievable. So then you get melted
cheese, chili, cream cheese, which I get like, I would never probably, I draw the line at eating
a bowl of canned chili. I'll eat a bowl, bowl of canned soup. I could never eat canned
chili, but I can enjoy it in a soup or in a dip. I'm sorry. I would never, I don't, I would never
not eat canned chili. Okay. Well, I'll let you look at the can when you're pulling it out and then
decide. Okay. Sure. Sure. I didn't know that's how you made that dip. That's a really good dip. I
like that one heated up. I like the melted cheese. It's so good. I didn't know I had a cream cheese
base. I'm learning a lot right now. And it is that I made both of them both gone, like scraping
the pan people were. Okay. Fabulous. So they're two very easy dips. Fabulous. I love that. Yeah.
And those are like, you could both just like always have those on hand.
And then when like people come over or like, if you feel like your dinner that you made is
like a little light, you pull out a dip to, to just kind of, you know, fill in the gaps.
Okay. I love it. Okay. Well, that's all I got. I mean, that's a lot.
No, it's a lot. You're going out of town tomorrow. Oh my gosh, and I'm going to Florida
tomorrow. You're going to Florida tomorrow to record a podcast. And you know what I'm doing
tomorrow? What is I'm packing up all my podcast record equipment. I'm taking it to BMW of West
St. Louis and I am interviewing dad. Wow. I don't know when that episode is going to come out. I
think it might just be like a hold for when we aren't able to get a podcast out and we'll post
it. But this will be big Craig's big debut on the podcast and I'm really excited about it.
I'm excited too. And as although I'm sad to miss it, I do think he will be better with just a one
on one. Yeah, I agree. And I think you're the better person to do it because I think me and him
would talk over each other. I just, I think it's going to be really good. And I have to approach
it differently than we approach mom with a podcast because dad's not like going to be like a girly
girl and like talk on the podcast. Like we could just like have mom here. So it definitely, his
hand needs to be held a little bit more and it has to be a little bit more organized and formal
and everything. So that's my approach with him. Love. So yeah. Okay guys, well, let's get into our
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Nemenbebe aka named Colleen. Welcome to the Carpool podcast. Is this your first time? No.
Second time. Second time. We probably did it like a year ago. It was right after you guys had had
your bebes. Libby as well. So I walk around with my head just a little higher than the rest of you
because me and Colleen both have a son with the same name. So like if a baby namey consultant
chose my baby's name, like it's kind of, I'm kind of that girl. Which one, George? George's.
Actually what's funny is if I ever had another child, which is very unlikely,
Frederick would be high on my list and I'm like, I'd probably have to have a little like heart
heart with Kelly to make sure that's cool with her. It is out of all my children's names,
his name gets the most compliments for sure. Really? I feel like when you first have a baby,
they're like, everyone's like, oh, I love the name. But when someone looks at like
connerals and compliments their name, like they hear me on the playground and they're like,
it's his name, Fred. Be like, that's the cutest I've ever heard. Thank you. He wears it well.
He does wear it well. It's so cute. And you just don't hear it much.
Well, and you know what else I like about like old fashioned names? Because you have
Rory, Jane and George. And Liz, you have James and Sloan. We kind of all have like,
we're all in the same, all the same elk kind of names. We're on like a, we're on a Venn diagram
and we each have our own little part. Totally. But what I like about like those older,
more classic names is do you know like the old people's days I just make when they're like,
oh my God. Her name's Harriet. That was my mother's name. And it's like this old woman or
she or like, I mean, it's like, I am single handedly putting smiles on old people's faces
every single day when I go out with my children because of their names. It's so true. Like the
most compliments I get are from people like 65 and up. Totally. Totally. And I, I've almost,
I think I've met one other little Jane, but other than that, the Jains I meet are like
80 and up or like, I've met a dog named Jane, which is a whole nother field of names.
Which is such a comment. Like, it's not a weird name. Like it's a regular old name.
