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Welcome to the Carpool podcast with Kelly.
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Oh no, Fischer, I'm wearing an athleisure.
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Everyone else is just in like their play clothes.
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Tyler's in a hoodie and we're like,
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George, come on, he's like almost ready.
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Comes out, cowboy hat, belt, button down,
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tucked in in his jeans, and it's his boots.
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It's so much easier for me to get rid of my kids stuff
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than my own, which is like another introspective thing
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that I need to like.
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I'm learning a lot about myself.
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Your mom time off starts now.
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Welcome back to the Carpool podcast with Kelly.
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I feel like I didn't talk to you at all this weekend.
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Just like making like everything my personality, you know?
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So I'm week one, no sugar.
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And you're saying you can tell a difference in my face.
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I mean, when you were like showing up on your stories,
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I was like, it's not like you're just kind of like
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have a glow about you.
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And I can definitely tell.
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I didn't think you were puffy in the face before.
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Like I would have never described your face as puffy
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or inflamed, but I have seen it less so.
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I'm like, wow, maybe it really, maybe you really
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were just like a little bit more inflamed than we thought.
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Overall, I'm feeling pretty good.
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I'm having like some health issues today, which, like,
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arg, not the vibe, arg.
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I woke up with like very itchy and like some highs on my face.
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Like my whole body was itchy, so I went to urgent care.
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And, you know, they're like, you need to get into your allergist.
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And I'm like, obviously.
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So they gave me some stuff to help.
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I called my allergist.
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I have an appointment, but not till March 12.
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But they're like, if you get worse, call us back.
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And I'm like, OK, I will.
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I just like don't like dealing with these kinds of things.
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You don't know when does.
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And it's the waiting game, too.
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It's like March 12.
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That's like several weeks away.
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And I just don't know.
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Like there's been so much with like the health issues
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I've had earlier in the year.
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I just don't like what's real and what's like my anxiety
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or what's like telling me something's worse than it is.
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And when you have these like symptoms, it's like,
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I'm really itchy is my throat closing up.
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It's like, no, your throat's not closing up.
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You're anxious that your throat could close up.
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And it's just kind of like a mind game.
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So anyways, just like slightly different tune
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than I was like a couple of weeks ago,
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because like this was kind of like a bummer.
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But one thing about me is I'm going to figure it out
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because I am the CEO of my health.
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And whatever ship you're the CEO of, Cal,
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it's set for success.
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So anyway, sugar free for seven days.
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And I'll just like, I won't bore you guys with it too much.
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But overall cravings more minimal than I was expecting.
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I'm enjoying a detox over like a more traditional
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amusing air quotes diet.
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Did I talk about this last time?
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And that's still I'm taking like a lot of
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that's helping me stay a lot more disciplined.
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And I'm actually very happy that I cut out honey
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and maple syrup because like I can't imagine
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how exciting honey is going to be.
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You know, and like if I didn't keep keep those out,
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like then I wouldn't want to go back to them.
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So I'm kind of enjoying that.
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That will be a good when you when you are done
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with your detox and I'm sure post detox,
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you're going to still want to have a more limited
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sugar intake than you once did.
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Then you can be like, oh, maple syrup, honey,
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my sweet treats, whatever.
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And I've talked to people who have done sugar detoxes
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and they're like, no, I went back to eating sugar,
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but I just ate a lot less sugar.
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And I'm like, sure, I like that.
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Well, you're into that.
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I'm into my Lenten, my detox.
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With 40 days of less.
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I couldn't think of a snappy name for it.
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I was like, here's what I'm doing.
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Chat, like, what is a snappy way that I can do this?
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And I am loving it.
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What I really like that I did and I like made this up
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and it somehow it's like I made it up really well
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because what I did was I have 40 areas of my home
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and then also 820 items, pick number one through 40 equals
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820 that I'm getting rid of and having kind of that
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of the area that I'm going to declutter has been really helpful
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because like, if you just look around your house, you're like,
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I can't get rid of 8, 820 things of like what I'm seeing.
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But I just dove into the depths of my cord box
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and I got rid of 25 items that I'm not even going to notice
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are gone, actually.
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And so that has it's just been it's been a really good way
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to like force me to come face to face with things like my cord box
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and really ask myself how many USBC chargers does one need.
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And I and it's not and I can tell you it's not eight.
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That's extra ones, mind you.
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That's not the ones that are like plugged in that I use on a daily basis.
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So it's really forced me to like come face to face with things.
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It's forced me to come face to face with like some clothing items,
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like my swimsuits and just like really wonder
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if and when I, you know, in the same size that I once was,
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is this even going to be the lifestyle?
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Like, is this even?
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I don't need to have the swimsuit that I wore when I was 24.
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If and when I ever get to that size again, because like
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it's a stringy top.
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It's like, I'm a mom, please.
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Like, I don't need to wear this.
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Totally. With like with pre baby clothes, I.
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I've never held on to them that much
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because it was also the mindset like if I'm going to hold on to something
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for three years, so I fit in it again.
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If I get back to that size, I'm buying myself a new pair of pants is what I'm doing.
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I don't need my I don't need Abercrombie jeans
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that have sat in a storage thing in my basement for four years.
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So it's really forcing me to
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like do a deep dive in my home, and I'll tell you what,
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there is nothing better than the serotonin boost.
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And we've talked about this, the serotonin boost of a clean area.
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It's so much it is so much better than buying something.
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When I open my organized medicine cabinet,
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serotonin boost every single time.
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Yeah, we talked about this with with debt free mom care, creates contentment.
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Like if you are getting that itch to go out and buy something or do something
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like what would like a perfectly organized closet do for you though?
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Like think about that.
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It does so much more because like buying something feels good in the moment.
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And then maybe the Amazon box comes and then you got to deal with all.
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You got to deal with the Amazon box.
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You got to break the box down.
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You got to unwrap it.
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You got to find it's actually it lasts so it is so short lived the amount of time
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that that serotonin boost lasts and in organized space that you use every day.
