HGTV is a TV channel known for home makeovers and reality shows. Here, the hosts are just talking about that style of show and how different people on it feel.
This is a playful description of a car-shopping reality format, analogous to “House Hunters” but focused on vehicles. It’s a media concept rather than a specific automotive term, but it frames how the “car mom” idea would work.
Topic
short series
They’re talking about making a limited-run show. Instead of many episodes over a long time, it would be a small set of episodes.
Topic
workshopping it
They haven’t fully finalized the plan yet. They’re still trying ideas and tweaking it.
Luxury cars are the more upscale versions of cars, usually with nicer interiors and more comfort features. Reviews of luxury cars often focus on how nice they feel to drive and live with.
A used car is one that someone else already bought before you. When people review used cars, they usually talk about whether it’s a good deal and what problems to watch for.
A trim is basically the version of the same car with different features. Some versions cost more because they add extra stuff, so choosing a mid or lower trim can be a smarter deal.
Topic
car pullers
They’re talking about people who help with cars—like getting them, bringing them around, or helping film them. It’s basically a community role around car content.
Concept
Instagram insights
Instagram insights are the app’s built-in stats. They help you see whether your posts are reaching the people you want to reach.
Topic
keys please 2.0
It sounds like a car-related show or series, and “2.0” means a newer version. They’re saying they’re excited for the next update.
The hosts emphasize that how a car feels to you matters, and that you should drive it rather than relying on assumptions or a passenger’s opinion. This is why dealerships push for a real test drive: comfort, visibility, steering feel, and seating position can’t be fully judged without being behind the wheel.
Merging is when you join another lane of traffic. You should look for a safe opening, match the speed of the cars around you, and use your mirrors and turn signal.
Resealing is like putting a protective layer on top of asphalt. It can help the surface last longer, but if the driveway is already badly damaged underneath, resealing won’t do much.
Asphalt is the common black material used for roads and driveways. Over time it can wear out and get bumpy or crack, especially if it wasn’t maintained.
“Mill it” means they grind off the worn top layer of the driveway. That way the new surface can go on evenly instead of over the bad stuff.
Term
repack it
“Repack it” usually means they put the base material back and press it down firmly. That helps keep the driveway from getting bumpy or developing holes later.
Topic
VIP ticket nights
They’re describing special VIP nights where you get extra access to the event. It sounds like there are limited tickets and VIP guests get more activities than general admission.
An auto show is a public event where automakers and aftermarket companies display vehicles, concepts, and new models. The hosts mention giving tours and taking questions, which is typical of how auto shows are experienced.
Catcheride Network is a charity that helps people who can’t reliably get around. They arrange transportation so families can reach places like medical appointments.
Tesla is a company that makes electric cars. The hosts are talking about what Tesla should improve in the auto industry, like how well their cars or business practices are doing in a certain area.
The Nissan XTerra is an SUV made by Nissan that’s built for people who want a tougher, adventure-ready vehicle. It’s designed to handle rougher roads better than many regular family cars. The podcast mentions it as a possible “where’s their car?” option in that category.
GMC is talking about bringing back a model name called the “Jimmy.” The hosts are mostly joking about how funny and memorable the name is, not getting into specs.
“Reviving” a nameplate usually means bringing back a model name (and sometimes the original design philosophy) after it was discontinued. In this context, the hosts are discussing whether GM would reintroduce the Jimmy with the classic truck-based character rather than a purely modern reinterpretation.
Body-on-frame means the car has a separate “truck frame” underneath, and the body bolts to it. It’s common on SUVs and trucks that are meant to handle rough roads and towing.
An off-road SUV is meant for dirt roads, trails, and rough ground. It’s not just for looks—it's built to handle traction and bumps better than a regular street-focused SUV.
AI images are pictures made by software, not actual photos of a real car. The hosts are wondering if these are just guesses about what a vehicle could look like.
IIHS is a safety organization that tests cars after crashes in controlled ways. They give ratings so you can see which vehicles are safer in real-world crash situations.
Crash testing means a car is put through crash simulations to see how safely it protects people. It helps determine which cars do better in real crashes.
LIVE
Welcome to the Carpool podcast with Kelly.
Years ago, we filmed a pilot for house hunters for cars, basically.
And we were working with a production company.
I actually love the people we worked with.
And no one picked it up.
And Liz.
I'm so excited to sleep in a hotel room tonight.
I hope Maddie's hearing this.
Maddie, I just want you to know,
thank you for staying home with the kids.
And also, I'm going to sleep like a rock tonight.
Your mom time off starts now.
Welcome back to the Carpool podcast with Kelly.
And Liz.
The vibes are different.
We are remotely recording.
It's the carpool on the road.
We carpooled.
We did.
We didn't literally record on the road.
I did consider it.
But upon further reflection, we were like,
maybe if we drove and podcasted,
it would be a little bit dangerous
and not really a good look for the car mom.
Exactly.
And yeah, like I would have had to held the mic.
So I would have had to do one hand of the driving.
So we just completely faded that.
And instead, we are lounging on hotel beds.
And it is euphoric, I think is the only way to describe it.
We just completed a four hour road trip from St. Louis
to Cedar Rapids, Iowa.
We're sitting in a lovely renovated double tree by Hilton.
It's lovely.
Speaking of travel things, I need
to become a Hilton rewards member or something.
You should.
Mattie's one of those.
And he always asks for an upgrade.
And they usually give it to him.
I am leaving money on the table.
I need to get my life together.
I need to get a credit card.
I need to get pre-check.
And I need to become a Hilton member.
I also, big news for me, just ordered a bigger carry-on.
Because Continental gives me this carry-on.
And then I just thought that was the size of carry-ons.
But then I would notice people taking huge suitcases.
And I'm like, well, I need to use some more room.
So not only, not freaking only, did I buy a new carry-on.
I also bought a new bag to go on top of my carry-on.
Or to match it.
Yeah, as a double.
I feel like it's time.
You have a lot of travel in the future.
You've been really ramping up your travel.
You are a businesswoman who travels.
I just think you need.
I need the gear.
You don't need a gifted suitcase
that says Continental on it and your old daggers
over diaper bag.
No, he's not going to do that.
I just think you could present yourself
a little bit differently.
I totally agree.
So what was the brand of choice?
Yeah, no, I'm happy you asked.
So I ended up going with a Quince suitcase.
Oh, no way.
Yeah, Quince of suitcases.
Quince of suitcases.
Quince is becoming like,
like what's a store that has everything?
Like just, I can't.
I just ordered some candles from there the other day.
Of course you did.
Like I'm telling you, they're about like.
I ordered, my order was like a linen shirt for James
and like three candles.
And they're free shipping.
So it's like you don't need to order a lot.
Like you can go there just for a candle
and like it's like ordering from Amazon.
Like it's going to be there in two days
and the shipping was free.
That's so interesting.
Well, I've just been ordering.
I just ordered because you know,
like my toxic trade is like
I really have trouble just checking out with one thing.
I know.
Also checked out to like skater dresses
for Hattie and Libby
and they look like Bowden or T collection.
Like they're darling.
Anyway, so Quince had it's at a large carry on
and they had the perfect shade of blue.
Okay, cute.
But like in a, but still like
not necessarily a professional
but like a bun kind of way.
And then I got a black bag to go on top from
base or away.
It was one of those things.
