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All right, you are listening to episode 214 of the Subia New Podcast, and I'm Roman with
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Go Subi Adventures, and we're about to get spooky.
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Hey, everybody, welcome to another episode of the Subia New Podcast.
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You may notice a little change in the music, or the intro music rather.
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I've had some people request that I not use the intro music with the Siren anymore, so
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I don't know, maybe people are just driving really fast and they're afraid that they're
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getting pulled over while they're listening to the podcast.
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No, but I get it, so I decided to go back to a song that I had used before.
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For those of you that asked to please change it or remove it, I listened and I made the change.
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But I did want to go back to something that I used before so that it was at least a little
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familiar and not just something completely new, and some of the other tracks that Luke
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had put together were, I don't know, they just didn't seem to fit right with the
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vibe with me, but I wanted to use this one again.
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For this episode, of course, you heard that I have Ghost Subi Adventures Roman on, and we
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recorded in a hotel in a very empty room, so you will hear an echo, well that's why
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you hear an echo in the recording.
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No sound treatment for a space that large, and it was just the two of us in this
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big giant room, and you gotta listen towards the end because it's very funny what we
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said about the space, or maybe we say it early on, I can't remember, but I know that
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as I was editing, we talk about the room specifically towards the very end.
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So there's something new going on now with Subi and You, not necessarily Subi and You
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podcast, but I've had a YouTube channel since 2022 and I've been wanting to do
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something with it for a long time, and so now that I have extra time, I finally
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decided to do something with it, so I recorded a welcome video, so you can find
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that there, I also recorded a couple of, well, I recorded a short just for fun, just
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to go, just to do something with it, and that's me riding a roller coaster in
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Kima, and then the second short is a smaller compilation I put together from
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Overland Expo East, and I wanted to be able to add music to it, so I shortened
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it down to 60 seconds because YouTube shorts only allows you to add music to
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videos that are 60 seconds or less, but you can find the link in my link tree on
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Instagram, so please, please go check that out, subscribe, watch the welcome video,
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and look for more videos to come. I already have some other ideas and
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mind of things that I want to put together, and I know that posting
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consistently is one of the keys, but also subscribers is very important as well, so
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please subscribe to the YouTube channel, and then pass the word around, and tell
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others to subscribe as well. Before I go any further, I want to give a huge
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shout out to my buddy Ben, who runs the Dirt Subis podcast. He's got some great
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episodes that he's recorded, and his is a little more technical, so he has
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some really great information in there, and I've been learning a lot from his podcast,
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and I listened to one episode and learned a lot, so that was really, really great.
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So I think mine seems to be more storytelling, and not that he doesn't
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have storytelling on his, but his gets into a little deeper dive of the
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technicality of mods and repairs and things like that, because he's more
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knowledgeable on that, so he can have great conversations with his guests,
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and it's really great. So huge shout out to Ben. Go check out Dirt Subis podcast as well.
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And now, let's get into this episode with Roman and Go Subi Adventures.
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Hey, how's it going, man? It's good. It's good. How are you?
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Good. Nice to see you again. I know. I know. It's been a minute.
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Yeah. I mean, first off, the coolest thing is that we get to do this in person
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because it just seemed to work out because I had to travel for work up to McKinney,
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and I'm like, is there a good spot to meet? Because I thought you were in the Dallas area.
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I didn't. I forgot that you were in San Antonio. Yeah. Well, I spent a lot of time in Dallas.
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Yeah. And that's probably what I was thinking. But when I was like, hey, I can come down,
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like, is there a spot to meet up? I was like, we can meet in Waco. Is that close for you?
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Perfect. We go to Waco all the time. So this worked. And my wife,
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there's an Amish place. I don't know. So they do like raw milk, butter, like all kinds of stuff,
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like just everything. And so that's on the agenda for tomorrow after we finish this.
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Yeah. Well, before we get into anything else, you know, I got to ask the most important question,
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which is whether you prefer waffles or pancakes. So this one's funny because
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I originally was a pancake guy, hardcore. My son has become more of a waffle person.
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And so I've become more of a waffle, especially because you can just pack so much flavor in those
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little squares. So yeah. All right. I get that. I get that. Yeah. No, that's cool. I'll forgive you
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on that one. Oh, you're a pancake guy? Yeah. I will say, I had a really good pancake the other
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day. It was different. It was a cornmeal with blueberries. Oh, nice. So it was like a
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totally interesting spin on it. And it tasted, I don't know, like a sweet cornbread,
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like it was really good. Oh, that's cool. Yeah, sounds good. So obviously, we're here to talk about
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your Subaru and your Subaru journey and about you. But so like, tell us what Subaru you have,
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what year it is, what trim level and all that. So I have a 2022 base model Subaru Forester.
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But I would like to say that it's more than a base model because I basically put tons of work
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into it. But it started life as a daily driver for my wife and son. And then when they moved to the
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ascent, I moved into the Forester full-time. And I mean, I had the stuff setting in my garage,
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so it immediately started getting tore up. Yeah, I know. I just saw it for the first time because
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I saw it on Instagram, obviously, but always looks different in person and always looks
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like better in person. Yeah, they paired up really well. I mean, the two white ones
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next to each other, it was a good look. Yeah, I liked it. So what got you interested in Subaru in the
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first place? And then obviously he had an ascent, but also like why choose the Forester? So I chose
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the Forester because I personally love the look. For my wife, it was the very first Subaru that
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she owned. Okay. She had a like a forest green one, sunroof, all decked out, everything like
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that. But it just wasn't big enough for our family and road trips. So she moved to the ascent.
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And I've always just loved like the body style. I like the height over the length. And so that's
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always been my biggest push. And I don't know, is there just something about the 2022,
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like that front end? It just looks mean. I think they've changed it a lot since then. But
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even now when I go places, people are like, oh, the front of yours looks so much different
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than and I'm like, I don't even have a bumper or anything on it. And they're just like,
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that base looks so good. Yeah, it does. So where did your interest in Subaru come from?
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So it's funny because and my brother-in-law always gives me shit because he, he's a big
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Subaru guy. And he is in Austin. He was the first person in the family quote unquote to buy
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a Subaru. And then we immediately took it and ran with it. And we're like, man,
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this is amazing. It handles great. Does everything I want to do. When was that?
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That was probably 2019. Oh, it was a pretty recent.
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Yeah. So prior to that, he'd had a Kia. I mean, I've always been fascinated with the Brats.
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Yeah. Just because I love, like I grew up on a farm. I've always been like,
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trucks are the way to go, but I just love the truck car concept. And so the Brats were
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always a big one for me. And then I don't know, I just started really digging into the engine
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and what it could do and the capabilities on the road as a daily driver and off road.
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And it just kind of checked all the boxes in one little compact vehicle.
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Yeah. It's nice because it's, you've got the ability to go off road and, you know,
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you've got the all wheel drive, which of course is great, but then they're good on gas,
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you know, they're relatively affordable. So you put a rooftop 10 on top.
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I'm sure. Yeah. Yeah. There's, you can, you can definitely make that a gas mileage
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decline by stuff that you do with it, but, but they're still fun. You know, I mean, that's,
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they're very versatile. There's a lot of options for mods. And then you start doing that and then
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you just go crazy and start having fun with it. And I think that was the biggest thing for me.
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And I'm sure we'll get into it in a little bit, but like I'm really big on preparedness and,
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you know, being able from to operate an urban environment as well as kind of rule. And
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when I was deployed in the military, we would always use like Toyota Land Cruisers.
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And I've always liked them. They're super expensive. The mods are through the roof.
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And then when you go down like that kind of preparedness slash overland slash do it all
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vehicle, people gravitate towards forerunners, land cruisers, jeeps. And I'm like,
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there's this untapped market of Subaru and what it can do because of the suspensions,
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because of the CVT, like a lot of it is really set up to be just as capable, if not more.
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And so that really piqued my interest. And then some research of me, you can do a lot with them.
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And so I pulled the trigger. It's kind of like, let's see what we can do with this thing.
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And I think that's the most fun. Like for me, turning it from a daily driver to this kind of
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overlanding preparedness rig, it it's pushing the envelope. Like what can it do? Yeah. When
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it was base, I was taking it up trails that people were like, Hey, you probably shouldn't.
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And I'm like, it'll be fine. You know, and now that it's lifted, I'm like, well,
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if I did it when it was stock, I can do it now. Absolutely. Yeah.
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So where did the name ghost come from? And is I'm guessing ghost is the name of your
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Subaru. And then also it's a ghost. Subi adventures is the name of your account.
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So give us kind of the history of that. Yeah. So ghost came. So background for me,
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I was an interrogator in the army. And then I did a stint contracting,
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worked with special operations teams, did a lot of crazy stuff. And my call sign.
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So backtrack a little bit. The CIA, like they call their interrogators and their intel guys Spooks.
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So they would call me spooky and ghost. Those were my call signs. Got you.
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And so ghost always kind of stuck with me. I've lost a lot of friends over the years.
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And this is kind of in a sense a tribute to them, but also to like my family,
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like I'm able to take their kids out. I'm able to take my kid out.
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We get to do kind of both things. We get to remember people I've lost,
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but also keep them alive through adventures, stories around a campfire.
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And the adventure part came because that's what I'm about. Like I'm about going to places,
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trying new things. And so ghost Subi adventures was born in a sense of ghost being the call
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sign. I've always been drawn to white cars. It's always been. And so it just all kind
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of blended together. Like ghost was just too simple. So I was like, you know what? Let's go full
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fledged like adventures because podcast, all those different things were coming down the pipe.
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So kind of preemptively bought. Yeah. I mean, Subi adventures is,
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you know, self-explanatory, but then that's the cool story behind ghost.
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Yeah. Yeah. I love it.
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So when did you like come up with the account name for it for your car?
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Like how long did you have it before you came up with that?
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So obviously we got the car in 2022 and I had always said, hey, I'm going to turn this into a rig.