It's like, it's a beautiful name, but it's not like, that's what I love. Those are the
types of names that I love that sound like names and our names, but aren't like only done.
So I feel like both me and Liz have like some like more classic names. And then like,
we, we dipped our toes in the modern waters. I have Rory, you have Sloane.
These like Celtic names that have come over and become mainstream in America.
Like Liam being the most like popular example.
Totally. No, it's very funny. We, um, I talked about my baby names and someone was like,
I think it's interesting that Liz said she likes traditional names. So like Sloane
isn't very traditional. And my husband commented on it and he's like, it's an ancient Irish name.
Like it is just not like an American name. He's fighting the good fight. He is, he is.
I would have been like, yeah, it's so new. I agree with that person. I did not know
how old of a name it was. Well, I remember when you guys were talking about it,
like when you were pregnant and you were giving clues and you were like, Kelly
didn't know how to spell it or something like that.
Still don't for a lot of names.
And so, uh, this time around, will we be incorporating the name Kelly, you know,
what's, what's fair is fair. Kelly is Kelly is a family name for Kelly is my sister's name,
but Kelly's also our mom's maiden name, which is where her name comes from. So Kelly is not
off the list for our contenders for a baby's middle name throughout any of right now. I think
we're more considering, uh, like Christine or Elizabeth. Christine's our mom's name. Elizabeth
is my name. Also our grandmother's name. There's like a lot of traditional middle as a middle
potentially. Um, but I wouldn't say no to Kelly. I wouldn't, I don't hate it.
Kelly, thanks for asking that question. Yeah. Because it has been, I've been circling the
drain on it cause I, it's just like wondering like if it's even, yeah. Um, but we also like,
we also like sun, like I, I think more for probably a boy, but I do like the thought of
using sun trap as a middle name. Yeah, love that. Um, but that's probably more what I would
want to do for a boy. So not so much as consult. So we're having, anyway, we're having Colleen on
the podcast again, because like I need what she calls name you like naming baby 911. Like
we don't have the name. The clock is ticking. Clock is ticking. So Maddie and I cannot, like
he has names that if, if I weren't in the picture, like the baby would be named. If Maddie was in the
picture, the baby would be named. So we're trying to like bridge that gap. So I'm very curious to
just like do a naming consultation. This is, this is the instance that I think you're here for.
Like husband and wife can't figure it out. Like let's, let's bring in the expert. It's really
named therapy at this point. Okay. Dr. Colleen, let's hear it. I mean, at the end of the day,
Liz is having the baby. I do have a little bias towards like the mom gets the final say.
And if you think about it, like the dad picked the last name. So it's also like calm down.
Well, usually people will be like, well, I get the middle name because he got the last name.
But I feel like names fall into this bucket of like style and aesthetic that generally we do
take the lead on. Like when you think about like your house decor and things like that.
My husband has no style or aesthetic. So I hear. So he can help.
But I will, I will say whatever if I was like,
absolutely. I kind of did that with Sloan. I was like, Sloan is the name I've always had for a
girl. Like that's gonna be the name. My husband, my husband is, will always, you know, give me
essentially whatever I want. But I do think it's important to consider his wishes. And you want
them to be excited about it. I want him to love it. Like I want him to, because he loves our kids
names. Like I want him to feel that same like joy and pride that I feel. So and it does get harder
the more kids you have, like for sure, your best stuff. And like, I think sometimes the love has
to grow a little bit. But let's get started. Okay, let's do it. So generally, I would have
sent you a 15 question questionnaire to fill out about your name preferences before we started.
But we're just going to gather a little information here because we probably don't have time for that.
So the biggest things are what are your kids names? We already know that we've got James and Sloan.
What are your top contenders? And then in that list, I want to hear like, what names you love
that have gotten vetoed? And what names Matt, Maddie loves that have gotten vetoed?
Okay, so like names that I, if I could name the baby, it would be the name would be Gwen.
Oh my God, I had it on my list for you. I love Gwen. So cute. Something, a name that Maddie
really likes that is similar to Gwen is Quinn. But it's not the same to me. And so I couldn't,
really go with that. We like, we've talked about Margo. We've talked about Maeve.