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Oh, it feels so great.
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So it's going really well.
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So I don't understand the only thing I understand about your challenge is like,
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so if you got cord box and you got 25, do you have to get rid of 25 things
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from the box? That's where it's kind of confusing.
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So I I had pulled the number 38 and I knew that I wanted to do my base,
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my my closet floor.
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I didn't have I had 15 items between my closet floor and other stuff in my closet
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And so then I was like, I still have a long way to go.
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I got to get to 38.
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What's like an area that I know is like there's going to be a lot.
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And my my I reached for my cord box.
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I still need to organize like my overall closet that my cord box was in,
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but I at least started with my cord box.
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So I actually got over the amount that I was supposed to pull for for today.
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Have you pulled 40 yet or no?
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I haven't pulled 40.
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And actually, I do think when I do pull for I I think when I do pull 40,
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I'm going to have to go through my pre baby clothes, which I haven't opened
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I'm kind of nervous for.
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But I know there will be a lot in there.
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But it's like 40 items is a lot.
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And this is after you've already gone through it like several days.
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Like, yeah, it is actually hard.
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Are you doing any of Maddie's stuff or is that like not doing any of Maddie's
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I'm doing because Maddie does a really good job at keeping.
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His like, I think he has some things that he has held on to for too long
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that like, I don't get why we need this rugby flag, but like maybe we need the
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way I'm going to get that's his journey.
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It's not my journey to say whether or not we need this rugby flag or not.
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But he does a really good job of like going through his clothes
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and his shoes and all that stuff.
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Um, he's a very organized man, actually.
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So I'm the problem for sure in the relationship.
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But I am doing the kids stuff, which.
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It's so much easier for me to get rid of my kids stuff than my own,
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which is like another introspective thing that I need to like.
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I'm learning a lot about myself.
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No, that is interesting.
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I'm learning a lot about myself.
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We're having that we're I'm really proud of us.
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We're really kind of on the ball.
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Um, well, speaking of stuff that I didn't buy,
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I went to my dinner auction this weekend.
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You didn't post enough.
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Well, here's the thing.
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It's like every other thing says my kids school all over it.
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So like, I'm not trying.
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I'm just like, you know, sure.
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I know everyone wanted more.
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I wanted to give more.
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It was just I found it very hard.
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Yeah, great content at a child's interaction.
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Um, but I did just like.
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I got the front row tickets, which was really good.
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Now, luckily they were still on the left side and a right side.
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I am happy to report that the right side went for what the left side went.
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So like I did pay market.
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OK, for what you were getting.
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And then I also got the preschool concert tickets, which also felt good.
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So many people, I guess, don't do dinner auctions, which.
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People were like so shocked.
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That was when you paid for it.
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And I just have to say to you, like you're leaving money on the table.
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For your school, I don't know.
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And forgive me, I've gone to like Catholic school my whole life.
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Is it like a private?
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Is it like a private Catholic school thing?
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Because like they have to raise money for the school because it's not tax funded?
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I mean, no, because I go.
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I go to like Ford Interactions every year and to our public schools.
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OK, no, I don't know.
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So I think it's maybe just like a regional thing for us.
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Just feels like it should be a universal thing.
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Well, like that's what I'm saying.
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Like it's you're leaving money on the table because.
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Yeah, parents will pay for someone to tell me that they went for like five
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to six thousand dollars the front row seats at the kindergarten concert.
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What? I know people want to leave a donation for the school.
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They want to leave a donation.
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It's fun. And also like then they get something out of it.
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And like it was a free thing that for you, it's not like it's a write off for people.
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Like that's what I'm saying.
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So like you need to be doing auctions at your school.
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Some of the things that were like up for sale that like weren't physical items
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was like the name, the playground they did, which these went for a lot.
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They sold one of each where it was like your kid could be the PE teacher for the day.
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The fun, the art teacher, the computer teacher, the music teacher.
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Those were going, I tried to go in for George, one for Hattie.
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They were like five hundred bucks a piece. What?
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Yeah, they were going. Wow.
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Guys, I'm telling you, I don't live in like my school is not like an insane
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like a fluent school at by any means.
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Like it's a very regular school.
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You're leaving money on the table.
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And this is this is you're right.
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Like this is just the check that people want to cash like yearly
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to like donate to the school.
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And so like, do you want your kid to have a no, no uniform day?
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Like, OK, fifty bucks right now.
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I'm like, OK, sure. Like, OK, whatever.
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Wow. The no uniform days.
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Remember those in grade school?
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We have like occasionally
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dressed down days, but you had to pay a dollar to do it.
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So funny, they're really getting you for everything they can.
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Um, so it was so fun.
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Then I worked at the dessert auction, which I talked about last time.
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And like I just sometimes forget like how I sometimes forget what a salesman I am.
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Because like, you know, you're supposed to just sit there
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and then people are supposed to come up, look at the desserts
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and then you just basically ride on a clip or what they buy.
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I'm working the six or seven shift in or served at seven.
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I'm thinking this is our this is our last hurrah and there's dessert sitting here.
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So I was with my friend Annie.
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I said, Annie, grab that cheesecake and I started going table to table.
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We sold the cheesecake.
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I said, Annie, go get the carrot cake.
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She brings the carrot cake by Annie.
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Go get the cherry pie.
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I'm going to hit this table in the back.
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Yeah. Got I mean, I was.
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My line, I was like, Hey, you guys, like.
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Like I don't see any desserts on your table.
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Dinner's about to be served.
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This is the best dessert we have left.
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Do you guys want me to leave it here?
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I can get you plates right now.
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And they were like, oh, we're OK.
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We they have cookies down there.
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And I'm like, you know, but like that guy looks really hungry.
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And I'm just worried that like, you're not going to have your own.
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I was like, you can bring this home to the kids tomorrow.
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I mean, I was I was schlepping.
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She was not taking no for an answer.
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No. And I got him all sold.
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Yeah, it was her cook.
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That's I'm like, this is what I'm good at.