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I had actually never really thought about building an account behind it. It was always just kind of
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I'm going to do my own thing with it. I went to Subifest met a bunch of great people and
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then I was like, you know what? Like there's an account for it. Like there's kind of an
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account that I can build around this because I noticed like a weird intersection after COVID,
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the world got crazy in general. Yeah. And I would like watch these preparedness people and like,
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you know, these, these moms talking about preparedness and these old dudes and bunkers
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talking about it. And I was like, God, this is so like boring and end of the world-ish.
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And I'm like, why can't it be more fun? Like preparedness doesn't have to be an
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all or nothing. Like you're not just preparing for the zombie apocalypse. Like I would,
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I would go to these car shows and they're planning out, you know, how they're going to do routes,
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how they're going to do communications. Like very similar to the way we would build
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op-ords in the military. They're checking their gear. They're doing all these things.
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I'm like, that's preparedness. And so I saw this intersection. I said, what if,
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what if like I took this account and made preparedness fun, but also showed the
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journey of building an actual preparedness. Yeah. So you said you went to Subifest, Texas.
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Was that, was last year your first time or talking about the year before?
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No, last year was my first time. So between, so since last year and because it's been,
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we haven't even gotten it has even been a year, like that's when the journey started.
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Yeah. Like I said, the stuff was kind of setting in my garage,
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like waiting to do it. And I was always just going to build it and adventure and fish
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and hunt and do stuff and, you know, be ready in the background. If I ever had to leave the
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city, so to speak. But I saw an opportunity to talk about it. And I said, you know what,
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let's make this fun and not like, if you don't have the best gear, you can't be
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prepared for stuff. And it's like, you can go to the Dollar Tree and grab flashlights and water
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and bungee cords and do just as well as you can. Yeah. So there are ways to be prepared.
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Yeah. So I also was looking in, because you said that you have a website,
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which talks a lot about that. And so did you start up the website at the same time?
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Or had you already done that before? So I guess a little more backstory. I had done,
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so I do business consulting and then moved out of consulting and started working for a bank.
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And when I was doing business consulting, I built kind of a podcast that talked about
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everything. It was real talk with Roman. I guess we want to check it out, listen to the
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old stuff. But it was just random things. And everything that I talked about really gravitated
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towards preparedness, adventure, fun. And one day as I was building the rig, my wife was like,
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why don't you talk about what you enjoy? This is what you enjoy. You can spend hours talking
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about your car and talking about preparedness and why don't you do that? And so I was like,
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you know what? I should. And so I built the website mainly because you can't do newsletters
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very well if you don't have a website with an email. That sounds official. Like Gmail doesn't
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really go over very well. So that was a big driver to the website. So as I started building, it kind
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of became more necessary in the sense of to take GoSuby Adventures where I wanted to go,
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I needed a website. And the blog was also a good way to get information to people.
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And it just all kind of flowed together. Okay. Yeah. So you said you had all this stuff ready to
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go. You knew you wanted to build it out. What was the first thing that you put on it? Like,
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what was your first mod? So I thought about this one a lot and I had to go back and look.
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So the very first thing that I put on my car, you know where the fuse panel is? That little
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fuse box? And you can pull it out and you can put the little coin catcher thing?
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Yeah, yeah. That was the very first thing I put on my car. That and a sticker was the
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very first thing I put on my car. So not super cool, but for me, useful. That was useful because
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my fire starter, you know, spare cash, like, I mean, it's really a catch all like it does a
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great job of doing that. And once I got under there, it became like, it sounds so menial,
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but like doing that, I was like, dude, all of this is just adult Legos. And so then I just,
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I had the rack setting. I had a Nash fab rack setting in the garage. So that was the very next
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thing. So I started putting that on. And so what did you already have? So I had the coin catcher,
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obviously, the Nash fab rack, the lights, and the gas tanks, got you to put on the side.
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So you knew that you were like you're saying earlier, you knew you were going to build
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this out. So you were just like collecting stuff, getting ready for it. Yeah. I mean,
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if my wife would have pulled the trigger on her car sooner, I probably would have had more stuff.
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But yeah, I had I had a lot of it setting and waiting. That's good though, man, you know,
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like ready to go. Well, it also because another like people don't talk about this enough when
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they talk about preparedness to its financial too. Like you have to like when you listen to
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these channels and you listen to these people talk about preparedness, they like always end
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it with buy this by that, right? And it's always usually usually expensive shit. Right.
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And so it's like, no, plan out like what are you practically going to do? Well, I knew that we
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were going to do a lot of camping, we're going to do a lot of long traveling, like we were going
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to do a lot of things that involved light bars, like being out at night, like I knew the things
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I needed. So visibility, exactly. So to be ready to do those adventures, I had to get those
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things. So I had them ready and I knew like, Hey, this is phase one to do the bare bones of what
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I want to do. I need these things. And I was able to plan out the cost. Hey, I know it's going to
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be this long before my wife transfers over. So now I can like plan out schedule my bill,
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get my finances in order. Yeah, no, it's good. That's a good point to plan those things out
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and just kind of think ahead about what you want to do. I mean, it's expensive. Like
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Overlanding is expensive. So it's definitely something that's worth taking a real look at what
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you need. And don't just look at my rig or your rig or anyone else's and be like, Oh,
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that looks cool. I want that because there's no point in having a thousand dollar tent you never
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use. Yeah, because I mean, the first time I ever saw any car with a rooftop tent was PNW
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Cross Trick. And it's cool because I finally got to meet, I finally got to meet the owners of
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PNW Cross Trick when I was in Oregon for Overland Expo. And I remember like
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thinking that I'd never seen a rooftop tent like on a car before. I was like, I didn't even know
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you could do that. And I was thinking like, that is so cool. It'd be so awesome to have one of
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those. And then I got to thinking about it more. I'm like, but I never go regular camping.
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So why would I have a rooftop tent? You know, I think that like, not that I was actually
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really considering getting one, but I was just thinking like the idea of one is cool because then
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because I never liked ground tent camping. You know, if you have like a cot or a good mattress,
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sure. But it just, it seemed like a lot more, I don't know, if I were to be going camping more
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often, a rooftop tent seemed like it would be more my style. Yeah. But again, if you don't use
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it, why get it? Exactly. And for me and, you know, my wife and my son. So, you know,
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my wife is not the biggest fan of rooftop tent camping. But I also have a really nice pop-up tent
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that she loves and she can put a cot, do all those things. My son loves being able to climb up there.
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And it's just nice for us because I can get to spots that most people can't, right? Like,
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I'm not confined to this or that. Now flip side of it, I have a lot more weight when I'm going
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on trails. I have a lot more weight when I'm driving down the highway. So you have to take
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those things into account for sure. So I was looking at your rooftop tent and it looks like
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what's supporting it is some kind of like suspension. Oh man, I love talking about this. This is
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awesome. It almost looks like little scissors or you can raise it up or lower it, but maybe it's
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that is a hundred percent what it is. So they are flat peak tent levelers and they're a company
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based out of Tennessee, veteran owned. And this is going to sound really bad.
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When I bought the Nash Fab, I knew I wanted to put a tent and I just thought, oh, it'll be an
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easy bolt on, all rooftop tents just bolt on. Nash Fab is not the easiest to get inside
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and manipulate once you put it on. Great rack, amazing aerodynamics. Very tricky for
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me to get the tent on. So I was looking at options and I was like, man, I don't want to
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pull it off and then rebuild it and put it on. And I saw these guys in Tennessee and they have
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these levelers that make it where no matter what surface you're on, you can level your tent.
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So I can park my car, you know, pick a steep grade 45, 45 all the way up and I can go
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and put my tent there or put my car there and then level out my tent and I will sleep
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perfectly flat, perfectly awesome. And if you've ever slept in a rooftop tent, you will know
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they are never perfectly level. So getting that was a game changer.
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And how do you adjust it? So it's just like you said, it's a suspension system. So you pull out
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the locking mechanism and then it's got a little handle and you just pull up and you can adjust
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all four sides are independently adjustable. Nice. So you can basically pick, depending on the
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surface you're on, maybe I only need to level the backside or the front side and you can just
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do that and go, it's got like seven notches, I believe. So you can, I mean, you can go from
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flat against your rack to up in the sky. So if you're like left front is lower and right rear
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is higher and you're at a weird angle, that's, man, that's really cool. Yeah. And that's
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awesome. I mean, nature, nothing in nature perfectly flat. So you will always end up,
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we always end up adjusting one side at least. That is really cool. I love it. It's my favorite
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thing. They were actually my very first sponsor to you. Oh, nice. Hey, I mean, anytime I could
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talk about it. That's the first time I've ever seen it. Yeah, it's actually, that was one of my
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big things. Like when I saw it, I started reaching out to them. And I was like, Hey, like this is
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a game changer, especially with how many people use Nash fab racks in the Subaru community. Yeah.
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I'm like, this is a game changer. Like it makes putting your tent on so much easier.
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And then I can go anywhere and adjust to any height. Well, game on. And it's a very
25:46
transformative mod to, you know, as far as like transforming the usability of what you have,
25:51
you know, on your car. But what are some of the other like biggest mods that would like
25:57
kind of transformed your rig into what you needed it to be? So I think, and it's also
26:04
probably my favorite mod. I have installed a power queen battery in the back of my
26:11
tire well. Okay. So where the where the spare tire was, I pulled it out, gutted everything back there.
26:17
And I put a hundred amp hour battery. That battery runs off of my main battery in the
26:23
alternator. So it keeps it charged. So actually right now, I have a rooftop or I have a fridge.
26:29
And it's got cold drinks and snacks inside of it for road trips. Great for camping. So I
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can take cold things. It's got fridge freezer. So we can even take ice cream and camping, right?
26:40
So it's that's been the most transformative and I'm not limited to dry freeze meal or, you know,
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simple ice chest things. Like I have a car that continuously keeps a fridge running that I can
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put anything in. So when you're driving, it's charging that battery. And then let's say you
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go and park and camp for like however long, like how long will that battery keep? So I can keep it for
27:07
about a day and a half without turning my car on. That's really good. But if my car is on,
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it'll recharge. If I'm at like half battery, it'll recharge that back battery in about 30 minutes.
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Oh, that's not bad. So the drive here kept it at continuous. And then power queen has an app.