They look like the exact same bag.
You know, they've got the shoe compartment.
They got the strap to go over the handle.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Catch me like really ramping it up.
And I'm just always looking to like refine my brand.
Like, you know, I only like to present myself in public
in public settings in a blue.
Yeah, it's just it's good for the brand.
And I needed to appear as a more professional traveler.
I agree.
So happy for you.
Yeah, happy for me too.
So that was my big news.
And yeah, I'm kind of, I'm kind of on tour right now,
to be honest.
You're like a bus club, another club, no sleep.
Like because from this trip,
I have to fly directly to Chicago for another event.
Yeah.
So Liz will be road tripping home solo.
I know, bummer.
It won't be a bummer.
I need to download a book tonight.
Someone sent me,
cause you know, I was talking about systems the other day
and someone was like, this book was so great.
I listened to the audio version
and I'm going to re-listen to it
because I need to like remember what the systems are.
What's it called?
Well, I screenshotted it because I couldn't.
Are you sure that's what you want to do?
You don't want to get like a fun like,
just like storybook to listen to.
You know what, like when I'm really interested
in something like systems or organizing my home,
like I really just want to consume content like that.
Okay, that's fine.
She said it was called
how to manage your home without losing your mind.
It has so many tangible takeaways.
Well, let's get the author on the podcast
if you like the book.
Cause you know, we are-
Dana K. White writes books about decluttering,
but she has one called.
Okay, there we go.
Let's get Dana on the podcast.
Well, we'll see if we like the book.
Totally.
But if we don't,
maybe she can come on and defend herself.
So yeah, so Liz, so we,
so we're here for a women lead change,
kind of like major conference.
Like I don't know if you guys heard
but like Joanna Gaines is also
at the same conference we are, so.
Yeah, I think we've like beat that horse so dead, but.
Well, just in case anyone hadn't heard,
like we are sharing the stage is an over exaggeration,
but like we are speaking on the same stage
at separate times.
I believe, yes, yes, yes.
I do think she's like flying in the day,
like right before her speech
and like we will be,
you will be flying away and I will be driving home.
So I don't think we're actually gonna get a meter, but.
Yeah, I don't see her being the type to like
come to the optional reception dinner tonight.
You don't think she's staying
in the double tree by Hilton tonight?
I think she's flying and flying out on her PJ.
I bet, yeah, for sure.
Which good for her.
Yeah.
Good for her.
I just watched, I think I told you this.
She's a mother of like seven.
No, I know.
Like she's busy.
She's busy and she's Joanna Gaines.
Like talk about someone who's got irons in the fire.
Yeah.
Jay Gaines.
And I just watched her like special
where they'd reach their mountain home.
I love, it's not really my exact style,
but I love how she transforms a space.
Like no one transforms a space more.
Like I don't know if her decorating and it's beautiful.
It's just not my vibe.
But it's amazing what she can do.
She's always just been the most fun to watch on,
like when she was on HGTV and stuff,
because her transformations were the most dramatic.
Like they were amazing.
You've watched some people on HGTV
and you're like, you have no,
like this is terrible, you have no taste.
Like she is something different.
I'm ready for HGTV to kind of shake it up Chicago.
Yeah, I agree.
It's kind of the same formula, different personalities.
Like can we do something new?
It really does feel like they are missing an opportunity
to like take over, like buy us out for keys, please
with the car mom.
Like the car mom takes someone car shopping.
Well, no one knows this.
Maybe we'll do, but we filmed a pilot.
Have we ever said this?
It was years ago.
Years ago, we filmed a pilot
for like house hunters for cars basically.
And we were working with a production company.
I actually loved the people we worked with
and no one picked it up.
I will say we didn't like seek this out.
Like they sought the car mom out.
So we didn't have any money invested in it.
But yeah, it would have been cool,
but it was going to be like a short, like shorts,
like a short series, but I don't know.
I think keys, please could be big.
Keys, please has legs
and some people didn't like the name,
but they also, I'm sorry,
don't tell me you don't like it
and then not give me a better suggestion.
Well, what do you want?
Keys, please.
I'll take the keys, please.
I'll say yes to the dress.
I'll take the keys, please.
That was kind of our thoughts.
Like at the end, I will be like,
so what do you think?
Do you want the keys?
Please, there's something there.
We're still workshopping it, but yeah, it's cute.
It's cute.
So anyway, keys, please should be launching soon.
Yeah, I think it's fully added in.
I just like, I go back and forth
because I can already like,
so the last one we did was luxury cars with Merrick.
And then this other one happened to be your friend
who has also happened to be in the luxury market.
So I just like can already see the people on Instagram
being like, you only do luxury, like your own life.
I know, and I'm telling you there's,
I can take a lot of comments.
That comment makes me so mad
because I personally feel like I go above and beyond
to cover cars for every budget.
Like please find another person in my space
who's ever reviewed a used car,
who has lists for used cars,
who tells you the best car that you,
the best car for your first time
is the car you already have.
Like I'm sorry.
Who tours a trim that's not the highest.
Who actually suggests the mid to lower trim levels.
I'm sorry, like it shouldn't bother me
because it's so unbelievably untrue.
Yeah.
But I, people have different budgets.
People have different, and that's not your fault.
No, it's not their fault.
And it's not their fault.
No, like their situations are both very unique.
And I think it bothers me so much
because it just comes down to like,
I guess people being jealous or unhappy
or making assumptions.
But like, I don't know what to tell you.
These two people, like one was Merrick.
She's an influencer.
Of course I'm going to do her.
The other is a dear friend.
Of course I'm going to do her.
And she happened to be car shopping.
And it's like, the other thing is like,
we want to make sure,
like we kind of want to have a baseline
of like knowing the person to make sure that
you're not this, the energy is going to be right
to like show this kind of stuff.
So, and they have to be willing to do it as well.
So what I, I haven't edited.
I just like, wasn't sure if we wanted to fill,
try and find another person and like film
another one of like, not luxury,
just to avoid the comments.
People can let us know if they want us to delay it
or if the car pullers can just rise up
with the brains that I know you have.
Cause I'm not worried about the car pullers.
And what's been interesting lately is my contents
has been landing on different sides of Instagram.
And so I can tell in my insights,
I can tell when a real reaches more
of my non audience than my audience and it's jarring.
You can get a little jarring.
Yeah.
But also say my problem's not yours.
But I am excited for keys please 2.0 to launch.
And I do have a lot of people who I need to go through
who are also looking for cars.
Okay.
So yeah, so the options are there.
Like we just, it's just a matter of filming it.
It's a matter of filming it,
it's a matter of a day.
And like things are just like so busy right now.
But again, our problem's not yours.
You know, I was listening back to our episode
and I was cracking up about how we were like,
I'm just looking for like more like grocery store conversations
because I can't always like tell people
like what's actually going on in my life.
So to give you guys an update,
like the garden is planted.
The garden looks great.
It looks so great.
It looks so intentional.
It does.
Tyler did a really good job.
Yeah, I know.
I didn't do it.
He did tell her to do it.
But I did pick out the plants.
I do worry I overbought,
but the problem is the plants are so small,
but I understand they're gonna get so big.
Yeah, I think you're fine.
Yeah.
I don't know, I don't know anything about gardening.
I don't either.
But we are starting to get,
we found big cherry tomato plants
that kind of already established ones.