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I literally was almost like going to like raise the prices behind their backs.
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I mean, these are going to these are going.
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I mean, I just spent four hundred bucks.
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On the front row tickets to a concert and this
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cheesecake is only 50, like, come on, like this is not this is the homemade
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giant cheesecake. This needs to be one.
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This needs to be one twenty.
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Yeah, but we had fun.
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And I don't really get anything else of note.
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We like then we just like did like, you know, the raise the paddle,
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which everyone's like, who will give this, who will give that?
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I'm telling you, like you're leaving money on the table.
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Mm hmm. There's raffle tickets.
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Like I bought didn't win anything in the raffle.
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The silent auctions were going crazy.
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And I just didn't want a basket because I just don't want things in my home at the moment.
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Yeah, I can relate.
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And there wasn't there was there wasn't a basket that I was like super excited about.
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But I definitely did cause some drama with them.
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Like, you know, I like knew I would go up and like raise it by 20 bucks just to
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just knowing. Yeah, just to do my part.
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Tell you're always doing your part.
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Yeah. So it was super fun.
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And I have another one this weekend.
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But it's at my kid's school.
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So I will be more interested in the baskets.
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I'll probably I'll probably get a basket.
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Because there's other things I wanted at my kid's school,
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but like I don't want the former tickets to that kindergarten.
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So I don't know that kid.
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Do you think yours of all the ones you go to,
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what do you know, which one raises the most money?
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I think ours does. Really?
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I mean, it sounds like it.
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Are you saying are like people and, you know, you have we have a couple,
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like a very generous people.
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Yeah. Who are just like, you know, raise the paddle.
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I'll give five grand to the school.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like it's such a rush.
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Like you're in a community like we're all doing this together.
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Well, you know, then like they show you pictures of the kids and then the principal
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comes up and like, you know, we want to do with the money.
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We want to renovate this classroom and get them this late.
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I'm like, OK, it's for the kids.
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Totally. It's so fun.
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I literally love a dinner auction.
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So it was a good night.
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But then I do think it triggered some of my hives.
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So most of what happens?
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I started getting itchy that night.
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People were asking if I would have you enough alcohol.
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I just drank club soda, tequila and true line packets.
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But I am wondering if Jose did me dirty.
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I mean, they took away your Caesar salads.
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Like can't take away your tequila.
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Actually, they can.
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Like if they want to take away my tequila, I'm fine.
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I feel so frustrated that like I even had a reaction, which again,
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I know like mine are nothing compared to what other people are having.
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But like, I just want to feel good, you know.
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I mean, also like you're going through all the hullabaloo of like giving up sugar
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to like even feeling crummy from alcohol is like so not worth it.
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I know. So I'm like, I've told like not I'm not really that into.
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I used to be a way bigger drinker.
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Before I had kids, obviously, and even like between some of my kids now,
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like I'm just like not in the mood for it.
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I want to eat my calories. Sorry.
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I was talking. I was talking to someone the other day
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and I was like, you know, my first pregnancy, like stopping drinking was
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hard, like I would go to social places and it was hard for me to.
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I felt not drinking.
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I don't know if people are drinking around me.
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I don't I mean, I am in a field at the bachelorette party.
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I'm going to like going out to dinner doesn't phase me at all.
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Don't need a drink does like I just don't care at all anymore.
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Anyway, I'm just I'm just like craving like the only thing I want
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like so badly right now is like I just want I was telling Liz's yesterday.
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I want like the sugaryest, most delicious latte.
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Like I want something called like the Teddy Graham latte.
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Like I don't know what that is, but like I want a cookie butter latte.
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I want a s'mores latte.
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I want something like that.
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So I wasn't with 42 grams of sugar, like that's what I want.
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And it's just like, OK, I can have black coffee.
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So it's what I'm probably going to have after this.
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It's just like so interesting.
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And something in my doctor was also like, you know,
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you did just like go through an insane lifestyle change.
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Like your body could have just like been freaked out
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because you're on the sugar detox, you had a little alcohol, now you have hives.
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I have. I haven't watched it yet, but I have thoughts without watching it.
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So like, first of all, like what a time in culture was America's Next Top Model?
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So what's very interesting about the documentary is they tire us in it.
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Which I'm only on episode one, and I think it definitely gets a lot more insane
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with what they're doing.
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What are your takes?
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There's been people have been asking for a documentary on it because you'll
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they'll reair clips from old episodes and should be like, what even the heck was
21:26
And so this is Tyra trying to get ahead of it.
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And trying to say her, her piece, whatever her, I, whatever her piece is,
21:35
She's trying to get ahead of the narrative so she can't get canceled.
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Of what she fully, I'm sorry, I don't like to cancel people.
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The things on that show fully deserve to be canceled.
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So, you know, I'm very, I'm kind of surprised that's your intense reaction to it.
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I do agree there was some like insane things that happened on the show.
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And I feel like Tyra coming on the documentary from what I've seen so far,
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she's doing herself no favors because one, she's not taking any accountability
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for it, which like.
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I can sympathize with it was a different time.
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I'll look through it crazy for that.
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But like, she's not even, she's not even like acknowledging that part of it.
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And then she kind of, I find that she's kind of contradicting herself
22:19
because she's over here being like, you know, it wasn't easy for me.
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Like I want to, I want to change the model industry.
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I want to make it more inclusive.
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I want to make it better for women.
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And then like you literally make it so much harder for them.
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Like, so like you literally torture them.
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That just like wasn't really.
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That was just very interesting.
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But I also think she was trying to, in her defense, I think it was done poorly.
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I think she was trying to stimulate or simulate some of the.
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Traumas that she and her fellow models have had in the industry.
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And she was trying to show like what actual models went through with these
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guinea pigs, which I think was hard because like.
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The guinea pigs were just guinea pigs.
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Like, so, and you're saying you didn't like it.
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So then why are you doing it to them?
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But it's like she was trying to show the world like, no, you go there
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and they tell you that you're fat and they tell you have to shave off your entire head.