Cecilia. Okay. I feel like we kind of, oh, Maddie, one name that Maddie liked was Orillia,
which is just too much. That's too much of a mouth for me. Yeah, I get that.
He really loves like names like rooted in history. So we're not big on, you know, like surnames.
I love, I said like, I like the name like Cameron, like I like Ryan, like I kind of like,
You do like the cool girl names. The cool girl masculine names, but Maddie has a harder time
giving a girl like a traditionally male name. So okay, okay. Interesting because Sloan is like
in that bucket. It's just currently more of a girl's name. Whereas because it has like a history
because Maddie's family is from is Irish. So again, like ties to like those Celtic things. So it's
like, he we've kind of realized as we've talked about it, we like French names, French sounding
names, and we like Irish sounding names. Okay. I love like we love the name. What's that name?
That's like so impossible to spell. That's Irish like Sirsha. Sirsha. We both think that's beautiful.
I know. I can't believe you're really new. Hold on. I can't believe you literally knew what
name she was talking about. Liz goes, what's that name that's impossible to spell? Sirsha.
I think it's, I think it's beautiful. It's so cool. I know. But I can't do the spelling.
S-A-O-I-R-S-E. Yeah. Sirsha. Sirsha. Can we pause for just a second? Can I ask
like just a question? I do find it interesting. Like names that you like the sound of but hate
the spelling of. Yup. A name that I really liked but could never get past was Imaging.
Mm. I feel that. Because it's spelled I-M-O. Like what? G-E-N-E. But I think Imaging sounds
really pretty. No, you're so right. Like they just find that so interesting. It looks a little clunky.
No, I hate how it looks. The letter combos. But it's such a cool name. I do love it.
Well, Grayson, our sister Grayson was going to be Phoebe. That was my mom's favorite name. So my
dad didn't like, he did not. He's kind of like Kelly. He's not a great speller. He like could
not conceptualize the spelling of Phoebe because he's like no. We can't do that.
I do mix that up a lot. It's a tricky one. It's a great name though.
Okay. I just wanted to like, I just thought that was interesting. Since Liz had a name,
she likes the sound of doesn't like the spelling of. I think that's very.
Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I agree. I could, I understand that you can't. And it's not even that I mind
the spelling. I don't like how it looks. Yeah. I think we're in different, like you're talking
about the visual aesthetic. Liz is talking more about like logistical complications.
Like this girl would be spelling her name for people her entire life, which is a choice that
you can make. People ask this all the time. Like in some names, I think are worth that inconvenience.
I agree. Yes. But I think it's, it's next level. You know, there are certain names you're always
going to have to spell. Maybe Margo could even be an example. Is there a T at the end or is
there not a T at the end? Is it the X or whatever? And then there are some names that you're going
to have to say and spell repeatedly. And there's some names. So there's some names where like,
you'll have to give the Starbucks, Barissa a different name. Like people have my name all the
time. Okay. But it's like, okay. But if I say Kelly, the, the Barissa is going to guess. Yeah.
If you say, I don't even know how to pronounce it. Share she, she's giving up. She's going to say,
she's going to start saying Sarah at Starbucks. You actually can't use this name because her aunt
wouldn't be able to say it. It's, it's a serious consideration. That's why I'm here. And that's
why I know. Okay. I'm done. I'm shutting up. Keep going. Okay. This is like totally different
than what I was expecting from both of you, but especially Matt. Like I think I sort of saw him
as like a Blake Reese Quinn Piper kind of guy. But no, he wants substance. Oh, like he likes,
he likes Catherine. Like he likes, he likes Madeline. Like he likes just very like normal
sort of traditional names. Unless like, or really as like a Roman less something in the Roman Empire,
there's an or really, or really us or something. Unless there's like something cool in that realm.
Where does daddy fall on Kelly?
Um, yeah, he likes, he's with me. He likes it. It's very Irish. Yeah, he likes Kelly. Okay.