Okay.
We're starting to get like a little bud.
I'm gonna be swimming in bell peppers though.
But I love bell peppers.
My kids love bell peppers, so I'm excited.
I'm telling you, my mother-in-law plants cherry tomatoes
and she will literally drop me off a box
of like a hundred little cherry tomatoes
cause she's like overwhelmed with the amount that grows.
I see, I just can't imagine that.
Like I'm struggling.
And they're like amazing.
They're so good.
Like I literally eat them like candy.
Like I like, I keep a little bowl.
I don't even, maybe I could do salt.
I don't put anything on them.
And I just pop them in my mouth like chips or candy.
It's amazing.
Yummy.
I love that.
So that's what's really new with me.
And then Elizabeth and I just kind of road tripped up here.
We took her carnival.
Literally didn't make, I have a hybrid
and I filled it up the day before we left.
Didn't make a dent.
Our four hour drive did not make a dent in my gas mileage.
It didn't make a dent.
I mean, you lost a quarter of a tank of gas.
I lost a quarter of a tank of gas.
We drove four hours.
Kelly, didn't make a dent.
I'm not going to have to refill it on my way back.
That's incredible.
I was tracking, I reset the thing
and I was tracking the MPGs in the carnival
because I was curious.
And we were getting around 32, 33.
Feels good.
It feels really good.
I'm very, I'm proud of the carnival.
Yeah.
You said you didn't love the drive and I don't mind it.
Here's the thing.
I also didn't like the drive of the Sienna last week.
I don't.
You don't like minivan drives.
It's not that I don't like them.
I'm just, it's just not what I'm used to.
I am more comfortable.
It's just a preference thing.
I'm more comfortable in an SUV.
A full-size SUV because let me tell you
like a Pathfinder and the Kia carnival feel the same.
Not to me.
Oh, they do to me.
But that's why it's like, it's so personal.
Yeah.
Like how you feel in a car is everything.
That's why I can't believe sometimes when I used to sell cars
there are people who'd be like, well, I don't need to drive it.
And I literally was like,
no, I'm like not selling you a car.
You don't drive.
Like I'm sorry.
Like I'm not doing that.
You have to drive it.
You have to drive it.
Yeah.
And you have to like drive it.
Like you can't just piddle around the parking lot.
Like you have to go get it on slow roads,
get it over, get it on a highway, merge, park.
Like, please, please, please, please.
You have to drive.
Yeah.
Totally.
So anyway, yeah.
Speaking of drive, we just got up here.
Uh-huh.
And now we are kind of just taking a beat.
I had, you can go ahead.
No, you're fine.
We're taking a beat.
We have like a little reception today.
And then Liz and I made a swanky dinner reservation.
A swanky.
We, I was fine trying to find,
I like literally searched date night ideas
and Cedar Rapids.
Cause I'm like, we want a nice restaurant.
Like it's just me and her like.
No, here's the thing.
Our husbands aren't nice.
Our husbands don't appreciate a nice restaurant.
Yeah.
And like Elizabeth does and I do.
And we don't get out much.
Yeah.
And we don't get instant business expense.
Like there's no the name that we don't need to justify.
And also like your diet is kind of restrictive.
So like kind of a steakhouse is the perfect place
for you to go.
So you can get like a ribeye.
Exactly.
So we found a swanky restaurant
that's like in an old bank.
Yeah.
So we'll be going there.
And I thought it'd be fun to do like,
you know, just something fun and then with my sister.
And I said, why don't we get each other ready?
Why don't you let me do your makeup
and you do my makeup?
No.
And she said, no.
No, I don't want to.
It's going to take too long, Kel.
I don't want to.
I just don't want to.
Will you consider it another time?
I think it'd be funny content.
Yeah, maybe another time.
But like, here's what I really wanted to do.
We just had four hours together.
Now we're recording a 45 minute long podcast.
I'd love to do our makeup in silence.
And we have a dinner date tonight
at the hottest date night place in Cedar Rapids.
So I think we need to like, chill out for a minute.
OK, so yeah, because it's with an over dinner.
I'll tell you everything that happened
while I was doing my makeup.
Yeah.
It'll give us some content to talk about.
We're going to need something.
It's going to be a long silent dinner.
This episode is brought to you by K-12.
Education is not a one size fits all
and no one knows their child better than you do.
You know what environment your child needs to thrive.
And when a child feels safe and supported
in their learning environment, it can make all the difference.
That's why so many families are turning to K-12 powered schools
for at home learning.
K-12 is a welcoming environment for students and families alike.
And let your child learn where they feel most comfortable.
K-12 offers tuition free accredited online public schools
for students in kindergarten through 12th grade
with flexible education options tailored to each child's
needs, interests, and goals.
But this is different than traditional homeschooling.
Students learn from K-12 state certified teachers
that are trained in online education
who provide personalized instruction and real time
support and use hands on innovative technology that
makes learning interactive.
K-12 has more than 25 years of experience
helping students reach their full potential
and it could be the perfect fit for your child too.
Find a school that moves at your child's pace
and supports them every step of the way with K-12.
Enroll online today at k-12.com slash carpool.
That's the letter K in the number 12.com slash carpool.
K-12.com slash carpool.
Today's episode is brought to you by Newly.
I'm at the phase of my life where I am just constantly
ebbing and flowing between clothing sizes
because I'm getting pregnant, I'm getting postpartum,
I'm getting pregnant again.
And I just cannot buy a whole new wardrobe
during the different seasons of my life
during the different sizes of my life.
So that's why I've really loved Newly
because Newly allows me to get that new clothes feeling
without the new clothes price.
Newly is a subscription clothing rental service
that lets you pick six styles every month for just $98.
You get your choice of any six styles
rent for whatever you have going on.
So like dresses if you have a wedding
or just everyday life and you get access
to thousands of styles from hundreds of brands
like Reformation, Mother, Hill House and more.
Newly also has inclusive sizing
with options for plus petite, tall and maternity.
Plus fast free shipping and returns
plus professional dry cleaning and laundry
and the option to buy what you love
at a really great discount.
I have bought things from Newly
that still had their tag on them
for like an insane discount.
The great thing about Newly is it helps you have fun
and get creative and explore your style
without making any commitments.
Free your closet to impulse purchases
and skip the nothing to wear spiral by renting instead.
There are no late fees or damaged fees
or fees to pause or cancel.
So no big deal if you lose a button,
spill something or just need to take a break.
It also has tons of maternity options.
Newly can help you get from the just popped
to postpartum in style.
Newly is a great value at $98 a month for any six styles
but right now you can get $28 off your first month
when you sign up with code CARPOOL.
Just go to N-U-U-L-Y dot com
and enter code CARPOOL at sign up
and get $20 to $8 off your first month.
That's N-U-U-L-Y dot com.
Newly with to use and insert code CARPOOL
for $28 off your first month.
Newly subscription clothing rental, change your clothes.
Something that I'm doing lately,
kind of my micro hobby right now is going on walks.
I'm like really ramping up my walks.
I want, I love going on walks.
It's one of my favorite things to do.
Our new neighborhood,
our old neighborhood was horrible for walking.
It was just like hills.
So this one, it was really important to me
that we had a neighborhood that we could walk in.
It's got some hills, but like some healthy hills,
like get your glutes working.
And also the hills are a little avoidable.