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Yeah. And it's like, well, you're saying you don't like it.
23:09
So then why are you making a show that's doing that?
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But I think, but I get that you went through that and you were trying to show
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America that the dark, the quote unquote dark side.
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And, you know, that's what she felt like it quote took to be a model.
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But then you were given the platform to like change that.
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And then you just like be the change you want to see in the world.
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Yeah. So that's where I felt felt like her messaging is just kind of like not.
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It's kind of I'm just confused that that's her messaging.
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Well, that's what that's kind of what I'm saying.
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Like a lot of the stuff that they did is it's it is inexcusable.
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And so she's just like trying to get ahead of it.
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And she's trying to say, well, I was I was trying to do this, but like,
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there's just so many and that could be true for some of the examples.
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But for some of the other examples, you're just trying to have the shock factor.
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At the end of the day, they were trying to make good TV
24:03
and they did it at the expense of a lot of like young women, young, impressionable women.
24:09
Like I saw this I saw this real and it was kind of making fun of America's
24:15
next model and it was like model tells Tyra in a private interview
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that her aunt died on a chicken bone eating a chicken bone.
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And then Tyra next episode makes her pose the rotisserie chicken.
24:26
Like that's like the crazy stuff.
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Like they just like exploited they exploited.
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Yeah. No, they took they for sure did they for sure did.
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No, I do I do want to watch.
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I do. It's so interesting because I did love the show growing up.
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So then I feel bad that I loved that.
24:44
So I think we're I think it's OK to be like it was such a different time.
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So like I can't believe we but we all sat and watched that show
24:50
and we're OK with it at the time to some level.
24:53
Well, what I what I liked about the show, it wasn't the shock factor
24:57
of making people swap races or telling that was telling very thin women
25:03
that they need to lose weight.
25:04
What I liked was seeing the glamour and their poses and their reveals
25:08
and who I liked the innocent parts of it.
25:11
And I didn't need your craziness.
25:14
You're right. I liked when they did makeup.
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They did a photo shoot.
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Like it was like let's pose like animals.
25:19
Like everyone had a different animal.
25:20
Like I liked those those factors of it.
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Yeah. So anyway, I'm watching.
25:27
I'm it's just bringing up a lot of things.
25:30
And I also find that I'm only on episode one.
25:32
But I find that Miss Jay is like a totally different person now
25:39
than they were back then.
25:40
Like he's so quiet and reserved.
25:44
And I'm like, you were like the biggest personality on the show.
25:47
And that's like totally not coming across so far.
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It's like very strange.
25:51
Well, I do also like to assume that of what's it been?
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Maybe 15, 20 years.
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Oh, I think it's been like 20, 25 years.
25:58
It's been forever. I do.
25:59
I do like to think that people can change since then.
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Yeah. So I don't know.
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Again, haven't seen it.
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Excited to watch it, though.
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It's not just to like relive like the craziness.
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You know what we're watching right now?
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Me and Maddie is the newest season of Love is Blind.
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Yeah, I almost thought about that.
26:18
And let me tell you why I think I don't like The Bachelor.
26:21
I never watched The Bachelor.
26:24
I don't watch Love Island.
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Like I don't like a lot of reality TV.
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I love Love is Blind.
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And the reason is it's actually real people.
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Yeah, like it's not just a let me just get famous
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and become an influencer and just like cause chaos.
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It's like real people and like some people.
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So I love real people.
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So it's like, OK, I fall in love with you
26:50
because you're like you're normal, like you're cute.
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And then you also see like the craziness of real people.
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And you're like, oh, my gosh, you are a horrible person.
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Yeah. And it's just like it's such good TV.
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What city is this, Ohio?
27:05
I think it's Ohio. Yeah, it's Ohio.
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Are you like in something that I'm noticing?
27:10
OK, it's so fun to watch Love is Blind
27:11
because some seasons you'll be like, OK, all the girls
27:13
are kind of cuckoo on this season.
27:16
And this season it's like a lot of the guys.
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It's mostly guys that are like the problem ones.
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And what I'm noticing a lot of them are saying is
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they will say something so mean and horrible,
27:27
kind of like Tyra, actually, like a lot of body shaming.
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And then they'll say, well, I just think that
27:35
like I would prefer a girl who, you know, does Pilates every every day.
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But that's just me being honest.
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And they always say, but that's just me being honest as if like your honesty
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exempts you from being a bad person.
27:49
And he's like, you know what?
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If me saying that makes me a bad person, like, at least I was being honest.
27:54
It's like, OK, and honestly, you are scum.
27:59
Well, they're missing the point of the show.
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The point of the show is Love Blind, not.
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No, I exactly like the looks of girls who do Pilates.
28:08
Also, do you do Pilates?
28:09
Like, and it's it's it's like it's the craziest thing.
28:15
And it's like it's so much look shaming and body shaming
28:18
on like the most pretty normal looking girls yet.
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So there's this to these girls' faces, girls that they have hooked up with
28:29
and have said I have proposed to and have said I love you to.
28:33
Oh, yeah, these boys suck.
28:34
No, they they suck, but they're just being honest.
28:37
So anyway, sorry, if no one wants love is blind.
28:40
I just like had to get that off my chest.
28:43
OK, interesting, interesting.
28:45
Um, anyway, that's enough rambling for today's episode.
28:50
I know we wanted to get into our last three transactions
28:53
where we spill our recent bank account subtractions.
28:56
Yes, because like while we are trying not to bring a junk into our home,
28:59
we are still bringing things into our home.
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But only the things that we need want.
29:05
Want to know only things that we need.
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And maybe it may be one.
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So I actually have been transacting, unfortunately.
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Do you want to start?
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Well, I'm going to start with I just placed like a big order for.
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Like organizers within my home.
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OK, organiser doesn't really feel like it totally like counts like.
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Different different bins and stackables and things of that nature
29:37
so I can organize the places within my house.
29:39
So it's buying new stuff to make me more effective and organized.
29:47
I did see the things you posted on your stories about your medicine.