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So I can actually go on my phone and see like what my battery is. It runs on Bluetooth. So I don't
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know if I can pick it up. But yeah, so I can see what my temperature is of the battery. So how hot
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it is back there. And then I can see how much juice I have left in it. And then I can make
27:43
adjustments. So I can run my fridge on high compressor, low compressor, I can adjust the
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temperature. So like, let's say I'm not, you know, I don't need anything super cold. I just
27:53
need like fridge cold. Yeah, you don't need frozen stuff. Yeah, I can run the temperature up a little
27:58
bit like high 30s, low 40s. It'll still keep everything cold. But it'll give me way more
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time out of my battery. That's nice. Do you have it and or does it have the capability of
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do like hooking up a solar panel to it? That's actually my next mod. Okay. So it has the
28:18
ability to run solar. I'm just debating how I want to run it. So I can run solar on my hood
28:25
and run the wires to it and connect to it. Or I can like currently I can just run a solar. So I
28:31
have a jackery. I had one before. So I can take the jackery panels and I can hook it up to the
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solar outlet and I can basically I can't keep the battery topped off and never turn on the car.
28:40
Nice. Yeah, that's cool. It's definitely it's definitely useful if you can't pull out.
28:46
Yeah. So do you have, I mean, like where are you with your build? I mean,
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especially when you're talking about preparedness, is is it like mostly complete or you still have
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a lot of stuff you want to do to it or like anything super major that you're wanting to do
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with it? Are you pretty comfortable for now? Man, that's a hard one because I feel like
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you can always find stuff to do in a car. But I think for me, it definitely does everything
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I need it to do right now. There's things I could do to shave weight like I could get a
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lighter tent and that would drop weight. I could run a lighter battery so they came out with a
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smaller like a like a Power Queen smaller battery that still is 100 amp hours but weighs 30 pounds
29:31
less. So that drops a lot of weight out of your car immediately, especially on the back end
29:35
when that's normally the area that's going to feel impact. How heavy is that battery? The
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one you have now. So it is if the other one's 30 pounds lighter. Yeah. So it's like 50 pounds I
29:47
think. Okay. So I mean, it's not super bad, but to drop down to 20. Yeah, that's considerable.
29:53
I mean, that's phenomenal when you talk about batteries and they're only getting smaller
29:57
and smaller and still pumping out more juice. So I think that'll be a constantly evolving part.
30:03
But as far as like preparedness and everything, I would be confident like if
30:09
everything went sideways today, that vehicle could handle 99% of the stuff.
30:16
So as far as again preparedness, speaking of that, is your Subaru setup like right now
30:24
where it's ready to go or are there things that you have to pack into it before you
30:29
would take off? Yeah. So I mean, it's pretty set up. Obviously, like if I had the time I
30:35
would stock the fridge up with stuff. If like, let's let's play a scenario like grid down,
30:42
got to leave the city, right? I would definitely I have most of the stuff I have all my recovery gear.
30:49
I have the spot for my guns. I have all that kind of stuff. I have a bag that stays with me
30:56
and it actually go it can go with me in any car I call it my boo bag. And it has a jet
31:02
boil, dry freeze food, water bottles. Nice. I have a battery like a battery jump start kit,
31:09
the little Nyko, the little power. And then I have the tire setup so I can air up, air down,
31:16
silk lock key, duct tape, obviously you need that electrical tape, bungee cords, all that.
31:22
And basic tools that can repair everything on my vehicle. So I have Allen wrenches.
31:26
That's all in that bag. It's all in that one bag. So I always say like, if for whatever
31:31
reason I had to leave my vehicle, I could take that one bag and pretty much get the most things,
31:37
right? That's good. But I would probably if I had time, you know, I'd obviously load up like
31:43
go bags, other gear, stuff like that. But for the most part, if call came tomorrow,
31:48
I'd be confident to take my vehicle. So like, even when you're getting out
31:52
overlanding or you want to go stay out somewhere for a weekend or something,
31:56
you're pretty much just ready to go aside from grabbing some food.
31:59
Yeah, pretty much. I like to say that if somebody told me Friday at work,
32:03
they wanted to go fishing. I could pretty much just stop at the gas station on my way out,
32:08
grab all my food and meet them at the river. Nice. And that's what I wanted my bill to be.
32:14
I wanted my kid to get out of school, me to get out of work and be like, hey,
32:18
let's go camping, right? And it can do that perfectly fine. And so I think
32:24
to your earlier question, yes, it's good. But I can always make it better, right?
32:30
Yeah. Oh yeah, of course. So here's a question for you, because you talk about like
32:37
overlanding and going off road and stuff like that. You live in San Antonio, which is in Texas,
32:43
and there's so much private land in Texas. Like, where do you go?
32:48
Yeah. So that's a hard one, right? Because it's definitely not for anyone who is in Texas,
32:54
you know this. For anyone outside of Texas, you're so lucky. Colorado, PNW.
32:59
You're so lucky you can go wherever you want to go. You're blessed. Never take that for granted.
33:05
We do a lot of stuff in Lano, obviously, because there's some spots in the Lano River
33:10
that are dispersed camping that you need up. A lot of the private land is actually
33:15
fairly reasonable. You pay like 30 bucks a night, 20 bucks a night. You can go into some really great
33:21
spots that look really, really nice, especially getting along the Lano. So really mainly around
33:28
the Austin area and outside of there. There's a lot of great places.
33:32
Now, are you just speaking of like camping? Yeah, for camping. And I mean, I know there's
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domo that you can do overlanding at, like the trail ride kind of stuff.
33:42
Where is that? It's Georgetown, Austin, Georgetown, that kind of area.
33:47
See, I need some of these things. Yeah. And there's a couple, there's Hidden Falls.
33:52
Yeah. I mean, hit or miss, right? Yeah, Hidden Falls is like, I've heard that it's
33:56
gotten pretty rotted out. And that was like two or three years ago.
33:59
Yeah, they definitely, I mean, I'm not calling out Hidden Falls by any stretch of means,
34:03
but it's definitely not the most forgiving course anymore. It used to be a lot more friendly.
34:09
And then I have the Onyx app. So I'll go hit a lot of those Onyx trails.
34:14
Big Bend has a lot of really great, like you can travel through.
34:17
Yeah, I would love to go down to Big Bend, but it's like nine and a half hours.
34:19
It's an hour drive. You definitely gotta be ready for it.
34:22
Yeah. And it's not one of those things where it's like, oh, let's just leave.
34:25
Because I want, like for example, like Bastrop, we're going this weekend,
34:29
which is going to be way, the when we go is like way before this gets released.
34:35
But because of the time frame that we're talking about this or recording,
34:41
you know, we can go to Bastrop, which it's like an hour and a half or so for me,
34:44
which is great. And I need to go out there more often. But, you know, it's like,
34:49
you don't want to just keep going to the same spot over and over and over again.
34:52
Yeah, it's kind of old. I definitely, my son loves Bastrop.
34:55
Um, he likes it because we can get the trails, then we can, you know, go out there and kind
35:00
of explore the nature areas and stuff like that. But it definitely gets old quick from
35:06
a trail perspective for sure. Yeah, I mean, again, like, and I think it's probably better
35:11
that we don't go out there that often because then we can appreciate it more.
35:15
Like if it was a lot closer and we were going, we had the ability to go more often,
35:20
and then probably be like, okay, we've been here like 20 times, you know, let's, but like,
35:25
I'm thinking, you know, like you said, Austin, San Antonio and some of these other areas,
35:30
something that I can get to and, you know, leave early in the morning, go adventure,
35:37
you know, not because I'm not really looking to camp, but just go explore stuff
35:41
and then be able to come back or like, you know, get an Airbnb or hotel for the night or
35:47
something. Yeah, there's a, there's actually a really great place. It's called Cactus,
35:53
what's it called? Cactus Canyon or something like that. It's over near clean in that area.
35:59
And that place is really nice. They have a river that runs through it so you can fish and tube
36:05
a little bit of light overlanding, like very light, you know, any crazy trails,
36:10
but they'll let you kind of go into some of the back 40, so to speak.
36:14
But yeah, it's really hard. I mean, I think people look at Texas and go, oh, it's so big.
36:20
It's got so many state parks, so many national parks, but really, unless you're in like the
36:24
East Texas area, you can hit like Sam Houston and some of those, but those get muddied out
36:31
like crazy. So it's all hit or miss. Well, and a lot of it too is just like gravel roads,
36:36
you know, we don't have like epic views and terrain and mountains that we can,
36:42
you know, mountain passes and mountain trails that we can get up into. So it makes a little more,
36:47
I know we have the Texas Overland Trail, which I've been on some of that, which is really nice.
36:51
It's actually nice out there because it's at least hilly and it's not flat. But it's,
36:55
that's still kind of far for me too. Yeah. And I think that's the biggest problem, right?
37:00
Texas is so big. So big bend is perfect. Like it's got the views. It's got the wide open
37:06
spaces. You can go to Devil's River, right? And you can hit that before you go in or
37:11
after and you can get a lot of water time and stuff like that. But I mean, it's a nine hour drive.
37:16
Like you've got to prep yourself to go on that one. So it's, it's definitely, it's hard. Like
37:24
there's so much beauty in Texas, but it's hard to really enjoy it because like you said, I mean,
37:28
it's majority private and you're paying to do that. So then you're like, okay,
37:32
let me maximize my time on this. But then to your point, you know,
37:36
most everything, same as you, it's an hour, hour and a half drive for me to get to it.
37:41
So I'm already losing a chunk of the day by the time I get there to do it. And then, you know,
37:46
let's say we just do it on a weekend. Time goes really fast when you're hitting the trail.
37:51
I know. It's tough. It's tough. So as far as like camping and getting out and exploring and stuff
37:56
like that, how often do you do that? You said, you know, like if you want to
37:59
after work, your son's out of school, you want to go, hey, let's go camping.
38:02
Like how often do you get out? Yeah. So I mean, we try to go at least two to three
38:07
times a month. Nice. That's good. We're really big on it. My son, so a little more,
38:12
my son is homeschooled. So when I say go to school, he has two days a week that are hard days
38:17
that he has to be like in a building. The rest of the time, my wife schools him from home.