And you could avoid,
I could take a relaxing walk if I needed to.
So I want to be a walk family.
I want my kids to love going on walks
and like right now we're doing that.
And now that we have the dog, we have to take him out a lot.
So I've been doing breakfast walks.
Did I talk about my breakfast walks on the podcast yet?
No, I've seen on your Instagram when I'm obsessed.
Okay, breakfast walks are my new thing
now that it's nice outside.
I'm trying to avoid like the kids wake up and like,
well, James wakes up and asks for TV
because I'm not like anti-screen time,
but I don't think it's great like first thing in the morning.
Like I can just tell he's not as happy
the rest of the morning.
When I get him outside though,
he seems to be in a better mood.
So we're doing what I call breakfast walks.
I got these little like,
kind of look like lunchable snack containers.
My kids eat the same thing
for breakfast every single morning.
They have sausage and maybe like a yogurt
or like they have sausage every single morning.
And then sometimes like some cereal or some toast
or some yogurt or like a banana or like a side,
but it's always this like apple gate sausage,
chicken and maple, they love it.
So I make some sausage, I put it in there,
I give them whatever else.
I load them up in either my mockingbird or my Zoe
and we go on a walk and they get some sunshine
and they eat way more than they would
if we were just sitting at the table.
Like I don't have great eaters.
So if you have great eaters,
maybe like don't mess with what's working,
but like they're just sitting there.
Like it's available, like they'll snack on it.
And it's just very casual and it's lovely.
I get to move my body, the dog gets a walk
and my kids get fresh air.
Yeah, I love this idea for you.
And then they're fed and like breakfast.
And you know, there's other on the kitchen floor
to clean up.
Exactly.
Yeah.
So I've been doing breakfast walks
and we also do a digestion walk.
And I love it when my almost a year old
asked to go on a digestion walk.
Cause it's the funniest thing.
So we go on dinners, we go on walks after dinner
to digest our food.
And I saw on Instagram this thing called a dandelion walk.
You're just like, how many different walks
are you in the name in this like brand?
I know, I'm sorry.
And I'm kind of getting sick of it.
I'm like, I have a thing in my throat.
So it's kind of getting hard for me to talk.
Dandelion walk.
You take a piece of cardboard or I guess a paper plate.
It would have been a better idea.
You draw a little lion's face on it
and then you poke holes around the lion's face
and you go and pick dandelions
and you feed the dandelion stem through the hole.
So then you have a whole lion's mane.
You know, it's just darling.
Sloan, obviously she's 18 months old,
didn't know what was going on, couldn't give a rip.
James, almost three, loved it.
Yes.
Perfect activity for that age.
And have you seen like color walks
where you try and like pick up?
This is better than, well,
unless you've got people who like don't have weeds
in their yard, like my neighbors do.
Like dandelions are out right now.
Yeah.
I feel like a color walk is hard
because there's like a lot of just like green around us
and like no other colors in yellow for the dandelions.
So anyway, I'm just been loving my walks
and it's the highlight of my days.
That's so awesome.
I, you know, we're not really,
the stumbies are not really in our walk era
because the hardest part of being to our new house
is I lost my neighborhood.
And now we just have one big driveway.
That is in horrible condition.
But we are finally getting our driveway replaced.
It's in like such like dangerous.
It's original.
It's original.
It's 30 years old.
And I mean, if you don't think about our house,
like the people just didn't maintain it.
That's why we got the house.
We resealed it last year.
Didn't do much of anything.
Like there's loose rock everywhere.
There's dips, there's holes.
Like I can't hardly take a shoulder down there
because like I'll break an ankle or like it's just,
it's so bad.
So the next 14 days, they will be 14 days.
That's what Tyler said.
Because they have to rip up our current asphalt
and they have to like mill it.
Then they have to repack it
and they have to like take a vibrator on it
to like make sure it's level.
And then they start pouring the asphalt.
We're also making it wider.
Because I think that's part of the problem.
Like it wasn't very wide.
People were like driving the grass all the time.
But it has been such a long time coming.
I mean, it's been something we knew we had to do
when we bought the house
and we've lived there two years now
and we're finally getting it done.
So.
It's gonna be so life-changing.
I'm so excited to,
I'm gonna feel like that scene in cars,
when like they drive on the new road for the first time,
that's gonna be us.
Yes, a hundred percent.
You're coughing is so bad.
I know.
We just had to pull it so I could get it out.
It's one of those things where like,
I know you don't feel bad,
but like people are gonna turn their heads.
No, it sounds, it doesn't hurt.
And I'm, I think it's,
is this bronchitis where it just like lasts forever?
Do you have bronchitis?
I have no idea.
It doesn't hurt.
I'm not in pain.
It's just like this endless cough.
It sounds really bad.
And I'm just telling you
when we give this speech tomorrow
and they say, hey,
do you girls like some water on stage?
We're gonna say yes and you cannot drink yours
because I might need it after I crush mine.
Well, and I think we did something really smart
because we asked for,
I don't like a lavalier like a hand mic.
I think my energy is better with a hand mic.
Well, I think it's better with two people for a hand mic.
Cause then it's kind of more of like a,
who's gonna talk?
They bring the mic.
We can cue ourselves up.
But also you can go like this.
Oh yeah.
Yeah.
Do you know what I mean?
Like you get the mic so far away.
I know it's terrible to get the cough out of there.
I'm just shocked I'm here
after all of the trips I've missed.
And you know what last night
James has been was like jumping off of my bed
onto like a pile of pillows
and growing up, Sydney was doing.
Well, I'm sorry.
Sydney was, we were all doing it.
We threw Sydney off the bed
and she missed the pillows
and she like broke her leg.
And so I had this vision last night.
I'm like, James is gonna break his leg
the night before this conference.
And I'm gonna like, I'm shocked I'm actually here.
Yeah.
I mean out of all the trips you had to come on
like your name is in the headline.
No, I know.
This is not a car mom trip.
This is a car pool trip.
Which is so cool.
You know, it feels fun.
It feels gonna be recognized as the podcasters
the multi-platformers that we are.
Yeah.
I'm just like loving the podcast.
Okay.
Also I'm gonna tell you guys
we're doing something crazy.
We have a code for auto show tickets.
Oh yeah.
Okay.
Code is car pool.
If you want to discount on auto show tickets.
I'm not telling the rest of the car home community.
I'm only telling you guys.
But give me.
Because if you like don't listen
then like you don't get to know.
Which ought to be fun.
Something special.
Yeah.
But if you-
Something just for you.
And if you haven't booked your VIP ticket nights
let me just kind of like,
let me kind of grease the tracks for you.
Well and there,
I think there's only like 50 tickets left.
I will maybe add more if the demand is high.
Okay.
I might not though.
So VIP night one like St. Louis bites.
Like good fun St. Louis food.
Two bar wine and beer and seltzers.
Three me and Liz are there available to you
to take pictures to answer your questions
to give you a tour of the auto show will be so fun.
We're doing some other fun things
because as you guys know
what is your girl love more than anything?
A dinner auction.
Oh yeah.
And I said how can I make this feel
more like a dinner auction
without the whole hub of blue.
So one we have a charitable partner
which we are going to be getting her
on the podcast in a couple of weeks.
It is, she's actually been on the podcast before.
It's an amazing organization called Catcheride.
Catcheride Network.