29:50
That was a good idea.
29:51
Yeah, no, they're they're really good, like a clear organizer.
29:54
Organizers that are all the same.
29:56
I mean, it just there's it feels good.
29:59
So I have a lot of speaking engagements coming up,
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a lot of filming, a lot of speaking.
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So I did transact quite heavily.
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And I worked with my stylist.
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I like say my stylist, like it's bougie.
30:13
It's not. I have this girl named Izzy, who sometimes I'm like, hey,
30:15
can you put to me there like three outfits ASAP?
30:19
And she has me on my shop pop grind right now.
30:23
Shop pop. What's that?
30:25
So it's just like a website.
30:26
I think it's just kind of like a revolve, like it just carries a lot of brands.
30:29
OK. But I'm telling her, I'm like, I like to wear blue tones,
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like blue tones, blue tones, blue tones.
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She's like, I know you like blue tones.
30:36
She's like, but we need a secondary color.
30:37
That's not a neutral.
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And I'm like, no, I don't think so.
30:39
She goes, no, trust me.
30:40
So she has me introducing a lot of maroon up into my upcoming speaking engagements.
30:44
OK. And I'm kind of like really excited about it.
30:48
So my most excited.
30:48
I haven't tried it on yet, but I bought like a tool.
30:52
Maroon skirt with blue polka dots,
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which I know sounds kind of ugly when I'm describing it, but it's really cute.
30:57
I'm trying to find a picture for you.
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Oh, shop pop has a maternity section.
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So like this is what she wants me to like wear to the speaking thing.
31:08
Or she wants me to wear like that seems more my vibe.
31:11
That seems less yours.
31:12
This that seems more your vibe.
31:15
Yeah, but the maroon's kind of fun.
31:17
Yeah, just like a pop on the room.
31:21
OK, so did you order that stuff?
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I ordered a ton of stuff.
31:27
OK, well, speaking of events.
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I imagine me sitting in my bed at 8 p.m.
31:37
Googling going out black maternity clothes.
31:42
I'm going to this bachelorette party at a couple in like two months.
31:47
We just got the what you're supposed to what you're supposed to wear.
31:50
So I need a blue swimsuit and I need a black going out outfit.
31:57
Oh, it's like when she wears white and you guys wear black.
32:02
So I think you should wear.
32:04
OK, I think I have an idea.
32:05
I mean, obviously I ordered something, but I think it's a black body
32:08
contrast black jean jacket done.
32:10
Yeah, no, it's a black body contrast.
32:12
It's I actually had one from my first pregnancy
32:14
and I guess I threw it away because I could not find it anywhere.
32:18
So I did have to reorder it, but it's like just from Amazon.
32:22
But also just goes to show if you accidentally throw
32:25
something away and your purge clean on your like shoot, I need that and whatever.
32:29
I'm just going to get it again.
32:32
So I ordered a black body con dress for my.
32:34
Well, I think that's versatile.
32:35
And then I think you like throw a sharon over it.
32:38
Yeah, and I also do that.
32:41
Yeah, no, for sure.
32:42
Like the layering is definitely going to be a look.
32:44
And I also was looking at some to that we're like a little bit more flowy
32:48
and more like sundress vibes because we are going to Florida and it is a dinner
32:52
and then and then afters going out after.
32:55
I do think I will skirt going out after because I don't think anyone wants
32:58
to be there with like a twenty two week pregnancy.
33:00
I think it's a little alarming to show up to the club.
33:03
It is. It is. Yeah.
33:04
And I'm not I don't.
33:05
It feels inappropriate.
33:06
I know that's not what you want me to what you're not
33:09
when you're not supposed to say that because probably no one can do anything
33:11
and you can but like.
33:14
And again, like I would I would rather I think I'd rather just be
33:18
getting ice cream on the way home and sit in your bed.
33:21
It's insane. So anyway, I got a dress for that.
33:25
OK, mine's I don't have my I like wish I would have been more organized
33:28
and like my recent like speaking panel thing.
33:30
So like that was just like such a big haul.
33:32
But those haven't come in yet.
33:32
So don't feel like ready to speak on them.
33:34
But I did just place a big order of headbands for Hattie
33:36
because Hattie has officially transitioned from bows to headbands exclusively,
33:40
which I feel like, you know, around the age five,
33:42
like I think I mean, you can keep your kids in bows for longer.
33:44
But now that I have Libby and bows, like I was ready for Hattie,
33:47
that it's like we only had the one white bow, you know.
33:49
So it's like sorry, Libby has to wear it.
33:51
So Hattie is so and she's so beautiful in headbands.
33:54
But I like the headbands that have like the the knot at the top.
33:58
Mm hmm. I think those are the cutest.
33:59
So I bought a ginormous pack off Amazon.
34:01
Like every quarter under the sun.
34:03
Like they're so cheap.
34:04
They're just like a piece of plastic with like fabric wrapped around it.
34:08
Yeah. Not have every color. OK, perfect.
34:11
You know, she's like, they kind of hurt my ears.
34:12
And I'm like, well, you have to work like that.
34:14
And like that's fine.
34:16
Like for the picture and for church.
34:18
And then like that's all like we're not going anywhere.
34:19
We shouldn't wear a headband all day.
34:21
And there are no headbands are uncomfortable.
34:23
Please. That's what I'm saying.
34:24
When you find me a comfortable headband,
34:25
my sunglasses are the most comfortable headband I have.
34:29
So OK, the last thing that I got
34:32
is something about finding out that I was going to have another girl
34:36
made me feel totally more justified in spending more money on girl clothes.
34:43
Pajamas, well, I'll spoil it as it was Kate and Lane order.
34:46
I placed an order for Sloan and for James.
34:48
But then I'm also like, well, this is my only boy.
34:51
So I also that that I know of, like I might have more kids,
34:54
but like it kind of makes me want to splurge on him too.
34:57
So anyway, I placed a right.
35:03
Did a Kate and Lane order and something I didn't know Kate and Lane had
35:06
was they have adult pajamas too, and they have mommy and me pajamas.
