{"version":"1.0.0","episode":{"title":"Your Shop Might Need Marriage Counseling: Fixing Communication in Auto Repair [RR 1087]","url":"http://getcarcurious.com/episodes/your-shop-might-need-marriage-counseling-fixing-communication-in-auto-repair-rr-1087","audioUrl":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d5c1fd92-66e4-462b-a143-988a3bc7d48b.mp3","description":"Thanks to our Partners, NAPA Auto Care and NAPA TRACS\n\nWatch Full Video Episode\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nRecorded live at VISION 2026, host Carm Capriotto and Matt Fanslow explore how lessons from marriage counseling can improve communication in auto repair shops.\nThe core discussion centers on Matt’s article for NAPA Auto Care's Insight Magazine, “Your Shop Might Need Marriage Counseling,” and the industry’s gap in soft skills. His central argument is simple: most automotive professionals were never taught effective communication or soft skills. In the past, shop culture often relied on public criticism or shame to correct mistakes. Today, that approach backfires, especially for younger technicians, who are more likely to disengage or “quietly quit” in that kind of environment.\nMatt proposes a different approach: applying communication techniques commonly used in therapy to everyday shop interactions.\nDrawing from the Gottman Institute, Matt outlines common communication pitfalls: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, and how they show up daily in shop environments.\nKey solutions include:\n\nValidating feelings, especially with anxious customersCoaching without shame, addressing mistakes privately with supportSeeking outside perspective, using coaches or therapists to uncover blind spots\nFinally, both Carm and Matt challenge the stigma around seeking outside help. They encourage shop leaders to work with coaches, counselors, or therapists to uncover blind spots and improve their leadership approach. Far from being a weakness, asking for help is framed as a sign of strength and self-awareness.\nThe goal isn’t to turn shops into therapy sessions; it’s to make small, intentional changes in how people communicate every day. The payoff? Fewer emotional blowups, stronger team culture, and customers who feel safe, heard, and respected.\nDownload Matt Fanslow's Full Article: https://remarkableresults.biz/download/45724/?tmstv=1775829579\nVISION Hi-Tech Training and Expo: https://visionkc.com/\nMatt Fanslow, Riverside Automotive, Red Wing, MN, Diagnosing the Aftermarket A to Z Podcast: https://mattfanslow.captivate.fm/\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nThanks to our Partners, NAPA Auto Care and NAPA TRACS\n\nLearn more about NAPA Auto Care and the benefits of being part of the NAPA family by visiting https://www.napaonline.com/en/auto-care\n\nNAPA TRACS will move your shop into the SMS fast lane with onsite training and six days a week of support and local representation. Find NAPA TRACS on the Web at http://napatracs.com/\n\nConnect with the Podcast:\n\n- Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RemarkableResultsRadioPodcast/\n\n- Join Our Virtual Toastmasters Club: https://remarkableresults.biz/toastmasters\n\n- Join Our Private Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1734687266778976\n\n- Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/carmcapriotto\n\n- Follow on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carmcapriotto/\n\n- Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/remarkableresultsradiopodcast/\n\n- Visit the Website: https://remarkableresults.biz/\n\n- Join our Insider List: https://remarkableresults.biz/insider\n\n- All books mentioned on our podcasts: https://remarkableresults.biz/books\n\n- Our Classroom page for personal or team learning: https://remarkableresults.biz/classroom\n\n- Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/carm\n\n- Special episode collections: https://remarkableresults.biz/collections\n\n- The Automotive Repair Podcast Network: https://automotiverepairpodcastnetwork.com/\n\n- Remarkable Results Radio Podcast with Carm Capriotto: Advancing the Aftermarket by Facilitating Wisdom Through Story Telling and Open Discussion. https://remarkableresults.biz/\n\n- Diagnosing the Aftermarket A to Z with Matt Fanslow: From Diagnostics to Metallica and Mental Health, Matt Fanslow is Lifting the Hood on Life. https://mattfanslow.captivate.fm/\n\n- Business by the Numbers with Hunt Demarest: Understand the Numbers of Your Business with CPA Hunt Demarest. https://huntdemarest.captivate.fm/\n\n- The Auto Repair Marketing Podcast with Kim and Brian Walker: Marketing Experts Brian & Kim Walker Work with Shop Owners to Take it to the Next Level. https://autorepairmarketing.captivate.fm/\n\n- The Weekly Blitz with Chris Cotton: Weekly Inspiration with Business Coach Chris Cotton from AutoFix - Auto Shop Coaching. https://chriscotton.captivate.fm/\n\n- Speak Up! Effective Communication with Craig O'Neill:..."},"annotations":[{"startTime":64.9,"endTime":69.74,"type":"concept","title":"lake effect","url":"/glossary/lake-effect","quote":"[64.9s] Yeah, we don't quite get the same lake effect, you guys.\n[67.5s] Yeah, yeah.\n[68.3s] Anyway, enough with the weather.","canonicalId":"concept:lake-effect","priority":0.5,"confidence":0.9,"source":"hybrid-fuzzy+gpt-5.4-nano","data":{"explanation":"“Lake effect” is a weather pattern where cold air moves over a warmer lake, picking up moisture and then dropping it as snow downwind. It can create very different snowfall amounts over short distances, which is why some areas get hammered while others nearby see much less snow.","simplifiedExplanation":"Lake effect is when cold air passes over a big lake and picks up moisture. 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