38:22
So we have a little flexibility there. But during the summer, I mean, we pretty much never
38:28
are in our house. Yeah. This summer was a fluke because my car was in the shop a lot,
38:32
but yeah. But we tried to make up for it. But yeah. So we usually try to do that. And then
38:39
for us, so one of my goals is to now hit every state park in Texas. Nice. So me and my son,
38:46
we have like, we went to the state park and we bought the little scratch off
38:50
poster or whatever. So as we get home, we go home, like take a picture in front of the sign,
38:55
do the whole thing. Yeah, that's awesome. So yours is a 2022. When did you buy it?
39:03
But I mean, like what month? Like early 2022? Early. Yeah. Okay. How many miles do you have on it?
39:10
So 56. Man, that's it? Yeah. Well, it was in the shop for a while. Yeah. So this year was going
39:19
to get a lot more. But the shop kind of killed me. I mean, it was a four month time frame
39:24
where it was in the shop. So that's a lot of it. But it's, I mean, it's made a lot of
39:28
travels in that time. And then when we first got it, so while my wife used it a little bit as a
39:34
local daily driver around town, she wouldn't drive it a lot because we also had a Toyota Tundra.
39:42
So we kept the miles low knowing that I was going to run that when I got it.
39:45
Okay. Okay. That's cool. As far as like exploring and going out and stuff,
39:51
what's the furthest distance you've driven it? So it's been to Mexico.
39:55
Oh, nice. Yeah. So it's been to Mexico. It's been New Orleans.
40:03
So like Louisiana, Arkansas, Georgia, like that whole area. Sweet. It was supposed to go on
40:09
Trail of the Dragon. But, you know, things happen. So that's on the books for it. But
40:15
the only side I really haven't taken it on is the west side. So like I haven't gone out to
40:20
like Arizona and things like that, which I want to. But yeah, it's done a lot of all through Texas,
40:28
all the way up. It's going to Oklahoma this weekend. Nice. And then mainly on the eastern side.
40:34
So we're at in Oklahoma. So we're going to go up to the Pioneer Woman's Mercantile,
40:38
Paw, Pahusky, Pahusky. Do you know where that is exactly? It's like at the very tip.
40:43
Like I might as well be out of Oklahoma on the very edge. Because I've been to Oklahoma
40:48
city and I've been to Choctaw, Oklahoma. Because we had a project in Choctaw. And I flew there once
40:54
because I was only going there. And then I drove to Oklahoma one time because I was going to
41:03
where it was like Crossroads, Texas, which is north of Dallas area. And then from there
41:09
to Oklahoma, it's like where I was going, it was only like three hours, three and a half hours.
41:13
I'm like, I'm just going to drive the whole, like just drive the whole way. And I loved Oklahoma.
41:19
Like and going to Oklahoma city was like pretty cool. So drove up there and drove back and
41:23
I'm not going to lie. So the Toyota Tundra, like that was my truck that I bought when I got out
41:30
of the military out of contracting. And that that has been way more places. So it's been
41:35
got you all the way up to pretty much Canada, right? South Dakota, all that. It's been
41:41
all the way up and down. And that was originally going to be the Overland rig that I was going to
41:48
build. And it was just, it just didn't make sense in the sense of I wanted something that was more
41:54
compact. And so I jokingly tell my wife, like I have to take it to at least all the places
42:01
that I took the Tundra or it's not even a true rig. So where are some spots like that?
42:07
You said you want to go like Arizona, but do you have like an ultimate bucket list spot or
42:11
like this is a spot that I definitely want to get out to? Yeah. So this is, this is a case of FOMO
42:17
from Instagram, but the big redwoods in California. Like I want to go get a picture of my subi
42:24
under that tree that's like a tunnel. Like I want that so bad. Yeah. I know it's tough too
42:31
because like living, it's like living in Texas is yeah, it's a beautiful state. It's really
42:35
big. There are some, I mean, we've got, oh, we've got Palo Duro Canyon, which is like on the way to
42:43
New Mexico, you know, and then of course Big Bend. And but again, those are spots that it takes a
42:49
really long time to get to. But I just, I feel like we're like in the middle of everything in
42:58
nature that's like, I would love to see. We're like right in the middle and everything
43:03
east and west is super far. 100%. So it's funny because I would, I'm talking with like Wicca and
43:10
Moth Trek and all of them about going to Cape Lookout. I did the math on that drive. It's like
43:15
a 24 hour drive. Like when I factor in like, okay, I have to stop at some point. So I'd have to
43:21
stop at my sister who lives in Georgia. I'm like, okay, that's fine. But that's a like,
43:26
that's a whole day drive when you like run the math. And so then that's a whole day back.
43:30
And I think that's the part that frustrates me the most is like half the drive is just to get out
43:37
of Texas. Like once you're out of Texas, it's smooth sailing. But I'm like, I got to drive
43:41
like nine hours to get out of Texas to then drive the rest of the way.
43:46
Yeah. Cause whenever we went to Colorado, we stayed in Abilene. Is it Abilene?
43:51
Yeah. And it was like a nine hour drive. I mean, it's like you're still,
43:57
you're driving forever and you're still in Texas. And then you get out and it's like,
44:01
all right. And that same timeframe I crossed through, you know, five states or something.
44:06
Yeah. I give my wife grief because we took her ascent. So we go to New Mexico to Angel Fire.
44:13
Okay. We go out there to like ski in the winter. And we always take her car.
44:18
Hey, it's bigger. It can hold more stuff. Right. Like it's perfect for it.
44:22
But it's so frustrating because I'm like, man, these are such beautiful views and such great
44:26
photo opportunities. Like I told her, like I'm just going to follow y'all in my car.
44:30
Because you want to take photos of your car in those spots.
44:31
Because I need to take pictures of my car in these places.
44:35
Just do some more stuff with the ascent, you know?
44:37
Oh, you're right. I try to convince her to, because I've seen a lot of really cool rigs
44:42
that are like lifted ascent and stuff. And they have what the turbo and everything.
44:46
I mean, they can pretty much make it up anything. So I'm like, let's do it.
44:50
And she's like, let's not.
44:52
Yeah. Ventures, Texas lady Karla, she's got a really nice ascent.
44:56
Yes. Yes. Yeah. I like hers.
45:00
So we mentioned Subifest earlier. You went last year and you said that was,
45:05
because we were talking a little bit before we started recording, but you said last year,
45:08
when you went, you didn't really know what Subifest was. And so you're like,
45:13
didn't know what to expect. So what was your, one, what was your experience like
45:17
going last year and like kind of what did you learn and what did you take away from it?
45:21
So I actually loved Subifest. The moment we left, I said,
45:25
we're coming back next year. The people were so cool.
45:30
So the tire hitch on the back of my car, that is built by a guy I met at Subifest.
45:37
So STI Omar. So he's a welder. He lives in Houston. So he had built one for his wife's
45:45
car. She has a Forester, but it's a different year model. Okay. And I was like, Hey,
45:51
could you do that to mine? And he was like, Yeah. You know, and we talked price and everything
45:56
and all that. And it's really cool because it runs, he has a camera that hooks up to my main
46:01
camera system. Nice. So it just, you flip a switch, I can go back to my main camera or
46:05
I can stay on his camera. And it gives me a backup camera. It's an open hitch. It drops
46:12
down and there's a table. So I have a table to cook on. It's one of those bison gear tables.
46:18
And then it's my propane tank is right there. So literally, I hook it right up to my stove.
46:23
It's just a game changer in the rig in the sense of
46:28
not a lot of weight, but something that serves a lot of purposes. Carries a tire,
46:33
gives me a place to cook on, holds my fuel, holds my recovery boards on the other side.
46:38
And I'm mounting my fishing poles. So I'm building a, basically just screwing in a fishing wreck
46:45
on there. And then on the back end, I'll have my fishing poles. So a lot of purposes. And literally,
46:51
I just met him walking into the, like he wasn't even in the show. Like we were just walking in,
46:56
he had his car on the outside, him and his wife were sitting there talking. My wife started
46:59
talking to his wife. I started looking at his rig. And one thing led to another. And then
47:03
we're at his house spending the whole day building a setup on my car. So I think
47:09
that was the big game changer for me. Like a lot of places talk about community, you know,
47:14
like a lot of car clubs are, oh, you know, we're all about community. We're all about this. And
47:18
then you get into the club and they're like, you can't do this. You can't do that. But like,
47:21
you go to these subi events and just everybody just wants to have a good time. And everybody
47:25
is like, Hey, this is where I got this. This could help your rig or Hey, what are you
47:29
trying to do? Like my vehicle does it? Like you can find someone who does everything.
47:33
You want to find a WRX that has a rooftop 10 on it? You're going to find it at Superfest.
47:39
So like if somebody thought of it, you're probably going to see it at Superfest.
47:43
I think that's the coolest part. And then everybody's always so willing to share
47:47
information too. That's what's really nice is there's no, you know, you've rarely come across
47:52
somebody who's like says that they don't want to help you out or like, no, I don't want to
47:56
tell you what I do with mine. And you know, we get ideas and inspiration from other builds,
48:02
but, and we might have a lot of the same products that other people have, but we still
48:06
find a way to make it our own and make it unique and different because we all have our
48:10
own style, you know, we all have our own like personality that we kind of help bring out
48:17
with our Subaru's, you know, it's like, because like with mine, it's an all white and black
48:22
theme, you know, and I have certain decals on it that somebody else may not want,
48:27
you know, but I like them and for, you know, for whatever reason, but it's just,
48:31
it's fun to personalize it and start to see it grow into something new and different,
48:37
you know, and it's just, it's, I don't know, it's just a lot of fun.
48:40
Well, I think that's actually, you raise a really good point. So when we went,
48:44
we obviously toured like the show area and as we were going through there, you know,
48:48
like I saw Space City, Subis, I saw all these different Subi clubs and I was like, you know,
48:52
Texas Roo and I was like, man, where's the San Antonio Club? And my son, he, he saw the Bluey
48:59
Subi that Nat owns. And he was like, this is so cool. And, you know, my wife and son,
49:04
they're over there taking pictures with it and this and that. And they weren't there at the time,
49:08
but the person beside them, he was like, hey, they're in San Antonio because we were, you know,
49:14
we were just talking. Yeah, we're in San Antonio. They're like, they're in San Antonio,
49:17
you should find them. So I found her on Instagram a couple of days later.