I was curious if it was like, were you, you were the problem or if he was the problem on that name?
No, I would say genuinely that's probably more me the problem.
Okay. So I did a little stalking of your family as I was waiting here to find out like some family
names. I was looking up the Sun Trap, Sun Trap Automotive Business and the founders. So who's
Bill? Is he a relative? Yes, he is our, our grandpa's brother. Okay. Do we like him? We love him.
Yeah, he's actually still alive. Is he? He's like, okay, I just love looking down the family tree
for inspiration. Like I know this is a, this will probably be too much for Maddie. I do think
Billy for a girl is so cute, but you could also do Willa, like Willa for William, Willa St. John,
Sloane James and Willa. It's cute. I'm gonna write this down. I like Billy. I know. I love Billy.
I think the issue with Billy for a traditional name-er is they're going to want a full name for
it. Sure. And that, yeah, that's like Wilhelmina and that might be too big for too, too bold.
Wilhelmina. I like Wilhelmina. It's cute. Wilhelmina called her Billy.
I would call her, I like Willa better than Billy. Yeah. Okay. It's more girly. Yeah. Okay. And then
you mentioned Catherine. Love Catherine. And your mom is Christine, but goes by Chris. And a nickname
for those names would be Kit, which you've probably seen on lists. It's like sort of an up and comer.
What are the feelings on Kit? Love. I really like Kit. Kit St. John. Like you just have the best
last day. It was so automatically. I know. Any name sounds good with it. That's the problem.
Which is the best last name. I'm like, oh, Imogen St. John. Obsessed. Obsessed. Kit is really cute.
I, for a long time in our naming journey, I was kind of anti-name them something,
call them a nickname because St. John, while it is a great last name, it is a pain.
It's complicated. Yeah. Because you go to the hotel and they're like, we don't see you. And it's
like, well, did you put a period? Did you put a space? Did you combine it? Did you spell up
SAINT? Like there's a lot of, you have to like go jump through hoops to just like get the St.
John name. So it was like, yeah, I feel like I would feel bad if they also like, well, is the name
under Catherine? Is it under Kit? I don't know. But I think that's something that I'm more coming
to terms with that like whatever, that's just their cross to bear. And also at the end of the day,
this is a girl who like most likely St. John won't be her last name for her, her entire life.
So maybe it will get easier for her. Yeah. But I love Kit. I like the shortness.
sharpness. I like James Sloan and Kit is so cute. Because right now James and Sloan are both one
syllable names. That's the other thing is like you have an opportunity here to start a theme.
And I know you've talked about wanting potentially four kids. And so I mean, I don't think if you
have 31 syllable names, you like have to go one syllable on the fourth. You could go two
syllables, it'd be okay. But it'd be insane to do like James Sloan, Kit, Wilhelmina. That would be
crazy. That would be crazy. I like Kit. And then you also have like probably accidentally done
alliteration with both their names like James, St. John, Sloan, St. John. Well, I didn't think
about that. It's so good. But if you did another S name or another J name, then would you want to
complete the pattern with the fourth? I come from a CJ CJ family. So we have our boy name done.
So if I have a boy, it's not one syllable and it doesn't follow that. So but we adore it. We love
it. Like that one's done. If we had another girl, I would have to obviously come back to this. But
I'm actually not like it doesn't bother me. But I do love Sloan, St. John. I do love an S
to follow St. John. I think it's just really pretty. Okay. And then what are your feelings on
popularity? Like James, I think sometimes people have different parameters for boys and girls.