35:11
So I got me and Sloan matching pajamas.
35:16
But mine are like the shorts with the button up in the collared shirt.
35:19
And Sloan's are also the shorts with the button up in the collared shirt.
35:28
Oh, you you're going to hate it.
35:29
It's like pink and bows, and it's just like a very in your face.
35:34
Well, I'm happy that I'm I feel a lot better that yours is shorts.
35:38
Like that yours is not like the skin tights on the skin tights.
35:40
Like that's my that's my beef with little sleepies.
35:43
No, no, no, the print is aggressive, but it is a like it's like a ruffle short.
35:48
Like it is a cuter pajama set.
35:53
Well, OK, I'm interested.
35:58
I and the pajamas are not like are typical.
36:00
Like they're like loose on the top, loose on the bottom.
36:02
Yes, yes, they're loose on the top, loose on the bottom.
36:04
Like they're the type of you've seen what pajamas I wear.
36:06
They're the type of pajamas I wear.
36:09
And see, that's very interesting because I need to find George George's new
36:12
pajamas and like I do feel like he's starting to give me a little bit of the
36:15
ick and like the little sleepies.
36:16
I mean, he's not giving me the ick, but like I can tell and like we I can tell
36:21
he's starting to like not love them because we also spent the night with some
36:24
friends a couple of weeks ago and like they have two boys their age and like
36:27
their boys were not wearing the skin tight pajamas.
36:30
I just I hate hearing the navigating the social aspects of parenthood
36:37
that you're going through.
36:40
So I'm trying to find, but like I'm not ready to not have a matching
36:44
pajama for George yet, just like me personally, my journey, like I'm still
36:47
would like him to have a few pairs of matching pajamas.
36:49
So I'm trying to find like I need like loose pajama pants and like a shirt.
36:54
But I like can't find them.
37:00
So maybe I'll check out Kate and Lane.
37:01
I have no advice to give you.
37:05
That like makes me want to cry.
37:09
And I feel fine about it pregnancy.
37:11
Yeah, no, it's like I'm ready for him to be, to be there.
37:14
Yeah, cause I'm also like there, he's such a fun kid.
37:17
Like there's so many other aspects of his life I'm excited about.
37:19
Like right now he like wants a pocket knife so bad.
37:21
And like, I don't know when you buy a kid a pocket knife.
37:23
Like what age do you think is appropriate for a pocket knife?
37:26
Like a little Swiss army knife.
37:27
No, I would say the average, the average boy in my mind would be higher,
37:31
a higher age than George.
37:33
George is very responsible.
37:37
But like what if Fred gets ahold of it?
37:39
That would be more concerned.
37:40
I mean, then it's like, well, Fred could get ahold of a kitchen knife if you
37:45
But George is like, Mom, did I have a dream or did you say I was old enough
37:47
for a pocket knife?
37:48
Like that's what he told me.
37:48
And you're like, I don't know.
37:52
I'm like, ask your dad, George.
37:53
Like, I don't know.
37:54
That's yeah, that's a dad decision.
37:56
But yeah, his birthday is coming up in May and that's all he's been talking about.
37:59
He wants a pocket pocket knife.
38:02
Can you just face your George like with jeans and a pocket knife?
38:04
Yeah, he's really like, he's really into dressing up right now.
38:08
Like, and it's kind of annoying because it's like, he's outshining the rest of us.
38:12
Like, yeah, I'm wearing athlete, we're wearing a fish fry.
38:14
I'm wearing an athleisure.
38:15
Everyone else is just like their play clothes.
38:17
Tyler's in a hoodie and we're like, George, come on.
38:19
He's like, I'm almost ready.
38:21
Comes out cowboy hat, belt, button down, tucked in in his jeans.
38:25
I'm just like, how can you like, yeah.
38:27
And how can you discourage that?
38:30
I'm like, you look great.
38:32
I should have probably dressed up more.
38:34
Yeah, it's just so funny.
38:35
Like, that's what he's into right now.
38:36
Like, I was expecting that.
38:38
Like, you've always heard of like a girl, like, you know, wanting to like wear a
38:40
dress or like where it sparkles.
38:42
No, George, like I picked out a polo for him to wear to church.
38:45
Like, just like a long sleeve polo.
38:46
And he's like, can I wear a shirt with buttons all the way down, mom?
38:49
I'm like, sure, George, I love that kid.
38:53
OK, I think I have one more.
38:56
Yeah, because I started.
38:58
OK, I like not an exciting one at all, but like the chokehold that's scrubbing
39:02
that scrubby daddies have on me is unbelievable.
39:05
I can't do dishes without them.
39:08
Yeah, I like never really bought them.
39:10
And then I like bought one at a whim and then I was like, oh, this is unbelievable.
39:14
Like, I love a scrubby daddy scrub daddy.
39:17
That's what it's called.
39:18
But like, they don't last that long.
39:20
Like, I'm probably going through eight a year at the moment and like $13.
39:30
No, they're probably a little less than that.
39:31
Because I think I got a four pack, three pack for $13.
39:33
So I'm just saying, like, I just had to make another repurchase on Amazon.
39:36
Like, I wish I had a subscribe and save option because I'm just kind of like
39:39
there with these things.
39:40
But like I like when mine starts to like lose its lose its scrubbiness.
39:45
I'm like, arg, I have to get the brush out.
39:47
I don't like the brush.
39:48
I like my scrub daddy.
39:50
I mean, there's a reason they're viral.
39:52
Like, like, I'm not I'm not crazy because like there's a reason everyone
39:55
they're the reason they're the most popular sponge out there right now.
39:57
No, yeah, you're right.
40:00
So I don't want to hold into what sponge.
40:02
Like, I don't like holding.
40:03
Well, see, I don't wear dish gloves and mom was always a dish glove girl.
40:07
We never talk about that.
40:08
I never saw our mother and our own takes better care of ourselves than we do,
40:12
probably, because like, mom will like get in the pool and like, she'll keep her
40:14
hands up like this because she doesn't want her hands to get in the water.