Catcheride Network and they help
transportation insecure families and people
get reliable transportation.
So think like, you know,
prenatal appointment doesn't have a car,
can't go see-
Maybe like lives in a rural area
and like needs to get to the Children's Hospital
which is an hour away, doesn't have a reliable car.
Catcheride's there.
Yeah.
Like, it is, it's such a perfect charity
for us to uplift and I'm really excited
to have them be a part of the VIP night.
So here's what we're doing.
One, a closet sale.
Me, Liz and Merrick and a couple other influencers,
I've been putting some feelers out there,
we're doing a closet sale.
Also mom's donating and mom goes,
I have these like old Prada shoes.
I'm like, give it to me.
And I'm not donating like, it's the good stuff.
Like some of it still has tags,
some of the stuff I was like gifted
that I never used.
Spanx, it's the good stuff.
Yeah, most of my stuff has tags
or it's like anthropology or above quality.
And you know Merrick stuff's gonna be nice.
You know Merrick stuff's gonna be nice.
So we'll have the closet sale.
100% of the proceeds go towards Catcheride.
So like it's like, you can give a cash donation
or you can buy my darling top.
Like it makes no difference to me.
Then I was like, okay, let's have like a fun like,
how do I gamify the VIP night?
And I came up with the idea to do kind of like,
I guess it's kind of like a duck pond.
It's kind of just like a raffle.
Everyone's a winner.
Let me just explain it to you.
So Elizabeth and I get sent so much PR.
And I always save my PR every year
and then I make like literally three to six
dinner auction baskets with it.
Like I use a couple of things here and there,
but like I love to make these giant baskets.
But I've been sent, I've had a lot more come in
since the dinner auction seasons.
And I wanna do something where I'm going to put
a bunch of PR in these like little blue bags.
And I'm gonna have them all spread out
on like a six foot table.
And the rule is you pay 20 bucks for 10 bucks,
15 bucks, 30 bucks, I haven't picked the price yet.
You pay 20 bucks, you get to pick any of the bags.
You get to pick one bag.
One bag.
It could have anything from a $250 face serum
to a couple of liquid IV samples.
You don't know.
It's a gamble.
I do feel like it has to be like at least worth,
let's say that's number of $20.
I do feel like it has to be at least worth $20.
Okay, that's fine.
That's fine.
Because I think we can do that.
We can do that too.
That's fine.
We'll like throw in like a serum
and then also a liquid IV sample.
Maybe we'll just have a bag of just liquid IV sample.
Yeah.
$20 worth of 20 liquid IV samples.
I think it will be like at least worth your like,
and the majority of it's gonna be.
The majority's gonna be way more.
Yeah.
So I think that's gonna be like big razzle-dazzle.
So the closet sale will also be open
at the auto show as long as stuff is available.
The duck pond raffle thing,
whatever will only be at the VIP night.
Unless we don't sell out.
Unless we don't sell out.
But I'm gonna probably peer pressure everyone
to making sure I sell out.
Yeah.
Cause I'm really good at that.
Totally.
And it's for charity.
It's for charity.
It's for a really good cause.
So that's gonna be a blast.
Plus if you buy a VIP night ticket,
you get to come to the show the next day.
So like, if you just work out the math,
cause I think the VIP tickets are like a hundred bucks,
but work out the math.
Okay, you're getting to come to the auto show twice.
You're getting dinner.
You're getting drinks.
You're getting to meet us,
private tour of the auto show.
It's giving value.
It's giving value.
It's giving good time.
And the VIP night is so fun.
It's like a date night though.
Like that's not,
that's not where the kids stuff is.
I mean, it's like you're traveling
and like you have to bring your child.
Like we're not gonna shoo you away with your child,
but it is more of like a girls night date night.
That's kind of the vibe we're trying to cultivate,
but we would obviously never tell anyone
who has to bring their kid to not bring their kid.
No.
Please.
Please.
So I'm just getting like so excited.
It's like kind of right around the corner.
And everyone wants me to spill the tea
on the manufacturer who said no.
You can't.
I know, but I really want to,
but I won't.
It's juicy too.
It is.
It's giving like worked within the past.
But everyone thinks it's Honda for some reason.
And I will just say it's not Honda.
I didn't ask Honda corporate
because I don't even get invited to Honda events.
I've never been invited to a Honda event in my life.
I don't even have a contact.
And I love the local Honda dealership we work with.
They make it so easy.
So I didn't even like bark up Honda's tree.
So I will tell you it's not Honda.
Yeah.
And also, if you know what dealerships our parents own,
we also don't need to reach out to those manufacturers.
So you can just do process of elimination
and figure it out.
So you come to the auto show,
you can pay attention to which ones have like dealer plate
things on them,
and then maybe you'll start to connect the dots.
But yeah, it's a and it is okay
because just not everyone gets it.
And this is something we're used to our whole life.
People, not everyone gets it.
I know you guys get it,
but people so don't really get it.
Like you should really hear our dad explain this.
Such a sweet man.
Such a supporter.
Just a blind supporter.
Just a blind.
It has no idea what he's supporting.
Heavy on the blind.
Oh, that's so funny.
Okay. Well, I thought we could do like a
fast lane philosophy,
base model luxury,
like just like those like two segments.
You know what, Kel?
We have been talking all day.
We were trying to prep our questions for tomorrow
and you did a question box
and someone asked for like parenting advice.
Yeah.
And my fast lane philosophy is actually
a piece of advice that another mom gave me.
And I did bring it up on the podcast,
I think when I first heard it,
but I have found it rings so true in my life lately
that I want to bring it up again.
Okay.
What's that?
That is...
Actually, I'm laying down.
That you are just six months away
from a different season from a different child.
I was there with you.
No, you weren't.
I was at the gym.
She said, you're just six months away.
And she's like, that's, it's great.
And you know, it's kind of bittersweet,
but I just think about like where I was,
like James has just tested me so much
throughout his like terrible twos.
And now that we're like turning the corner almost three,
I'm like, he is getting easier.
I'm kind of nervous to have three kids,
but like James is only getting easier.
Sloane will get harder,
but she's never been as hard as James.
I don't think she'll be as challenging,
like challenge me as much as he did.
And if things are really hard right now,
you're six months away from being
in a totally different, totally different situation,
especially if you have young kids
because six months in a young child,
they're the different people.
They're growing so much.
They're developing so much.
They're learning so much and...
For better or worse,
you're six months away from a different situation.
For better, for worse.
But mainly for better.
I think most of us like look forward to the future.
And like when our kids can do that
and when our kids can do this.
Yeah.
So, yeah.
I think that's a good one.
It's really just really been true in my life.
And I'm continuing to look for it
because I'm thinking about having three kids
and like my hands are literally full.
Like I'm always,
my kids always want me to carry both of them.
And I'm like, what do I do when I have a third?
And I just keep thinking like,
Sloan will be in a different place,
James will be in a different place.
The baby will be literally a potato
for the first few months.
Like things will be okay.
Things will be okay.
And I'm gonna be here
because for once I'm not gonna have,
I'm not gonna have a baby when you're having a baby.
I know.
So you're gonna be like...
I'm gonna be aunt of like,
steer clear she's the aunt of the year.
You know what?
And Maddie is not a stranger to ordering a trophy,
a custom trophy online.
No, it's not.
And I...
You might make, you might get it.