Like people want, tend to want more classic boy names. And so you went top 10 for a boy. And then
you went a little like mainstream but less common for a girl. I've also really had a full circle
moment on coming terms with this because I thought I think everyone wants to be more unique than
we probably are. I think that when you like it doesn't bother me that James is like the top five
like top 10 name. But because it's a very normal name, it's a family name. I feel like where I would
get like, I use my sister-in-law as an example a lot because she named her son Brooks when no
one was named Brooks. Okay. Now there's four Brookses on his soccer team. Okay. So it's like
when you when you are doing a less common name, but then everyone ends up having that same name,
like it doesn't bother me when it's when there's multiple James is because James is a regular old
name. But when you think you're doing something, you're doing something different and then you
did it. That kind of kills her a little bit. So I think like Catherine, if Catherine was in
or it was in the top 10 names or whatever, I would feel less weird about that versus,
you know, I don't. Scotty. Scotty. Yeah. And then it's like everyone's name Scotty. It's like,
oh, she thought she was doing something different. And that's like there's really,
there's nothing wrong with it. That's just like my internal dialogue, but I am kind of getting over
it. Like the popular anything. And I, I don't, I've maybe learned from you or from like another
naming Instagram, but like, you also have to like look in your state because just because it's a top
10 name in the country. Yeah. Like I looked at the top 10 names in Missouri and they're all over
the place. So different. So different. And that's where they're going to run into kids
with the same, with the same name as them when, when it matters, which is a great school, I feel
like. Yeah. Even the state doesn't like tell the whole story of like your specific neighborhood.
Like if you sent your kids to a Catholic school, you're going to get one cohort of names. And like
in Rory's kindergarten, there was like one repeated name through the grade and it was
Cole. There were three Coles. It's like Cole. Like that's not even a common name. Like it's,
it is a crapshoot. So it's like silly to get too caught up in it. What I usually tell people is
like, does the name feel like special enough to you? Then you should use it. Like, I like,
I agree. I like that better than, yeah, than like the number in their class. Like they'll like,
it's fine. Yeah. It's fine. You know what I mean? If you're hearing it a lot, then maybe it becomes
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Kills me on our word. Amelia doesn't do much for me.
What about Lila? Is that too-
Lila's pretty.
It's pretty. Like it's got that short, sweet, feminine aesthetic.
James Sloan and Lila.
Lila St. John.
And I always like to, calling it not that I'm trying to do your job for you,
but when I was naming Libby, I also really said like, I didn't always say all four of
them together, but I liked saying Fred and Libby a lot because like I was always saying
George and Hattie, Hattie. Yes. And now I, when I was trying to name
Libby, I was like, because I wanted to name Libby Betty. We were always going to name her
Libby, but we were going to call her Betty, but I was like, Fred and Betty, like that sounds horrible.
It's so true.
It's so Flintstones. Like I can't do that. Oh my God.
What do they say to podcasts together? And they say, welcome back to the podcast with
Fred and Betty. Like you never know.
So I like also Elizabeth saying like, I think you'll say like Sloan and the baby's name all
the time together. Yes. So you don't want it to be a tongue twister. Yeah, that's true.
Sloan and Cecilia. Like that could be a little tongue twisty.
Yeah. Actually, I want to talk to you about Cecilia.
Sloan and Lila sound so cute together.
I want to talk to you about Cecilia because is Cecilia St. John too many susses?
Cecilia St. John. Okay. Some people, I think that's 50-50. For me, it wouldn't stop me from
using the name. Cecilia St. John. Like Cecilia in itself is a lot of susses.
But what if they, what if they shorn it to Cece? Then it's kind of a lot.
Cece St. John.
I actually still think it's cute. I'm like a big alliteration person though.
So it's hard to get me like riled up about those things.
Okay.
So, okay. Now that I know that you guys are like, you like the classics, I feel like
a bridge here of like your styles is a Kelly style name with a Liz filter. So like vintage,
but like short and sleek. So June or Rose, would you do one of those?
Shills on June.
Yeah. So June actually has been on one of like on our like short list. I do like June.
I'm trying to think about why we stopped talking about June.
Was it an issue with the J's? Like,
I don't know if it kind of felt like a combination between James and Sloan a little bit.
You know, I thought that with George that it was a combination of Jane and Rory.
And then I was like, okay, that's crazy. Like it's okay.
No, because a combination of the name that Maddie does, like is Joan.