40:17
You don't notice that she does that?
40:18
No, I know that she does that.
40:22
And her hands look young.
40:23
So maybe she's onto something.
40:24
Maybe we should be wearing gloves.
40:25
Well, maybe that's just a hack.
40:28
It's just like wear gloves.
40:31
When you're doing dishes, I just don't.
40:33
I don't even know if I don't even own a pair of dish gloves.
40:40
No, I don't use them as often as I should.
40:43
But I also think that if you're going to wear dish gloves, like you have to do
40:48
your dishes proper, like you have to clean everything else or just start with your dishes.
40:53
Like you can't keep putting them on and putting off.
40:55
I think I'm a little bit too ADHD to like sit there in front of and just do dishes.
40:58
Well, I think my kids are like, I think it's like I'm trying to do that.
41:00
And then like Libby's like trying to.
41:06
Anyway, Kel, we have some advice questions.
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If you want to answer some.
41:11
This comes from Jen, three across machine question mark.
41:26
I'm a long time listener.
41:27
Recently, my husband and I were on a, on a way up in North to ski and it was a Friday.
41:30
So naturally I turn on the podcast.
41:32
My husband's a very good sport and he, and he genuinely thoroughly enjoyed it.
41:35
He thanks you to our hysterical.
41:36
Now he's listening on his drives to sales calls so we can chat.
41:42
We are in the market for a new car.
41:43
We're both over six feet tall and have a baby.
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I drive a Jeep Grand Cherokee and because of our super long legs, 38 inseam, we
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did not get enough car seat clearance without having the passenger knees slammed
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We are planning to have another baby next year and it won't be safe to have the
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car seat behind the driver.
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Um, in addition, the Jeep needs new brakes.
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So they're getting rid of the Jeep.
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Um, we are planning to have three, maybe four kids.
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We're looking at used atlases with a bench, but man, the lack of ceiling vents
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makes me a tad nervous.
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My husband keeps saying, honey, it was the car mom car of the year.
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I think we should go for it.
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Our question is the Ford Explorer, is the Ford Explorer a three across machine?
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Is there another car we should be looking at?
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Our goal is to find a car for 35 K, but we could go up to 40 K if necessary.
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My husband loves a good deal.
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We were just talking about this.
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Um, so the two three across machines in the midsize market are the pilot and the
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Now, does that mean that other three across combos don't work?
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Those are the only two cars I would buy with the intention to do in the
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Those are the only two cars I would buy to do three across.
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I put the Ford Explorer in the category of, yeah, we could, if you have that car
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and you have a surprise pregnancy, I could give you a combination that would work.
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The difference between those cars and what I would call a machine is versatility.
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It's like there's one combination in the Ford Explorer.
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And as soon as someone's in a booster, it's going to be incredibly inconvenient.
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Where I feel like the Atlas and the pilot offer more options and it's a car that
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grows with the family better.
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So like how many kids do they have now?
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They have one baby.
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Well, the thing is, it's like, I just don't know if you're buying your car for
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And I know I have no one likes me to tell you that, but I think a more financially.
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So first of all, I think if you were pregnant with your fourth right now, I
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would tell you to go buy an Atlas, I think.
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Third or fourth, I would, I think the Atlas has a much for as good as the
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pilot benches, the Atlas bench is that much better.
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The lack of ceiling vents is a bummer.
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It is not, in my opinion, a deal breaker for a couple of reasons.
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One, it affects rear facing kids the most.
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And that's a short window.
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Depending on where you live, it only affects them for a portion of the season.
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So you're kind of talking about like, are we really not going to buy a car
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because six months out of the years for the two years that your kids is
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So a total of 12 months and you're going to keep the car for seven years.
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They're going to be hot, which you can cool the car down.
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Like they're also going to be fine.
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To me, it's a lot more of a convenience feature.
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Like I wish the Atlas had it, but you can't.
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I would, I would choose a good bench to do over the ceiling vents for sure.
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That's just my opinion.
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A smarter option for you guys would be, I would just go buy.
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Like a beater, not even a beater, but like, why don't you go buy four floors or
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cheap, why don't you go buy a 2017 Ford, what year's their Jeep?
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I don't know that she didn't say.
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Well, like go buy a year newer than your Jeep Ford Explorer and like keep that
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thing for three years, four years.
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And then when you're ready, when you're pregnant with your third, then let's do
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the three across car because it's just like any car works for you.
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No, depending on how quickly you're going to have the kids.
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Like if you're telling me, no, like we're already trying for number two and
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then we're going to do three right after sure, get the Alice.
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But I would just say, like I always caution families against trying to buy
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their quote unquote family car, their longterm car, their 10 year car when
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they're such a young family like this, because things can just change.
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What if it's not enough room for you?
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The Alice was not enough room for me for four, three kids.
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That's when I felt like I wanted to go full size.
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Now that's just me, Sam on our team.
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She loves her Alice.
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But like, I just don't know who you are and you don't know who you are.
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So I think by the time you're ready to up to do the Atlas,
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Volkswagen wakes up and puts ceiling vents in the third row or in the second row.
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I just, you don't need an Atlas right now.
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If you need a car, I think like, let's go buy a Ford Explorer.
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Let's go buy a Ford.
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I think a Ford Explorer would be a great one.
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If you feel like you want the ceiling vents and the cheapest chips, the Ford
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Explorer, I think, I think you answered that.
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Well, I think you kind of like gave her her options.
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I think her biggest holdup is the ceiling vents.
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So if you think that's not that big of a deal, then she needs to make that
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decision herself and maybe she can hold off for them.
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I love listening to your podcast and follow you both on Insta.
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I have been thinking for a while about getting a new car, but I need some advice.
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I have two kids, five and two, and do not plan to have more.
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I currently drive a Tesla Model Y and my husband drives it.
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We both love these cars, but I'm wondering if I need to upgrade to something larger.
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My sister lives close and we help watch each other's kids one to three times a week.