I might get it.
Interesting.
Okay.
So the parenting advice that I wanted to give,
so many, so much advice.
I know I'm like so still in the trenches
but I am like semi on the other.
I'm just, I'm done with the having baby stage.
So I'm in like my raising baby stage,
which has, I'll be honest,
kind of like stripped me of a lot of my identity.
Like I had a friend the other day
asking for like a formula rack
and I'm like, we're all out of the game.
Like I use Bobby, like that's all a thing.
No, I think there's like a hot new formula now
on the market Cal.
See, I don't be like, you wouldn't know.
I don't feel comfortable giving advice.
I don't know.
And I've only not had a baby for like a year.
I know.
And I already feel out of the game.
Yeah.
But yeah, it's very interesting and sad
and exciting all at the same time.
It's such a mixed bag of emotions.
I have like a friend over who has a baby
and like I look at that baby and I compare it to Libby
and I'm like, oh, I actually don't have a baby.
Because compared to my kids, Libby's a baby,
but compared to actual babies, she's not.
She's a toddler, yeah.
And it's just been very interesting.
But some advice that I love
and I'm kind of a person who likes,
sometimes the best advice I've ever gotten
is just been like mindset shifts
and just like the obvious being said.
And I'll never forget it was October
and we were at an October party at the farm
and Hattie was, I think I had Hattie and she was young.
And my cousin was there and I was like kind of sad
because like I couldn't do the hay ride
because Hattie was doing, I was just,
I was left out, I was lonely.
And she looked at me and she goes,
it's just not your year.
Oh yeah.
And I was like, it's just not my year.
And so I'm just like not trying to shoehorn it
to be your year.
And no, like you will have those years again.
But like in this time, it's not your year.
So like all the summers I was pregnant or postpartum,
I was like, it's just not my summer.
But now look at me, this summer, it's my summer.
It is your summer and you're thriving
and you're healthy and you're feeling great.
And like now is your, is now and moving forward
is just going to be your time to shine
and to just work really focus on yourself.
And your kids are getting, are only getting easier
and it's just wonderful.
And another quote that's not really like kids specific,
but it's just like my sister-in-law has this,
I've shared this a hundred times.
I know my sister-in-law has this framed in her house
and I want to get it framed in my house.
And it just says, if you can't get out of it,
get into it.
Yeah.
And I love this quote because sometimes
whether you are going to like a family event
or like even like sometimes even like work travel
or whatever, like if you, I can't get out of this.
So I need to need to get into it.
And I just like make it fun.
And like I need, it's going to do no one any good.
If I'm, if I'm like, I don't want to go
or I'm somewhere about like, get over it, get into it.
Make it fun.
What do you need to do?
And Tyler's always telling me that,
like whenever I try to dread this travel,
I think it almost makes him mad because he's like,
will you stop?
Will you please go and like enjoy this?
Like if I'm going to be here with the kids,
like I know you're going to miss them,
but like respectfully get over it.
He's like, get over it.
I'm like, you're right.
If you are going to be the parent that travels,
like you better have a great freaking time.
You better get a great night's sleep because the parent
that is at home is doing none of those things.
No.
So like you owe it to your partner
when you are traveling to not be like, to not complain
and just thank them for being with their kids.
I totally miss them of course.
And like you can't wait to come home.
Like cause it's so great to hear those things.
But like, how was your night?
Great.
It was great.
I feel so rested.
Like what, like that's,
that's what the mother person needs to hear.
I think so at least.
Tyler doesn't travel.
I don't know how I would respond to, oh, so fun.
Went out to dinner with cap one like totally wind
and I think I would probably strangle him through the phone
if he said that and I was home alone.
Well, I mean, I don't think he needs to like rub it
in your face, but I think he can be like,
no, it was like a really productive dinner.
Like it was a really good thing that I was there.
You're right.
It was good for the, whatever.
So anyway, that's kind of things
that have been on my mind lately.
Just it's not your summer.
And like, it's okay to just say that sometimes.
And let me be clear.
It's not your summer.
No, it's not my summer.
And it does feel good because it does put things
into like a very temporary perspective.
Exactly.
It takes you to a temporary perspective
and it sets your expectations.
Yeah.
And I think I really struggled with it
when I had the first two kids because I was alone,
like no one else was having kids.
And so I did feel a lot more alone.
And now I am so happy it was me
who had the kids first though,
because I will not let my siblings feel like that.
Like I will be.
Yeah, no, I know.
Because I'll sit there with you.
I'd love to sit there with you, catch up.
It's not my baby.
I'll just, I'm excited for that.
Yeah.
I'll hold your baby for a little bit until it cries
and then you can take it,
and like it wants you and you can take it back.
Like that's what it's like.
No, I don't keep it when it cries for a little bit.
I'm not scared.
Yeah.
Let's keep it when it cries for a little bit.
I'm going to be really,
I'm getting more hands on with your children lately
because I just think they are going to need to learn
to take refuge and keep.
Other people.
Well, they're going to.
I know.
They're going to need to learn.
I know, my kids are so clingy to me.
They're so clingy.
And like I am there with open arms and, you know.
Yeah.
And I'm not scared to bribe.
And I have, I mean, yeah, me, yeah.
And Kikik's going to be raking up the brownie points.
All right, Aunt Kikik.
Today's episode is brought to you by Alma.
A year from now, who do you hope you've become?
Think about that for a second.
What version of yourself are you working toward?
Do you notice your anxiety easing
or feel more comfortable in your own skin?
Do you hope that your relationships feel more connected
and the weight of grief isn't as heavy?
What if that thing that's been quietly sitting
in the back of your mind
doesn't take up so much space anymore?
The right therapist can help get you there.
And Alma will help you find them.
Alma offers access to a network of 20,000 therapists
with a wide range of specialties, backgrounds
and identities, and 99% of them accept insurance.
You deserve to feel like that future version of yourself
Like they wouldn't probably never come on the podcast
because they're kind of those kind of people,
but like they are so full of tips and tricks.
And they are just some of the most practical women
you've ever met.
Yeah.
So my sister-in-law, Trina, who is Tyler's youngest sister,
she's a year older than me, Tyler's youngest sister,
where we have kids like the same ages.
Like they're so close in age, all of our kids.
She has four boys, crazy.
Crazy.
Crazy.
And anyway, sometimes we do like these girl shopping days.
And she lives far from St. Louis, like even farther than I do.
So when we do these girl shopping days,
like she's always packing a cooler.
And like it's such a base model luxury
to have a cooler packed in your car.
And this is not for, we're not even like
hitting the zoo trip.
Like we're bopping around to resale shops in the mall.
And she'll be like, do you want a water?
And she pulls out an ice cold bottle of water.
Yeah.
I'm like, yes.
That's amazing.
Yeah.
Or like, you know, if we're going along
between like breakfast and she's also like
a little bit of breastfed for the last eight years.
So she's always breastfeeding.
She'll be like, hold on,
I'm just gonna eat my yogurt really fast.
And she'll pull out her yogurt.
She'll pull out her bag of granola
that she packed with her yogurt and a plastic spoon.
And it's just in this cooler in her van.
And I'm like, and then if she gets leftovers at lunch,
oh, they go in her cooler.
Yeah, or she's gotta like get the chance
to go to Trader Joe's for the first time in five months.
She has them in her cooler.