I'm like, well, that is literally changed.
Sloan and Joan could totally have a podcast one day though.
Oh, actually that's how we came to June because he really liked
Joan. And I was like, okay, well, that doesn't work. So maybe June. I like June.
June St. John is very cute.
June's on the list.
June's on, let me write that one down too. Yeah. I'm bringing that one back up to him.
Also, since you're considering like Christine or Elizabeth as a middle name,
I think it again, I like a short name. Because again, we can't do
June, Christine, St. John. Like I'll die. I can't even, that's way too many letters.
So like June, Christine is cute. June, Elizabeth is cute.
Okay. Yeah, that's really cute. I like June.
What about Rose? Is that two, like two plain, like Rosie, St. John, Rosie.
She's so cute. She's right.
And then Rose, like when I hear Rose on like a third grader at the playground,
I just think it's so cool. It's chic.
Yeah. It is chic. You're right.
I love it.
I haven't considered it, but I don't dislike it.
Sleep on it.
Sleep on it.
Um, okay. You mentioned Maeve.
That was my, in my top two for Jamie. Maeve, would you shorten that and just go Mae,
which is actually a lot less common?
Is it?
Oh my God. Yeah.
M-A-E or M-A-Y.
M-A-E.
Yeah, that's darling.
It's very uncommon.
Mae St. John.
Am I pushing too much vintage on you?
Is it like too simple, too plain?
Yeah. I think that might be a little bit too, like simple for me.
Like I like that Maeve has like the punch to it that like Sloan has.
It does.
And Mae doesn't, it feels unfinished to me.
Okay. It's, it's, it's very like middle name.
Yeah.
But, but I kind of like that.
I love it.
Yeah.
Um, okay. What about Lucy?
No.
Is that anything for me?
No.
No, I'm, I'm really loving what you said.
I've, I'm really liking Kit in June.
Probably like re-visiting those the most.
Yeah.
Okay.
I feel like this is good.
Molly?
No.
To, yeah.
Okay. It's like Irish.
It's cute.
Annie?
No.
No.
Okay.
No.
We're going in a, we're going in the wrong direction.
Yeah. You're going further.
Okay.
Would you consider Sunny as the first name?
I have, I have brought up, we've, we've talked about Sunny.
Yeah.
I think we, because I think Sunny St. John is darling.
It is.
I think we do like the thought of Sunny better for a boy actually as like a nickname for a boy.
Then for a girl.
Because Sunny's kind of cool.
Because Sunny can actually go either way.
It can.
And Anne, there's like a designated spelling for each gender, which is nice.
Oh, it's a boy and oh.
Yeah.
Okay.
Oh, boys and oh.
Well, I mean, you can do either, but I think if you look at the numbers,
like the oh is typically boy spelling and you is girl.
I love Sunny.
I think it's super cute.
But more boy.
But probably, probably more boy nickname.
Okay.
Another one syllable classic.
How do we feel about Grace?
Gracie St. John.
It doesn't, it's too, just like, it's too plain.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
And I'm going a little, oh, go ahead.
No, that's, I just, I feel like it is hard to find like, because I know Liz likes those
more masculine names like Cameron.
I think at one point you even like Spencer Elizabeth.
Like for a girl.
No, I didn't like Spencer.
Okay.
But like you like Cameron Ryan, but like,
so she likes the masculine names.
Maddie doesn't like names that sound boyish.
Yeah.
So like we need a mask, a masculine name that's still super girly.
And then Sean.
Marin.
It's kind of like.
Marin.
Okay.
Masculine, but like obviously a girl's name.
So Marin St. John.
Yeah.
I think that's where people love Margot because it's got this like, it's not girly.
It's not, you see, yeah, it's, it's kind of crisp and clean,
but it's like, obviously a girl name.
Maddie loves Margot.
There's a Margot epidemic.
Yeah.
That's my concern about it.
But I, it's really cute.
So what are your Margot.
I know two baby Margos.
What are your Margot alternatives?
I know you have a list.