49:21
And then, you know, she got me into the car scene and to the car club and into like
49:26
Lone Star Subis. And so it was like, the community was just welcoming.
49:31
Like you go to these Jeep events, you go to Toyota and I'm not, I'm not knocking them
49:34
like people like those cars, great. But those communities almost seem more exclusive,
49:39
so to speak. Like, yeah. Oh, well, you have a base model. Like, well,
49:42
when you grow up, you can be in our car. And they're like, no, bring your car as is.
49:48
Like, we'll help you build it. Like, when I pulled out my struts to put my rail tech lift kit in,
49:55
I gave them to a guy who wanted to turn his and his WRX into like a rally car.
50:00
So he took my stock ones and use that. And it's one of those things where
50:04
like, he was like, Hey, what can I help you with? Like, it was just, it was a true community
50:09
and I think, and like she does some of my decals and like different things like that.
50:12
So it's one of those things where it's just, I don't know, the community is just different.
50:17
It's the closest I can equate it to is like the military in the sense of
50:23
it's a strong community and everyone can have their own personality. Like,
50:27
you go around a group of military people, you're going to find, you know, the jock,
50:30
the cowboy, the whatever. And like, you go to a super group, you're going to see the
50:33
same thing. Like you see a cowboy around a tattooed person that you would be like,
50:39
you'd never see those two people together in a crowd, but
50:41
Are you saying cowboys don't have tattoos? I know, right? I'm proof that we do, but
50:46
but it's just very, it's funny, right? Like you, the community is just so much more
50:53
inclusive is probably the best word. Yeah. And what I think is really cool too is like
50:57
what I've experienced is you have people of so many various ages too. Because like, you'll
51:05
have somebody that's because I'm 52, you'll have somebody that's like 65, you know, close to 70 or
51:11
whatever that builds out their Subaru and is having fun with it. And they're talking to somebody that's
51:17
like 19 that is built out their Subaru. And because they have a Subaru, these two people of
51:23
like a vast age difference are coming together and talking about something that they both enjoy
51:28
where normally those two people, if they were at some other kind of event, probably would
51:34
have never talked in their life. And I think that's so cool that you just have all these different
51:40
people of different backgrounds of different ages all coming together and just for the love of
51:45
Subaru. Thank you. Yeah, I know, right? And I think that's what, I think that's what
51:50
Subifest does really well. Like when you walk through the show area, like you'll see an overland
51:56
rig and then right beside it, you'll see like a totally decked out WRX, right? Yeah. Or you'll
52:01
see like an old school, you know, fuzzy, just totally kitted out, lowered and all that. And you're
52:08
like, you wouldn't see those together on a normal scene, but you go to Subifest and it's like,
52:13
they're right beside each other and they're sitting there laughing and hanging out. And then,
52:17
you know, they're both giving you inspiration for your build, like you said. And so it's just,
52:21
it's wild. Like I don't think I've ever seen a community that does it well, or as well as
52:27
Subifest and Subaru does, probably outside of the military. Yeah. And like, I don't have any experience
52:33
with any other car clubs at all. But I've heard from countless other people that have been in
52:39
other car clubs that say the way the Subaru community is is unlike anything they've ever
52:45
experienced. So it's good to know that that comes from a lot of different people. And I think
52:49
Subifest- Coming from other brands. Yeah. And I think Subifest makes it that way, right?
52:54
Like you go to this event and it almost encourages you to learn all that stuff, right? Because you've
52:59
got Bucky doing donuts out there. And then an hour later, you've got an overland course happening.
53:04
And it's like, what? You know, like you wouldn't go to a Honda show and see that. You wouldn't
53:08
even go to a Toyota show and see that. Yeah. So knowing now what you know about Subifest going
53:15
last year and everything, one, you said that your car is going to be in the show,
53:20
which is super cool. Vote for me. Everybody help me win it.
53:22
Yeah. So, so like, aside from, you know, your car being in the show,
53:27
like what are you most looking forward to? I'll be honest, I'm excited for the community.
53:33
Like the fact that, you know, I met Omar there, I'm excited to see him again,
53:37
see if he's done anything new to him and his wife's build. I'm excited to actually go this
53:43
time with the car club. So I'll be going with Lone Star Subis, right? So it's cool to
53:48
be able to go from being an outside participant, so to speak, to now like
53:53
a year ago, I was on the outside. Now I'm in the show with the car club going in, right?
53:59
Like, so I think I'm really excited for that. And I'll be, I'll be 100% honest. I'm really
54:04
excited for the pens. I want to see what pens they come out with. So I immediately bought
54:08
them. I'm a big, I don't know, like little trinket shit. Like I love that stuff. Yeah.
54:13
So I'm excited for the pens. Hopefully, you know, maybe they'll have a forester,
54:19
but I think just, just the community is the biggest part that I'm excited for.
54:24
Yeah. No, it's, it's fun. It's definitely something to look forward to.
54:29
If you could drive somebody else's Subaru for a day, who's would it be?
54:33
Man, I know you prepped me for this one and I spent forever like thinking like,
54:38
who's where I drive? Who's where I drive? And there's just so many cool ones out there.
54:44
Oh, I really, so backstory. So Nat was the first person to get me in a car club,
54:51
like kind of, you know, take me from outside persistent to inside. Yeah.
54:55
The very first follower I got on Instagram was Wicca. Okay. So I think I would want to drive
55:01
hers more for like the nostalgia of, you know, this is the very first person. Yeah. And I
55:06
feel like those, our builds are kind of similar, you know, like Wicca goes, they kind of go
55:10
together like the black and orange, the white and black. Like I think it would just be really cool
55:15
to swap cars with her for the day. And it's kind of the same as mine. So it wouldn't be that big
55:18
of a leap. No, that's cool. And that's a good answer. I liked it. So what are, like,
55:22
what are your thoughts on like some of the newer model Subaru's, you know, lineup that
55:27
they've come out with? You just opened a can of worms. I try to be nice. Yeah. I'm like,
55:34
okay, do you want to keep your Subaru sponsorship at the end of this podcast?
55:39
I actually, I don't like the Forster 100% the new Forster. I don't like it. I'm not going to
55:48
hide that because I think Forster is a very signature car for Subaru. And I think it's one,
55:57
like, like we were talking about earlier, like it can do everything. You can go down the street
56:01
and see somebody on a lowered one. You can see somebody on a lifted one. You can see a stock
56:05
one that looks great just seeing it pass by, right? Like, there's just something about the Forster build
56:11
that I think just looks great. I think this new model, they kind of missed the mark. It looks
56:17
just like every other Toyota or Land Cruiser you see on the street, in my opinion. I don't
56:22
like the body style. I don't like how it shifted. I'm not a big fan of the whole electric push.
56:28
I was never a big fan of it. I think I think it has potential. I think there's a lot of
56:34
work that needs to be done. And I don't think Subaru is quite there yet. So I'm curious to see
56:40
how this electric performs, especially being marketed as like an off-road capable electric.
56:46
So I'm very curious as to what that looks like. But I don't have my hopes up. So
56:53
I'm hesitant. Like old Subaru 2023 and below loved it. Now kind of drifting into looks like
57:02
everybody else's car. Yeah, there's definitely some animosity and stuff with the new Forster.
57:09
However, I'm going to Overland Expo in Mountain West in Colorado and seeing the Forster hybrid
57:20
that Mountain Subi is going to be. She's been kidding it out and stuff with Subaru and Silver
57:26
Bullet XV. So that's Carey and Milton. That Subaru, the color that is looking like I didn't really,
57:36
I didn't care for it too much either when I first saw it. And a lot of people didn't just because
57:40
it, they thought it looked like too much like a Fore Explorer. But it's really growing on me.
57:47
Like seeing it in person more and more. The interior styling, I think it's amazing.
57:53
I really like it. I think it looks great. But you talked about you can do stuff with,
57:59
yeah, the older Forsters lifted, dropped. There's something about the body style,
58:04
especially like the older, older ones that were really boxy. And yeah, you did kind of lose that
58:08
with the newer one. But it's not to say that people can't do those things. So I'm curious
58:14
to see what people will be doing with the new one. Because I think depending on what you do
58:20
with it can bring back some of that, check out that Subaru look. So even though the body style
58:26
maybe may have changed, there's still, I think there's still something about the way that people
58:32
build Subaru's that definitely stands out from everybody else. Yeah, I think you really touched
58:37
on it earlier, right? Like it's about the person who owns the car. Like as much as I don't
58:44
like this Forster new model, I'm excited to see what people do with it. And I hope they
58:49
change my opinion, right? Like, because I'll value the opinion of the people I meet at Subaru Fest,
58:55
the people I see in the car clubs, like I'll value what they say. But I mean, as of now,
59:01
I haven't tested driven one. I even asked when they gave me a loaner, if I could drive one,
59:04
they just didn't have any on the lot at the time. So I'm curious and I still might go in
59:10
and be like, Hey, can I test drive one? But it's, I think the community has a chance to
59:15
do it. And if there's one thing the Subaru community can do is they can fix it, right?
59:19
Like they can make it come back to life. So well, and it'll be interesting to see because
59:24
no doubt there's probably going to be some people that have done stuff with
59:27
the new Forsters at Subaru Fest. If you're going to see it somewhere, that's where you're going
59:31
to see it because it's hard sometimes to like captures that out just driving around, like
59:37
especially in Texas and in Houston. Yeah. Well, Houston probably more in the city,
59:43
you're going to see more of the tuner scene. But as far as like off-road and overlanding,
59:47
you're not going to see it as much in Texas, especially not like in Houston, maybe not
59:51
in San Antonio or Austin. But if we're going to see it anywhere, we're going to see it at
59:57
Subaru Fest. But you touched on another thing too, as far as like the, you know,
00:04
how we, I guess, think about other people's builds and respecting them. And, you know,
00:12
because like I feel like Subaru owners amongst each other, like while you may not, like you may not
00:18
like the Forster body style, let's say, but you can see what somebody did and respect what they
00:23
did and be like, okay, I don't really care so much for the body style. But what you did with it
00:27
is, that's amazing. Like that looks incredible. 100%. And then, but then so that's amongst,
00:34
you know, Subaru owners. We also can respect other people's builds. Like if somebody built out a Jeep
00:40
or a Toyota or a Honda or anything else, I feel like it goes more from Subaru owners out to
00:47
everybody else than everybody else coming into Subaru owners and having respect. So it's so
00:52
fun to see that a lot. You know, I've not, again, not necessarily experiencing that myself,
00:58
but just from stuff that I've heard from other people. So I literally just experienced it on
01:03
the drive up here. So we stopped to get gas at a QT. And we were, we barely had left San Antonio.