She has her cooler.
I can't even tell you like my water bottle
was empty before I left the house.
And I know if I'm shopping with her,
I know she has a cooler packed of snacks for herself.
And it's just, it's really inspiring.
So I kind of took a page out of her book today.
And since I am still kind of on my like diet,
I wanted to like pack some snacks.
So I just wasn't left to like the beef sticks
at the gas station.
And I packed my own deer sausage.
And I packed my own drinks.
So I packed an energy drink.
I packed an element,
actually packed the second energy drink,
maybe to put in the fridge.
And I'm just like, you know,
I'm a, I packed it in a lunchbox.
I need to get like a personal cooler.
Like where'd you get that Yeti one from?
No, that's a Stanley one.
Yeah, why don't I have that?
But they sent it to me, I'll be honest.
Elizabeth, they, you guys have no idea.
I've gotten sent a lot less stuff lately.
You're getting too big.
The well's kind of running dry.
You're getting too big.
If you are, listen, if you're a micro influencer,
get your butt on shot.
Maybe, again, maybe like I do think
the well might be drying up a little.
Well, I don't know,
but I'd also don't share everything that I get.
Like maybe if you share more stuff,
I don't know, for me, the well's,
I'm not getting as much gifting as I used to,
but the Stanley did send me this cooler
and it was the perfect size cooler for,
that was my pump cooler too.
It's so cute.
It's like a little big,
it's like bigger than a lunchbox.
I need that size.
But anyway, I'm just, I'm enjoying that.
Another base model luxury of mine
is I'm just so enjoying a physical copy of a book.
The Kindle is great,
but there's something about like a physical book
and it feels like lately I get into bed
and normally Tyler and I will just like try to like scroll
Netflix and find something to watch
before we're just like, okay,
I'm just gonna scroll my phone.
And I don't like that habit.
No.
I also though don't really think there's anything
I'm like dying to watch right now.
Yeah.
And I, but I am enjoying reading.
So I'm reading a book and I have a physical copy of it
and like my bookmark is like a picture of my family
and like it's just such,
it brings me such joy
and it puts me to sleep instantly.
Knocks you out,
gives you that like last feeling
before you go to bed.
Just like I'm so screen free.
Like I'm so connected to.
I'm so screen free.
I'm like taking such good care of myself.
Like this is self care.
I'm better than everyone.
And I read five,
I read three pages and I fall asleep.
Like to the point where I like,
I'm like 50 pages into this book,
but I'm telling you I have no idea what happens
because like I'm like reading so little at a time.
Like I'm not getting into the characters yet at all.
So that's kind of a big up,
a big goal of mine for this trip.
I'm going to read on my airplanes.
I'm going to read, I might read before bed tonight.
You never know.
Okay.
I'm so excited to sleep in a hotel room tonight.
I hope Maddie's hearing this.
Maddie, I just want you to know,
thank you for staying home with the kids.
And also I'm going to sleep like a rock tonight.
And I hope that makes you feel good.
Yeah, same, Tyler.
Um, okay.
Industry news, I'm sorry.
Where are we spelled a hot T going on in the auto industry?
Okay, so interesting.
So who am I always harping on to do better
in like one specific sector of auto?
Tesla.
No, but you're, no.
Chrysler.
No.
I mean.
Okay.
Who am I always saying like they're missing the mark
because they're not in this segment?
Buick.
Okay.
Kelly, you harp on, you harp on everyone respectfully.
I'm always saying that GM doesn't have,
where's their off-roader?
Where, like, where's their Bronco?
Where's their Land Cruiser?
Where's their Nissan X Terra?
Like, where's their car?
Where's their Boulder?
Where's their Boulder?
And they brought back the Blazer in the stupidest EV.
It's such an offensive,
it's so offensive to the Blazer nameplate.
Yeah.
But we got an exciting story from Motor Trend.
GMC is bringing back,
I need your full attention for this.
I'm paying attention.
GMC is bringing back the Jimmy.
Oh, the Jimmy.
First of all, here I have a picture.
Look at it.
First of all, I love the name of the Jimmy.
Like I keep-
I like the name of the Jimmy too.
It's a GMC Jimmy.
I can't explain it.
I think it's hysterical.
I would like to see more cars
just be named after people.
Yeah, it's the James.
It's the James.
We should call James Jimmy.
I might start doing that.
No, he's named James after his grandpa, who's Jim.
So we wanted him to have his name, but be different.
Okay.
Never forget when Lincoln used to have a truck
called the Mark.
That's a bad one.
I don't like the Mark.
You like the Jimmy?
I like the Jimmy.
The Jimmy's fun.
The Jimmy's a good time.
Everything we know about the 2029 GMC Jimmy,
is there a real chance that GM is about
to revive a once popular Jimmy
as a body on frame off-road SUV?
Rumblings about GM reviving the GMC Jimmy
get louder every time there's a new body on frame.
So like, okay, like the boulder.
It says, the strongest indicator we've seen elsewhere
came from GMC authority,
just a week after the boulder rolled down the hill.
According to the outlet,
GMC is seriously looking at revisiting
a previously scrapped plans for a new Jimmy SUV.
What makes us a bit different from previous situations
is we're hearing the similar thing from insiders.
That'd be really exciting.
And like I don't want them to bring it back in a blazer way.
Like I want a manufacturer to bring it back in a vintage way.
Like I just wonder, like I think,
just based off my husband,
like my husband is always on Facebook Marketplace,
like looking at vintage trucks,
like he would love to drive a vintage truck.
If a manufacturer came out with a new truck
that had all the new tech,
but it had the look of like a vintage Ford.
Yeah.
My husband would be the first customer.
It says, unlike the current Chevy Blazer,
the new GMC Jimmy will answer the longstanding calls
for GM to build a real off-road SUV.
All right, well, I like it.
But I wanted to look like that picture you showed me.
And it's not going to, but I want it to.
It might.
I don't know what these pictures are.
I don't know, like, they're not really saying,
like, I don't know if these were just like renderings
or what these are.
I mean, I guess these are just AI images.
These are from Motor Trend.
Motor Trend is not going to throw up AI slop.
Yeah.
I don't know, I'm interested.
I'm interested, I'm intrigued, I'm ready for it.
Me too.
Oh, and then I also have like huge news.
I'm going on an insane trip at the end of the month.
Oh yeah, tell us about it.
I don't know what I can exactly tell,
but I can tell you I'm going to the IIHS.
Yeah.
And a manufacturer invited me
to see a Carby Crash Tested.
That's really cool.
No.
It's dream status.
Yeah.
I'm so excited.
Like, I want to wear the goggles.
I want to like, I'm going to do it upright
and I cannot wait.
I love, any FaceTime I get with the IIHS
is FaceTime well spent.
I love those people, love those people.
You're like minded individuals.
Like, it's just nice to,
you guys have stuff in common.
Yeah.
We both have super average relationships
with the manufacturers.
Yeah, the manufacturers like don't love you.
You're providing a service to families.
And yeah, the IIHS just like,
they don't answer to anyone.
They buy their own.
No, they don't answer to anyone.
And I love that.
Yeah.
And I love that.
So I think that's our episode.
Do you have a dish to drive through?
Of course I have a dish to drive through.
Of course I have a dish to drive through.
So a couple of things.
I have two for you.
Okay.