I do actually was going to publish a list today of Margot alternatives.
I do it quarterly because it really is an epidemic.
Well, one of my personal favorite names, which goes against my more like classic vintage
instincts is Marlowe, but it's not for everyone.
Like it's, it's more of a surname style.
I just think it's like the coolest name in the world, Marlowe.
It's, it's pretty.
It is unisex, but it sounds feminine because it's got like the softer letters.
I think Lowy is like the cutest little nickname.
I love nicknames.
But I think Margot, for alternatives, you want sort of like a lot of French names
feel like good alternatives.
Like Sylvie.
I love Sylvie.
I like Daphne, I think is a good alternative.
I love Daphne.
Maddie, Maddie veto Daphne, but I love Daphne.
Yeah.
Okay.
I think a lot of people who like Margot, like Eloise, Vivian, Clara, these sort of like
classic with like a little twist.
What about just Claire or Clara?
So Claire was also, was on our list early.
And I just, we just kind of stopped talking about it.
But I do like Claire.
Yeah.
Maybe we can start talking about it again.
Yeah.
Just bringing up like a lot of the names that like we, we had talked about Kate,
we had talked about June, we had talked about Claire, and then they just,
we just kind of stopped talking about them.
I don't know why.
For no, for no reason.
So I do feel like maybe I need to, we need to like revisit some of these again,
now that we've kind of gone through a lot.
Some of the really classic names, it's like either you love it or you don't,
because it's a name you've heard a lot and you either have a connection to it, like,
or it just doesn't do it for you.
You've known so many and it's just like, you don't get excited about it.
Do you think it's possible to get Matt on board with any more like unisex names, like
the Logan's and the Andes of the world?
No.
No, I don't.
I don't.
Yeah, that's okay.
Especially if I felt super like passionate about one, yes.
But I just like, if I was like, Cameron's kind of cute.
And if he was like, yeah, kind of like Cameron, I then we could like talk about it and then
we could both fall in love with it.
But it's not like I don't have that intense love for the name.
Like I have had for Sloan.
So I'm not passionate enough to like push it, you know?
What about a compromise where it's like a classic name with a more like kind of cool
nickname or vice versa?
So like Eleanor Coller Lennie, something like that.
Yeah, I think he would.
I think he would be on board for something like that.
He's on board for, yeah, he would consider a nickname name.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, I think you've given her a lot to think about.
Yeah.
Can you post it?
We have lots, we have lots to talk about.
So this was so helpful.
Thank you.
I'm glad.
It's just nice to talk it through with someone and to hear someone else say the names out
louder than me and my husband.
So I'm always willing to do that, Elizabeth.
I know, but I just like wanted a professional.
So Colleen, if someone wanted to book a consultation with you, how could they do that?
Go to my website.
You can click book a consultation, fill out a form and we'll get going.
The fact that you asked them 15 questions prior and when I do car consultations, I ask for.
Yeah, I could maybe, you know, trim it down a little because the thing is most
names are so personal, more personal than cars.
No, that's true.
There's so much to consider and most people answer it, you know, in a efficient fashion,
respectful fashion.
And then every once in a while, I get someone who sends me a multi-tab Excel spreadsheet.
Sure.
So, but then I'm like, I asked for it.
Parting, parting name, Sienna, St. John.
Problem is Sienna is one of the four minivans out there.
Oh my God.
It would be so on the nose.
And it's not our favorite either is the problem.
That's even worse.
Not the best minivan.
See, that one, it surprises me that Matt goes for that.
Is it because it's like a place in Italy so it feels like historically rooted?
Because Sienna to me feels more modern place namey.
It's not his favorite, but it's one that I like.
So therefore he's tolerating it, but it's not his favorite.
But he hasn't outright vetoed it.
Okay.
Wait, what about Stella?
Stella, I don't know.
I think I'm like getting too caught up in the S's.
They're so like Stella St. John.
It's just goes so well.
Oh, what about Camille for like French names?
Oh, you know what?
I love Camille.
I brought that up to him.