01:10
And there was a Jeep that was gassing up right beside me. Bare-bone stock Rubicon,
01:15
like nothing done to it. And mine's fully raked out. And his friend was at the other
01:19
gas pump and was like, Hey, and was like, and I could see him look at my car. And he was like,
01:24
Hey, he gave me the thumbs up from far away. Like he liked it. And then he pointed to his friend and
01:28
told him like, Hey, like basically, like, this is what your car could be. And he was like,
01:32
nah, that's, that's, that's weak. Like, and I could hear him kind of like insult my car,
01:36
but he didn't say anything to me. You know, and it's kind of one of those things where
01:39
it's like, dude, like you have a stock car, like yours has no personality. I can find 100
01:45
Rubicons on the road, you know? And so it's like, I didn't take it personal, but it definitely goes
01:51
to your point. Like outside of the Subaru community, I feel like a lot of people are a lot, they're
01:57
like, well, you're just trying to be an overlander. Go get a real car. And you're trying to be like
02:01
a Jeep. You're trying to be, it's like, no, I just, yeah, it just, it doesn't, it doesn't
02:06
go both ways, unfortunately. And not, not with every case, of course, because we know people
02:11
in other car communities that respect our builds, like, because a lot of them go trailing together,
02:17
you know, and because they have that respect. And that, that just comes down to the person,
02:21
like this person just, they don't have respect for somebody else, you know?
02:25
Yeah. And I think, and I think that's the coolest thing about Subaru. Like we keep
02:28
touching on the community, but I really feel like that's the crux of it. Like the Subaru
02:32
community is a very like inclusive community. And you can take whatever stance you want
02:36
to take and say, oh, they lean more liberal, or you can like, you can make it political,
02:40
you can make it however you want to make it. But at the end of the day, I've never had a Subaru
02:46
person be mean to me, to my family, or my car. Yeah. I can't say the same thing about other cars.
02:53
Yeah. Yeah. Unfortunately. So like, as far as not just your build, but like go subi adventures
03:03
and kind of what it stands for talking about preparedness and all that kind of stuff,
03:07
like what is your long-term goal with it, with what you're building as far as what it means to you?
03:15
Yeah. So it's twofold for me. One, I want to become the name and preparedness, you know?
03:23
A couple of years back, you had fieldcraft survival. And then prior to that, you had like,
03:28
you know, the preppers guild. And you've had like all these different people have come up,
03:32
you've had, you know, the graybeard green beret and you've had, you know,
03:38
mother prepper, and there's like a hundred different names. But when you really boil down all of them,
03:43
it's almost like a fear based. And I get it fear sales, right? Yeah. But for me, like, I want
03:49
preparedness to be fun because I watched these like communities that I'm in, you know, the guy
03:55
in the WRX with a fully kitted out recovery system. And he doesn't even have an overland
04:00
rate, but he wants to be able to help, you know, his friends on the trails, right? And he can come
04:05
in and be a recovery car. And like, that's cool, you know, like that's preparedness. And I think
04:11
everyone should have some level of preparedness, you know, and it's different for everyone.
04:15
I'm not telling everyone to go out and buy guns and gas masks and get a bunker.
04:19
But it's definitely like everyone should have some level of preparedness. And I think
04:24
the biggest turnoff is one money and two fear. And those are the two biggest selling
04:29
points in the preparedness space right now. And so for me, I was like, well, what if we just
04:33
made it fun? Like take my advice, don't take my advice. Like I don't care. But I want it,
04:39
I want to put it out there because maybe there's someone who doesn't know how to create a proper
04:44
communication plan. Perfect example, there were, you know, protests happening throughout
04:50
the US a while back. And I posted this little thing about, you know, how to do a simple
04:56
communication of, you know, what do I see in front of me? What are they doing? Kind of,
05:02
you know, the same thing that a million different people do. You know, who's mobilizing? What do
05:07
they have? What are they doing? Where are they going? Kind of the basic who, what, when, where's
05:11
house? And I put it on my page as a post and kind of like walked out like the military
05:18
doctrine behind it and basically said, you know, like, if you get everyone on the
05:21
same page, you know, if you're going to a rally and you all use this same information,
05:27
it's going to work so much better because everyone's saying the same thing and everyone knows
05:31
what information is being relayed. And the outpouring of information I got for like people
05:36
like, I never thought about that. I never knew about that. Like, and it's something so small
05:41
as, you know, a local protest, right? Whether it's No Kings Day, whether it's an LGBTQ
05:48
parade, whether it's even a, you know, MAGA parade, whoever it is, right? Being able to
05:54
effectively communicate as a core pillar of that very adventure doing and just talking about it.
06:01
Like there were so many people who were like, I've never thought about that. I never thought
06:04
how important it was that everybody be on the same page. And one of the people leading
06:09
the protest in San Antonio said, Hey, I'm going to use this for my people. Like, how do I
06:14
teach it to all the core people who are going to be on the radio? So I kind of like talked
06:18
them through it and this and that. And it's one of those things where then we got into, well,
06:22
you know, are you prepared for pepper spray? Do you know, like what counters it? Do you have
06:27
like bandanas? Did you give people a list of what they should bring beforehand? They're like,
06:30
well, we just kind of grabbed things from other people. I'm like, well,
06:33
what if you built that out beforehand? So it's, it's things like that that I think
06:38
we make it sound so gate keep door. Oh, you only need this information if you're
06:42
preparing for the zombie apocalypse. Well, no, you need this information. If you're going to go
06:47
to a protest with your wife and kids, you need this information. If you're going to go camping
06:52
out in the middle of, you know, even a state park, like, yes, it's a controlled environment,
06:57
but you're out there in the wild, right? Yeah, you're going to need this if the power goes
07:01
out. We were all in tech. Like if you're in Texas, you're here when snow again happened,
07:05
right? And everyone didn't have everything. So it's one of those things where everyone
07:09
can benefit by knowing some things. But if you make it so fear based by base,
07:14
then nobody learns anything. So it's just like, take my military, take my ranching experience,
07:19
put it out there and help people learn that information and have fun while doing it.
07:24
So where can people follow you to like start learning more about it?
07:28
Yeah, so the easiest and fastest ways Instagram goes to be adventures.
07:33
That's where everything goes to first. I have a preparedness newsletter that I send out.
07:38
I call it past the trailhead. And we talk about all things preparedness, you know,
07:42
kind of a weekly recap of, you know, things I've seen in my week, things that might help people.
07:48
I shout out some other people who are doing great things. And then
07:52
with that, you'll be the first to know when my podcast launches goes to be adventures where
07:57
So you haven't launched that yet? It has not launched yet. Probably by the time this
08:01
episode airs, it will be out because it's slated for the next couple of weeks.
08:07
So speaking of the podcast, do you have like a release schedule as far as like how often
08:13
you're going to release it? Yeah. Yeah. So we're going to do, for now, I'm going to do once a week
08:17
and then I'm going to pepper in random episodes based on things that are happening in the world,
08:23
just kind of awareness things, and then also guest spots. So you'll hear from me talking
08:30
about preparedness, different things, kind of seasonal, like everything from recovery gear to
08:36
my boo bag, like, Hey, how do you put a bag like that in your vehicle? So mine was a Bass Pro bag
08:41
and the whole kit thing comes out to like 300 bucks when you add everything up. So it's one of those
08:46
things where there's that level, but then, Hey, what's a cheaper build for it? How can I be
08:50
effective? And so just giving people those resources on a week to week basis, guest spots
08:56
where I talk to other people about their builds and their vehicles that they're rolling with,
09:00
because I think a big part of preparedness is your vehicle. You spend a lot of time in
09:05
your vehicle. Like think of how much time you spend day in and day out driving.
09:10
And imagine like most people will tell you like, Oh, I saw an accident on the road today. Oh,
09:14
I saw this like, Oh man, this person was stranded and I couldn't help them, right?
09:18
But if you had the stuff, could you would you would you even be able to, right? Like,
09:22
it's great to have a med kit, but what if you don't know how to use it? Like,
09:27
it's great to have tourniquets, but predominantly, if you're out camping with kids or whatever,
09:32
you're not going to see somebody in a need of a tourniquet, they're going to need
09:35
a bandage or bug spray or, you know, something for a bug bite. Do you carry that stuff? Or do you
09:41
think, well, I have this, you know, high level gauze that's going to stop the bleed in 2.2
09:47
seconds. Well, that's great, but that's not what you're going to encounter in most of the
09:50
time. So you don't need that man. Yeah. So it's what you practically need. And again,
09:55
back to that, get away from fear based and more what's practical for me in my life.
10:00
Yeah. So how would you say that owning your Subaru has changed your life?
10:05
Oh man. Yeah, it's been a game changer. Definitely. So community, obviously great community.
10:15
It's just a fun bonding thing for me and my son. So the other day we were,
10:19
we were driving and my son was like, Hey dad, what happens to this car, you know,
10:23
when you get too old to drive it, I'm like, well, it's going to be your car. Like,
10:26
he was like, I'm going to take good care of it. I'm excited for that. And it's like
10:31
unintentionally. Are you going to get too old before he's
10:34
able to drive? First of all, let's talk about this aging thing. But yeah. And I think like,
10:40
that's really cool because now my son is interested in this same thing that I am, right? He's made
10:47
friends in the community, same as me. Whether it's kids and then even older people who've helped
10:53
him skateboarding, like all these different things. So it's like, he's had people teach
10:57
him things that I can't. I'm not a skateboarder. I'm never going to be a skateboarder.