Because these are two things that I,
I didn't prep both of them
because it's my sister-in-law's bringing one
because they're doing some lessons
at our house tonight.
My sister-in-law, Trina,
the one with the cooler,
was like, again,
his four kids, my kid's age
and she has her life so together.
Yeah.
You know what's so interesting about her?
It's like, when you go into her house,
it's not that she's,
I mean, her house looks like she has a kid.
Like there's toys in the living room.
Yeah.
But if you open up any drawer,
it is meticulously organized.
I wish.
No, like, where I feel like
I'm organized on the outside
but like the inside's a mess,
she's like, oh, she's the opposite.
Okay.
Like, not, I opened up her junk drawer
and I was like-
She's got systems.
Totally.
You should see her pantry.
I wish, I mean, maybe she'll come on the podcast.
She's so funny.
We also need Barb on the podcast.
We need Barb and I also want to get Isla Faye,
Tyler's grandma.
Oh, we gotta get Isla Faye.
I know.
Anyways, so Trina's kids are coming over
to my house tonight to do swim lessons
and she's like, I'm going to bring a muscacholi.
And I'm like, what a thing to feed a crowd.
It's good.
Yeah, it's good.
She goes, I'm bringing muscacholi and peas
and I'm like, thank you.
That's an amazing supper.
And then before I left,
I made a big old thing, a poppy seed chicken.
Oh, so they'll be set.
So they've got casseroles.
They've got microwavable meals, casseroles for days.
Okay, that's great.
Days on days on days.
So that's mine.
Do you want to talk about
how we're not ditching throughout the night
and what we're going to order for dinner?
What, we're ordering for dinner?
Yeah, we looked at the menu.
Yeah.
Are you, Tyler thinks it's so weird
I look up a menu before I go to a restaurant?
No, I like to be prepared.
I kind of like to get the vibes before I go there
because then I can enjoy the conversation
and I don't have to like stare at the menu
and everything.
And I also sometimes like to look at the pictures.
Well, and then I feel like I can set myself up
for what I'm going to eat for the remainder of the day.
That too.
Because like if I knew I was going to get a fish,
then like I would maybe have beef at lunch.
You'd get like a burger.
Yeah.
So he thinks I'm so crazy for that.
No, he's crazy for that.
I think I think you're definitely in the majority there.
Well, I've told you guys what Tyler orders at a restaurant,
like a nice restaurant like this.
It's so embarrassing.
Well, you order for him.
I do order for him.
And it's so funny because Tyler is a lot more social
of a guy than me.
Yeah.
Like Tyler's favorite thing is just to go door knocking.
Like he'll just go, he will literally just like he's so crazy.
We're like, I don't even like to ask.
Like I'm not that person.
You remember when we were in high school,
I think it was legal.
Maybe we were 18.
How old do you have to be to go to a hookah bar?
We went to a hookah bar with Tyler.
And there were some guys in the corner.
So imagine the crowd at a hookah bar.
There were some guys in the corner,
like blowing rings with their hookah.
Tyler's like, oh, that looks really cool.
And he goes up and sits down with them.
He's like, yeah, how do you do those like tricks?
And he like had a conversation.
I know.
It's so funny.
The man doesn't know a stranger unless he's
trying to take his order.
So he'll be like, I don't know.
Like he won't even bother looking at the menu.
Like, Kelly, you just ordered me something.
He was, I just want to steak in a Caesar salad.
And I'm like, OK, how am I going to swing this?
So then the waitress gets to me.
And I'm like, I'll have the special because I'm
a normal human being.
All of this Chilean sea bass.
Yeah.
My husband, he would like a Caesar salad.
And then he would like you to chop up steak
and put it on top.
She's like, so you know you want the Caesar salad first
and the steak?
No.
I'm like, no.
No, no, no.
And she's like, so you want me to cut like the strip
and then put it on a salad because she's like,
the strip's like $45.
And I'm like, yeah, that's what he wants.
Yeah.
She's like, I could do the chicken.
And I'm like, no.
No.
Bring it out.
Bring it all up.
What I'm ordering is a strip steak and a Caesar salad.
If you can't put it together in the kitchen,
then drop it off with me first and I'll cut it up for him.
He's so funny.
Well, that's why he doesn't have to look at menus
because you literally look at them for him.
And he knows what he wants.
Right.
And that's actually a Caesar salad with a steak on top
is a good meal.
No, no, I'm sorry.
I'm not making fun of him.
I'm making fun of him a little bit
because it's the only thing he orders.
Yeah.
And I think sometimes if you're at a nice restaurant,
they might want you to experience
the brandy peppercorn sauce over the agrotton potatoes
and asparagus, not my husband.
It's just the fact that I have to order it for him.
It's just like a fun fact about us.
But you know what?
It's good to be needed.
It is.
It is, you're right.
It's good to be needed.
It is.
No, literally not making like literally couldn't care less.
Don't just making fun, just exaggerating for the fact
that we're on a podcast.
Like literally don't even care.
Yeah, I don't even care.
Anyway, so tonight we looked at this.
I told you guys, swank, swank, swank, swank restaurant.
I guess.
I don't know.
I think you said swank too many times.
It's like a nice restaurant.
I'm going to get the strip steak.
It's my favorite kind of steak.
I don't like the filet.
I don't like a rib.
I like a strip steak best.
I think I'm going to get strip steak as well.
And then we're going to like share a vegetable.
I don't really know if that was worth bringing up.
Our orders were really boring.
Sorry, I forget that like we're not just like talking.
And we're like doing a podcast because like we're just
in person.
I'm looking at you at a hotel bed.
Oh, but we do have to get ready
if we're going to make it to that one thing.
I know we kind of got to get going.
OK, guys, hold on.
OK, guys, well, thanks so much for listening
to the Carvel podcast.
Iowa edition.
Next week, we'll be sure to talk about your solo episode.
Well, you know what?
I'm nervous. We haven't.
It hasn't come out yet.
I'm really nervous to hear what people think.
Like I'm so mortified to record solo.
Like I just feel like a lost puppy sometimes
without you and it's like such imposter syndrome.
So hopefully people liked it.
I'm sure they did.
I can't wait.
It's going to give me something to listen to.
I'm going to listen to an airplane unless I read my book.
We'll see which one I choose.
Yeah, I'm just going to read your book.
It's probably not a good episode.
Do you like trash me in it?
I literally couldn't compliment you more.
So actually, if actually if one person will like it,
it will be Kelly.
All right, guys, thanks for listening to the Carvel podcast.
We will see you on Wednesday.
Have a good weekend.
Thank you for listening to the Carpool podcast
with Kelly and Liz.
Make sure you're subscribed so you never
miss an episode.
And if you enjoyed riding with us, tell everybody you know.
There's room in the car for everyone.
About this episode
Kelly and Liz road-trip to Cedar Rapids, Iowa, then decompress in a hotel—swapping travel “gear upgrades” (Hilton points, bigger carry-ons, new suitcases) and joking about not podcasting while driving. They talk conference life, including Joanna Gaines being nearby, and tease their “keys, please” car-shopping concept plus community reactions to luxury-only content. The conversation shifts to real-world parenting mindset (“six months away from a different season”), walk routines, and planning a swanky dinner. They also share industry news: GM possibly reviving the body-on-frame GMC Jimmy, and they preview an auto-show VIP night with charity plans for Catcheride.