He vetoed it.
I don't remember why.
Like that would be a good compromise.
Like instead of Cameron, more boyish Camille.
But I don't like that.
Maybe Camille up again, Elizabeth.
I like Camille.
It's really pretty.
Yeah.
I like Camille too.
Okay.
And then okay, one more Irish name.
Okay, she's okay.
Let's go.
Fiona.
Maddie likes Fiona.
But I don't know if I can get past the ogre.
Oh my God.
Really?
Liz, come on.
Maddie has brought Fiona up multiple times.
They've slown and Fiona sounds so good together.
James, slown and Fiona.
No, do I need to do some inward reflection?
You do.
There's also a girl at my son's school and they call her Fio.
But even Fia, I think is like such a cute.
She'd be Fiona.
I just, I like to think.
I like to think through the nicknames.
Also, Fiona's a good character in track.
I was selling ogre and it's just like when you're,
when you're probably going to have a six foot tall daughter,
it's like, do you name her after the most famous ogre out there?
Like things you have to consider.
No, when you're naming a potential tall girl,
you do have to think about it.
You do.
You do.
I've lost sleep thinking about Libby.
And if she's going to be too tall to be a Libby, but.
But Libby's so sweet.
You know what, it's, well now.
But when she's six feet tall.
I think that's where like I might, like Betty would be harder.
I think Libby, Libby feels like very wearable.
Betty would have been harder.
It would have been harder.
You got to be a little.
She would have quite literally outgrown it.
Okay, Colleen, after a long, long day of naming bebes,
you still got to cook for your three little kiddos.
What are you making?
Okay.
A lot of times it's a throw together meal.
We, we do tacos a lot, but.
I want a meal that I can easily level down for my picky eaters,
because only one of my kids is going to eat what I make most of the time.
So half baked harvest has this like white pesto lasagna.
It's really good.
Look it up.
And then you can very easily just boil an extra pot of noodles
and put just pesto on it for the picky eaters.
And then the grownups get to eat something delicious.
It's got pepperonis on it.
It's like, yeah, it's a white.
She can lasagna.
It's really good.
You have me a half baked harvest.
Okay.
We'll look it up.
Yum, yum, yum.
Okay.
Well, Colleen, thank you so much for doing this naming 911.
It was great chatting.
I want to be the first to know what this baby's name is.
Well, Colleen, as do I, to be fair.
So I will be looking forward to the DM.
And I can actually just relay the news to Kelly if you need me to.
Perfect.
Yeah, I'll just include you guys both on a group text.
So like, it'll be perfect.
All right, Kelly, thank you so much.
Thank you.
Bye, guys.
About this episode
Kelly and Lizz kick off with a sponsor for K-12 online schooling, then pivot into a lively mix of parenting talk and personal updates. Lizz celebrates a rare, feel-good summer after feeling worn down before, sharing lake games and how her kids thrive with older cousins. Kelly, meanwhile, opens up about severe pelvic girdle pain and how humbling pregnancy has become. The pair also debate an “ick”: people who force you to sing along to songs you haven’t heard—no Spotify, no silence. They end by discussing baby-name consultations and the possibility of naming their “unnamed baby.”
It's a post 4th of July pod and Kelly is continuing to live her best summer life. Being in her kid era, she spent the weekend playing the best pool games with the kids and making her summer notes. Lizz, on the other hand, is at the point in her pregnancy where she's too pregnant to go anywhere and unfortunately is not feeling great. She would rather have the third kid at this point than be pregnant anymore.
Some new icks have been uncovered. You know when someone asks if you've heard a song and then sings it for you when you say you haven't? That's a new Kelly ick. Lizz is watching hospital packing videos on Instagram and getting so annoyed when it's obvious that the creators haven't used a single item they packed and just included them to get credit on Amazon. Ick!
But the biggest part of this episode is the return of Colleen from Naming Bebe to make Lizz's dream come true - a baby name consultation! Will she find a name that both Lizz and Matty like? And what about the name Kelly?