11:01
And so that's been great. That's been life-changing. The community I've met,
11:06
the preparedness, like pulling me off of the ledge to actually move forward with it, like,
11:10
to take something from an idea and kind of something I toyed with to now like,
11:16
Hey, I can do it. Like I can chalk that up to my Subaru being the reason behind that.
11:20
And then obviously, like the safety factor of it. I mean, yeah, just such a safe car,
11:26
such a reliable car, notwithstanding the things that happened in my car.
11:32
We're going to pretend that those didn't happen. Subaru customer service was great
11:36
at the Subaru level. And so it was a, it's just great to have a car that touches every facet
11:43
of my life. Like traveling, living the lifestyle I want to live, affordable price,
11:49
like all the things, like it hits everything. And I think finding something in today's age
11:56
that checks all the blocks is almost impossible. So it's such everything.
12:03
That's awesome. So do you think that you will always own a Subaru?
12:06
Oh, till I die. And then my kid will take it after I die.
12:11
That's when you're going to be too old to drive.
12:13
Yeah. And then he better drive me around. So yeah.
12:16
All right. Was there anything else that you wanted to share before we get into this last
12:19
segment, anything that we didn't talk about that you think people might want to know about
12:24
your rig or adventures or anything? No, I mean, I think we, I think we covered a
12:29
lot of stuff. This was, this was a very exciting conversation. So I loved it.
12:33
All right. So, so this last segment is get to know you a little bit better,
12:38
but who is Roman as in describe yourself? Oh man, I don't, I don't know that you're
12:43
going to have any listeners after I describe myself. So I guess I'll give the high level
12:48
background of me. So I grew up in foster care, bounced around homes throughout Texas,
12:54
got adopted into a farming and ranching family in East Texas, grew up with a grandma who
13:01
survived the Great Depression. And that was kind of where the start of prepare,
13:05
I call her my grandma. She was actually my great grandma.
13:08
That's where my start in preparedness and kind of all that even happened is,
13:12
you know, she would tell me stories about the Great Depression while like I'm shelling peas
13:16
or picking berries with her. It was a really interesting time and really formative.
13:22
Home life wasn't great, moved out of it quickly, joined the military,
13:27
loved my time in the military, did multiple deployments as an interrogator, worked with
13:32
special operations, got to work with tons of militaries all over the world, like probably,
13:38
my wife will say it, it was my first love. And probably to this day, I still love it.
13:44
And that was that then got out, tried to figure out the whole assimilate back into society,
13:51
had a rough row of it for a while, got it together, and then had a son. And since then,
13:58
it's been having adventures and preparing him for the world the way it is, right? Like,
14:05
we talked about it a little bit, but the world has changed a lot since COVID.
14:08
Yeah. And being able to say like, hey, I have a son who knows how to start a fire, knows how to hunt,
14:15
knows how to fish. I feel like they're kind of dying skills. And it's sad to say that because
14:22
I think some of the most fun times I've had is going fishing in the middle of nowhere, right?
14:27
Traveling down a trail, you know, seeing the stars at night. So that's really me in a nutshell.
14:35
It's like adventuring, it's being out, it's, it's having fun and taking the sunshine and the rain
14:41
and pushing through all of it. You mentioned stars at night. So we got to do something real quick
14:46
together. Oh, geez. Stars at night are big and bright, deep in the heart of Texas.
14:55
I love it. I love it. That's awesome. Okay. You can only do that with Texas people. Yeah.
15:00
But for everyone else, you should learn that. So you said something when we came into this room
15:05
and knowing your background now and what you, part of what you did in the military,
15:08
it makes a lot of sense. So for context for everybody, we're at a hotel where he and his
15:13
wife are staying. And we asked the guy at the front desk if we could use a meeting space
15:19
so that we could record the episode and, you know, so just be quiet and not bothered or
15:24
anything. And so the guy was like, there's no tables or chairs or anything in there.
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And I said, all I need is two chairs. So we were outside taking some photos of our cars.
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And then we, he's like, I'll leave the door open for you. So we're like, oh,
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here's a meeting room. We walk in. And the first thing you said was this looks like an
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interrogation room because almost, almost in the middle of the room, it's like a little
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off center. But in the middle of the room, there's this very narrow,
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somewhat long table, maybe like four feet long table. It's like four feet long,
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like maybe not even two feet deep. It could be a bench. Yeah. And then a chair on either side.
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And then, you know, of course light. So there's this big open room. And it does kind of look
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like we're in here for an interrogation, an interview. So it's been a good interrogation.
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It's been a good one. What is a favorite memory from your childhood?
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Well, I mean, we kind of touched on it. I love the time I spent with my grandma.
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She taught me a lot of stuff to this day. I still talk about her and about the stuff she did.
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And even with everything that happened with my family, she was always right there
16:33
for me until she passed away. And she was just a really great example of resiliency.
16:39
And I think that kind of carried on with me. But I would, to be honest,
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my favorite memories were sitting there, shelling peas with her at the time. I thought
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it was the worst thing in the world with now being older. I think I'd trade a lot of things
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to be able to do that one more time. Absolutely. Yeah. You look as an adult,
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you look back at some of the things that you were like, oh, are we doing this?
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And then those, yeah, become some of your most fond memories.
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100%. So we're in East Texas because a lot of my family on my mom's side and her
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parent's side were in Alto. Okay, very cool. So I grew up in between Mahea and Tig and Clay Hill.
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Okay. So it's like right there. So Fairfield is, you know, like 10 minutes one way.
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And Tig is like 10 minutes the other way. So it's like smack dab in the middle.
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It's a little, I mean, Clay Hill is technically part of Tig. Okay.
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It's not in the sense that it's its own, it's got its own electric, its own power.
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And I mean, I guess it's kind of changed since then, you know, everything has happened.
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But yeah, it was a really small middle of nowhere, nothing.
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Where is that in relation to like where Alto is and Palestine?
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So it's a little south, south, Palestine is to the east.
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So okay, gotcha. Okay, cool, cool. But I mean, I played baseball throughout Palestine.
18:09
Pretty much, I mean, all of that area, right? It pick any little small,
18:13
so nothing town. And honestly, like that's land that I wish this is back to a tangent,
18:18
but I wish that some of that was public land because there's so much beautiful land,
18:24
so many trails and honestly, there are county roads up there, which is nice.
18:30
And then like pretty much everyone you go down,
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you'll see somebody selling like a little farmer's market out of their house.
18:37
You'll see little old cemeteries. You'll see, you know, run down old chapels,
18:42
dilapidated ranches. And I think it's a lot of history that gets lost in the hustle and
18:47
bustle of the cities around it. Yeah, absolutely. What did you do for a living?
18:53
So I work in banking. I won't call out the bank, but I do business and control management.
19:01
So I look at all of their risk portfolios and make sure that they don't end up in the news for bad
19:07
things. All right. Do you have a dream job? You know, honestly, I've done my dream job,
19:13
so I got to jump out of helicopters, deploy all over the world. That was what I wanted to do
19:18
from a very young age. And I got to do it. So I mean, yeah, I lived my dream job and
19:23
that's cool. My body at some point said, you've had enough of your dream job,
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go forth and do other things. But yeah, I think I did it. I mean, now I think I would say,
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can you get paid to overland? I mean, I mean, I think if you do it right and get connected
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with the right brands and stuff, you probably I think maybe I guess that would be my dream job.
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Yeah. Maybe be out in the middle of nowhere for a while and just live in my car.
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Have your own preparedness channel. There you go. I like this. I like discovery channel.
19:55
If you're listening, pick me up. Yeah. There you go. So what is something that really scares you?
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Rats. Rats. 100% rats. I actually have a story about this. So rats and mice have scared
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me since I was a little kid. Always scared me. My third or fourth deployment,
20:14
we were in a talk probably about the size of this room we're in right now. And a talk is
20:18
like an operation center. So a bunch of people sit in there. You've got computers and usually a
20:22
big screen where you're like watching your operations. So it's called it's tech
20:26
cooperation center. So you're basically planning out your ops, you're overseeing
20:30
like the visual feeds of people that are in operations and things like that.
20:34
And when you're on the base, you're not supposed to discharge your weapon.
20:39
So that's not a thing. Yeah, I'm hearing a story. Yeah, you're hearing a story.
20:45
So there's a giant rat that, I mean, it wasn't a rat. It was more like a dog that was a rat.
20:52
And yeah, like it came running across the wall. And I pulled my gun and I shot the rat
20:58
and I killed the rat. And nobody was there. It was up high. Like I knew I wasn't going
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to hurt anybody. I shot it into the roof. So like it would have been like kind of on the beam,
21:06
the raft of the roof shot it, killed it, it dropped down. Everyone got super mad at me,
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but it was a really good shot. So I didn't get in trouble. But yeah, like I'm terrified of rats.
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I will break rules for it. Apparently so. What were you thinking? By the way, that was a
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great shot. Yeah, yeah, basically. And I mean, I had told them that I was scared of rats.
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And I like I worked really hard to keep rats away from my area of the bay. I mean,
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it's hard. Like you're in the middle of that. But yeah, that's that's one of the best ones I've
21:35
ever heard. What is Kay, then what is something that really excites you? Oh man. Right now,
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my son, my son really excites me. Like just we were talking about on the drive up here.
21:48
Like he's growing up so fast. Like he's eight years old. And you know, I remember you
21:53
so fast. I think people undersell that when they tell you like, Hey,
21:57
you're going to be a parent and your kid's going to grow so fast. They don't really sell it to you
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as well as they should. I think they should sell it a lot better. Yeah, so it excites me because,
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you know, the other day he wasn't into, he was into bluey, you know, and now he doesn't watch
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bluey. He watches, you know, a different show. And I'm sure in like three weeks, it'll be
22:19
another show. And you know, it's just the amount of things they absorb, the amount of like
22:24
growth, the sense of adventure, the wonder. Like he still sees the world as like this
22:31
explorable place. And I'm like, all the good stuff's been explored already. But he's like,
22:35
no, it hasn't seen it. And so, and I'm like, man, I wish I could go back to that. And so
22:40
seeing that and kind of vicariously living that is nice. Yeah. It's, I noticed too with my kids
22:46
that like they would go through this phase and you're like, Oh my gosh, I love this phase.