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She has a two year old and a baby on the way.
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Three across in the Tesla is terrible.
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So I usually drive my husband's truck when I have my sister's kids.
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Now that there will be four kids, I'm wondering if it's worth it to trade in
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the Tesla for something larger or just make it work for the few days a week that
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I have all four kids.
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My sister just got a pathfinder with a third row and switching cars is an option
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when I have all the kids, but it's difficult when we both leave early in the morning for work.
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If getting a new car is what you recommend, what car would you suggest?
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I like luxury cars or ones that feel that way.
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We usually gravitate towards Lexus, Toyota and Honda.
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So this one's interesting because from what I'm understanding, like it's not
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this is like purely a want.
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It's kind of like a one, but it's also kind of sounds like a convenience thing
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because like she watches her sister's kids pretty regularly, it seems.
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Did she say like it doesn't have to be electric or she doesn't care about that?
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But she didn't say anything about electric.
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I mean, there's a lot of there's so many different directions that you could go here.
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Like again, I think I would default to like, OK, what's the most
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what car offers like the most versatility that I feel like checks your boxes and your vibes?
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I think the Lexus TX would be you would even get the hybrid would be a really good option.
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That's a fabulous car.
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Like people are sleeping on that car.
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That's the best car in the Lexus lineup right now.
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The TX like the plug in hybrid chefs, kiss, no notes.
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So I think that could be a great option.
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You know, same thing.
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I think the Grand Highlander is fine.
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You could get that or the Honda pilot.
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I don't think she's going to like the pilot.
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And she like likes luxury.
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She's going to like take one look at the Honda pilot interior.
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She said they gravitate towards the Honda is one of the brands they gravitate towards.
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So that's. Oh, well, then I think you love the pilot.
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You also love the Odyssey.
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Yeah. You just like really want to like just do the most.
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But I think the TX would get the TX is the most family, in my opinion,
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the most family friendly luxury car in the midsize market.
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Gives her the flexibility for the occasional use,
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gives her the hybrid electric vibes and gives her the luxury.
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Yeah, I feel I'm going to lock in with that.
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Bada bing. Bada bing.
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Those are our advice questions.
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OK, well, now it's time for Ditch the Drive Through.
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We give you an easy dinner recipe to mix it up to get you out of your dinner rut.
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Now, I have really been quite on the food journey with my sugar-free journey
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because I really just noticed that here's the sad part about me and food right now.
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It's becoming a less big deal to me, which is sad and good.
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Yeah, because like it's good because like I was like obsessing,
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like what am I going to have for dinner?
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I want to have something good for dinner tonight.
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Like what should I make for dinner?
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And it was like taking up so much in my headspace.
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But then it was bad because like I do think meals and cooking can be really fun and enjoyable.
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And I just there's still so much you can do when you're just not even sugar free.
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Like you can basically eat anything except for sauces and sugar.
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But I have just kind of noticed it's like kind of changed my excitement around food.
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So all to say is I don't have that many exciting meals planned.
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But like tonight for dinner, I have pork, pork and the crock pot.
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Yum. And then we are doing rice and broccoli.
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Yeah. And now I'm going to get out the sweet baby rays.
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And like if anyone wants to do like a pork slider, like they can do that.
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I'm going to probably throw some salsa on mine and hope that I am satiated.
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You're kind of eating more like a bachelor.
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Yeah, I kind of am.
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You know, I've kind of complained about my family's eating,
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but there is also something that is like really nice about the fact
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that if I did just have to make ground beef,
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like my husband would be thrilled to have ground beef, cheese and hot sauce.
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Like that's all he needs.
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And there was something that bothered me at first about that
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because I was with you as like there's so much like I want you to be so excited
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about all the toppings I'm cutting up and everything I'm doing.
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There is something nice about like you're not going to be upset
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if it's the bearman because I kind of had a busy day.
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Well, in fact, he prefers that.
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Yeah. And I just need to I think.
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That I was just like using all foods is like everything had to be special.
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Everything had to be a celebration.
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Not even and not even that I was eating a bunch of junk.
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It was just like, let's make something fun for dinner.
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And it's like, no, there's nothing fun for dinner.
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It's a meat and vegetable.
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Grab a sauce if you need one.
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Yeah. My kids have, I mean, basically the whole family,
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except for like the kids are still having dessert
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and the kids are still having a lot of fruit.
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But we're really basically like eating more sugar free at night.
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No one's complained.
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Yeah. No one's complained.
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We might we're going to do burger bowls again this week
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because that was a really big hit last week.
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And then I did want to make.
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I want to do like a tie peanut sauce bowl.
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And I am going to allow myself to use a little bit of honey in that sauce
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because I get just needs.
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You can't it's like peanut butter.
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I'll do unsweetened peanut butter, soy sauce, rice, vinegar, garlic, lime.
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And I am going to add the honey.
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And then I'm going to do chicken like all like the good.
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I'm going to I want to get a I saw this real.
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I want to get like a ribbonizer for carrots.
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Carrots, cucumbers, chicken, sprouts, peanut sauce.
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Oh, that sounds delicious.
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I know. Does that sound good?
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Yeah. That's not special.
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Maybe maybe you only need like your special meals
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like once or twice a week.
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And then every other weekday, it's just like protein, veggie, starch.
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Yeah. So tonight I'm nervous about the pork
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because like I just am really going to want.
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I mean, the best part about pulled pork is we have you raise.
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But I'm going to do salsa and sour cream and see if that does anything for me.
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Well, and you know what smaller Sam PCOS does a lot is she will take
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like her hot sauce or her salsa and her sour cream and she'll mix them together.
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So that way it's one sauce.
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Yeah, that that and that was a little bit more fun.
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Yeah, that would help me.
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That would help me.
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Yeah. And then I just need to place like a primal kitchen market order
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because they have so many sauces.
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They're just like so hard to find.
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But they have a sugar free tart sauce, which I would like to try.
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So yeah, that's up with me.
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OK, that's our episode.
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And that's our episode.
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