22:51
Like I don't want them to grow out of this. Like I want them to stay like this forever.
22:54
And then it just gets better. And then it gets better. And then it gets better,
22:57
because like each new phase that they get to is not that it negates the one before,
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but they just start doing new things and talking more and their personality starts
23:07
developing more. And then they start like, you know, maybe having a sense of humor.
23:11
And so it's like, you just see all these progressions and all these phases that are
23:14
like continuous, like this one was amazing. But then this gets even better. And this
23:19
gets better. And this gets better. And then they get older and they go driving with you on trails.
23:23
Exactly. My son just turned 19 and he's got 2010 out back. And so we get to do that together.
23:29
And that's, and I think that's, that's the other part, right? Like people don't sell
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how fast they grow up, but they also don't sell how amazing the journey is. And I think
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if you're not a parent, you can't really see it, right? It's hard to, and it's hard to
23:42
describe it to someone who is who has a little baby in their hand and all they do is cry and
23:47
poop, right? And then all of a sudden, like everything changes. And it's like, wow. And then
23:52
you get used to that. And then it changes again. I tell you what though, it is really cool having
23:57
adult children because you, your conversations are different. You can share more stuff like
24:04
I really like metal. And my son like didn't use to like metal. And then all of a sudden
24:11
he was listening to deaf tones. And then you listen to other stuff. And I'm like,
24:15
where did this come from? Because he didn't use to like this. And now we've been to concerts
24:20
together. Yeah, that's awesome. Yeah, we've been to, we've seen Gojira twice. One of them was at the
24:27
corn's 30th anniversary tour. So we saw corn and Gojira at the Woodlands. And then we saw
24:34
corn, we saw Gojira. And, and I think like they were, I don't remember if they were,
24:40
I think, maybe something different. But anyway, we were seeing Gojira. We saw,
24:44
we've seen Seven Dust. We've seen Static X, which we were like, he didn't really know who they were.
24:51
And I kind of knew a little bit, you know, listened to him a long time ago. We were watching him
24:54
like, this is so good. So it's just been fun. And like, he went to the deaf tones concert
24:59
recently with his best friend. They're going to go see, they've got tickets to go see Mudbane
25:04
like in December. Yeah. So being able to like share music together, like a love of that music
25:12
that I've like been listening to for so long. And now he listens to it. We're always sharing stuff.
25:17
Dude, have you listened to this? Have you heard this? Have you heard this? That's a lot of fun.
25:21
So it's funny. I'm a, I'm an old school country fan. Like I grew up on country. I love country.
25:26
My son listens to a lot of country through me. He's a big Jelly Roll fan. So we took him to
25:32
see Jelly Roll on Post Malone. But we didn't tell him that we were going on. So it was a
25:36
total surprise. And like, this is the wonder of kids that people need to tell you about.
25:41
So like, we go to this concert. We've, you know, it's in the Spurs Stadium. So he's like,
25:45
seeing the Spurs play before. So we're like, oh, you know, this is just a little pre-show
25:49
before the Spurs come out to play. And he's buying it, right? I mean, I don't know how
25:53
you're buying this, but you're buying this. And then, and then Jelly Roll comes out. And he
25:57
loves Jelly Roll, like huge Jelly Roll thing. And like, for the entire concert, he's just crying
26:04
and quiet, like just absorbing it. And then he starts like flaring at the top of his lungs,
26:09
the songs, right? And I'm not a huge musical fan in the sense, like, can sing well or sing. Like,
26:16
I'm like, okay, you know, I like the music. I love to listen to it. You know, I'll sing in
26:20
a shower, but outside of that, you know. And he, like, he just like awoken that kind of like
26:27
thing in me. And like, we got to share that. And he still talks about that to this day.
26:30
And then he's like, Hey, when I'm 21, we're going to go to Nashville and we're going to go to Jelly
26:34
Roll's bar. And I'm like, all right, I don't know that you should be talking about this right now,
26:39
but I like where your head's at. And I'm rooting for that. You know, so I'm kind of looking forward
26:44
to those, but I try not to get so excited for the future that I lose sight of the moment.
26:48
Oh, of course. Yeah, it's definitely got to stay with the moment too. And they go so fast.
26:53
Yeah. Yeah, definitely. So what is something that makes you want to get out of bed every day?
26:59
I mean, easy to write my son. We can talk about it. But
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also, I mean, just kind of this life like I so I've had bouts with suicide. I've had,
27:10
you know, rough rows in the past. But I think that ultimately, man, life is worth all the ups
27:17
and downs. So it's kind of one of those things where get out of bed because you don't know
27:22
what's going to happen. Like the day, like, yes, it could be a total crap day. And we've all
27:26
had them. But also on the flip side, like you have days like the Jell-O-Roll concert with my kid,
27:31
like you're going to have those days of your own. So like that for me, like I get out of the bed
27:36
because what's the adventure going to be good or bad? I'm going to learn from it. It's going to
27:39
make me better. And I'm stoked for it. And I like, I tried to end it and cut my adventure
27:44
short. So now like, man, I'm jumping out of bed to seize them. I want everyone.
27:48
That's awesome, man. That's awesome. Well, glad that you're here to be talking to you.
27:52
Appreciate it. Yeah. What is something that makes you want to stay in bed?
27:57
Oh, man. My son, no. Honestly, I know, right? Honestly, just we've kind of touched on it,
28:07
COVID. But life is just so fast paced now. Like sometimes I just want to stay in bed to just
28:14
like slow down. I feel like constantly going like, and you know this creating content,
28:20
right? Like that's a constant battle in and of itself. So you have that along with work,
28:25
along with life. Like sometimes I just stay in bed because like there's nothing happening. Like
28:30
it's very, I don't want to deal with it. I don't want to deal with anything. One hand,
28:34
I'm excited to see what the adventure is. It's the dichotomy of life, right? And so I think
28:41
we do it because it's just sometimes it's just good to chill. And like that's this trip
28:45
right now. Like part of it is for us to just kind of chill and reset. And I think
28:49
more people need to stay in bed a little longer and reset. So like slow down. Yeah.
28:55
What would be your best bit of advice to give to somebody about anything?
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Oh, man, best piece of advice. That's a hard one. Because you get a lot of good advice
29:05
over time. And I'm sure you have way more than me even. But and then with this podcast
29:10
and everyone having to answer this question. I think you're using this for your own
29:14
personal gain. It's true. My best piece of advice. You know,
29:23
I had a team chief tell me and I'm going to make a blog about this in the future. But
29:27
it's been on my mind a lot lately. And so when you're in the army, you ruck mark a lot. So you
29:33
carry packs with weight. Yeah. And when you're backpacking, hiking, like all you outdoors
29:37
people will get this as well. ounces make pounds and pounds make pain. And he used to say that to
29:45
us all the time. And then he would say, and I'm not talking about your rucks. And and then at the
29:50
end of the ruck mark, he would always explain to us, like, there's things in life that you're
29:54
holding on to. And they're weighing you down. And they're causing you pain,
29:59
just like that ruck, like you put too much weight in it, it's going to buckle you at
30:02
the knees. So like so drop some of that weight. And I think that was probably the best piece of
30:08
advice because we all carry so many things. And sometimes we talk about it. Sometimes we don't.
30:13
But sometimes you just got to drop that stuff and dropping it can be talking about it with
30:17
somebody dropping it can be dealing with it and saying like, Hey, like I've dealt with this,
30:22
I'm not going to deal with it anymore. And I think ultimately like I find myself coming back
30:26
to that advice and a lot more now that I get older. Yeah, that's, yeah. I'm, I'm there with
30:33
certain things. It's good advice. It happens. And I think it's a constant one, right? Like
30:38
for me at 19, that advice was a lot different than for me, right? So, but I think it still applies
30:45
and it transcends every stage of life. Yeah. And it's amazing, like how much
30:51
you mature as you get older, you know, as far as certain things, but then you can still
30:55
act like an idiot, you know, when you're older because it's fun and like, why not?
30:59
And you have the money to do it. Yeah. But I mean, just, just being silly, you know,
31:03
not even having money to do certain things, but just your attitude and just having fun and
31:08
joking around with somebody, you know, it's like, you always have to hold on to that
31:13
kidlike mentality of just being weird and silly and goofy and, you know.
31:19
Yeah. And I think we talk about it a lot, like, but the Subaru community is a perfect
31:22
example of that. Like, it's a community that encourages like silliness and self-expression.
31:28
Yeah. 100%. Be yourself. That's beautiful. Yeah. Cool. Well, thank you for,
31:34
thank you for meeting me here first of all, because it's not, it's, you know, it's,
31:38
in a way, it's out of your way. And for me, it's not too much out of my way,
31:42
but I was coming home anyway. And I, the last time I did this trip for work,
31:47
I came through Waco and actually stopped in Waco, where I've only driven past it before.
31:52
And so I thought this would, this might be a good halfway stop, but it worked out well.
31:57
Minus the interrogation room. No, we gotta just give a huge thanks to that guy first.
32:03
Yeah. This was great. This worked out really well. And I appreciate you doing this, like this.
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It's been fun to get to talk about my car and my life for an hour.
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And I don't get to do this too often where I get to record with somebody in person.
32:16
You know, it's a very small percentage of my episodes where I get to actually record
32:21
with somebody in person. So any time you want me to come to Waco, I'll go and record.
32:26
Like I can always find a reason to come to Waco.
32:28
Sweet. All right, man. Well, thank you so much.
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Thank you. All right.
32:32
Hello, everybody. Thank you for tuning into another episode of the Subin U podcast.
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Thank you so much, Roman, for meeting up with me and recording your episode.
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Again, it was so great to do it in person. It's always more fun when I can do that.
32:46
So I always will take the opportunity to record with somebody in person.
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And this one was great and fun and interesting to do it in such a large room in an interrogation
32:57
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