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Sensitive Dealer REFUSES to Sell Me a Car Because I HURT HIS FEELINGS

Sensitive Dealer REFUSES to Sell Me a Car Because I HURT HIS FEELINGS

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Negotiations across Brooklyn and out-of-state listings turn into a pricing standoff: the dealer won’t match a requested 10% discount, citing MSRP, documentation-fee differences, and limited profit. The buyer pushes for invoice-minus-holdback math, confirms there are “no add-ons packages,” and keeps reconciling out-the-door totals. Even when GM approval is claimed to restore a larger discount, the deal ends with a refusal tied to the customer’s attitude and a manual vs automatic mismatch—then a final out-the-door number is quoted.

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Technical Too Afraid to Ask
Car

Hyundai Elantra

"... of a dealership playing games? I Want to do this Elantra and this client lives in the great city of Brookl..."

The Hyundai Elantra is a smaller four-door car designed for everyday driving. It often comes up in price and deal discussions because it’s a common model and dealerships may offer different pricing or add-ons.

Term

CRM

"We're a new CRM which is awesome, but I'm getting used to it [37.6s] This client wants to say stay in New York City. He's looking for an Elantra and I ever gray is the preferred option"

CRM is software dealers use to keep track of customers and sales steps. It helps organize who you talked to and what you promised them.

Term

stock number

"I just wanted to see if you guys have a car available. Alrighty. Do you have a stock number for me, Tommy? [87.7s] You know what I do whenever you're ready. I am ready. H is in Honda 267 34"

A stock number is the dealer’s internal identifier for a specific vehicle on their lot or in their inventory system. Asking for the stock number helps ensure the buyer is looking at the exact car being quoted.

Concept

rebates and incentives

"[287.2s] I definitely could save you a couple dollars and there could be some additional rebates and incentives you qualify for for sure [293.2s] When were you hoping to stop by Tommy? Do you have some time for me today or tomorrow better?"

Rebates and incentives are manufacturer- or dealer-backed discounts that reduce the effective price of a car. They’re often tied to eligibility (like financing through the brand, loyalty, or specific customer qualifications).

Concept

lease

"[301.1s] I love it a zoom zoom. All right, perfect. So what kind of pricing is it that you're hoping for are you looking to lease? [306.6s] Are you looking to finance? Yeah. Yeah, I was hoping for the 10% pay cash. Okay, but were you hoping to lease?"

Leasing means you rent the car for a few years and then give it back. Usually the monthly payment is lower, but you don’t own the car unless you choose to buy it later.

Concept

finance

"[306.6s] Are you looking to finance? Yeah. Yeah, I was hoping for the 10% pay cash. Okay, but were you hoping to lease? [311.9s] Were you looking to finance? I was looking to pay finance. I can pay cash. Got you. Okay, either or I'm open to financing"

Financing means you borrow money to buy the car and pay it back over time. The dealer may be able to offer better deals if you finance instead of paying cash.

Concept

pay cash

"[311.9s] Were you looking to finance? I was looking to pay finance. I can pay cash. Got you. Okay, either or I'm open to financing [317.0s] I know you guys sometimes get a better deal to finance. So I'm open to that."

Paying cash means you buy the car without taking out a loan. Sometimes discounts are tied to financing, so cash buyers might not get every incentive.

Term

financing

"I know you mentioned cash, but I definitely have a great relationship with our lenders, too [434.5s] You know, I probably could secure you a really great rate so you could keep some of the cash"

In car shopping, “financing” means borrowing money to pay for the vehicle, usually through the dealer’s lender network or a bank/credit union. Dealers may be able to offer better pricing or incentives when the buyer finances instead of paying cash.

Term

dealer documentation fee

"You know, you are local to us here in Brooklyn. You're only paying a hundred and 75 dollar dealer documentation fee So just in fees alone, you know, they might advertise a higher discount"

This is a dealership charge for handling the paperwork. It’s added on top of the car price, so it can make the “deal” cost more than you expected.

Concept

fees

"So just in fees alone, you know, they might advertise a higher discount But they're gonna get you with all the fees that they have we don't have that here"

“Fees” are extra charges the dealer adds on top of the car price. Two offers can look similar on discount, but the total cost can be very different once fees are included.

Concept

out-the-door price

"I'll take I'll take more than a thousand So like I'd rather just agree to numbers and be happy with it and then come in by the car rather than Numbers then you know, then become I want to make it as easy as possible for you"

The out-the-door price is the final total you’ll pay to drive the car home. It includes the car price plus the extra charges and taxes, so it’s the best way to compare deals.

Concept

trade

"[861.3s] Purchase or are you looking for a trade? [864.0s] Purchase. I mean, unless you trade Pokemon cards and then I'm down. I got a few"

In car shopping, a trade usually means exchanging your current vehicle as part of the deal. The dealer then applies a trade-in value toward the purchase price of the car you want.

Term

DCT automatic

"[882.8s] 16 shift one automatic. I'm looking for a DCT automatic [887.9s] Oh, I think it's sitting on my showroom floor. Hold on. Okay."

DCT means dual-clutch transmission. It’s an automatic-style gearbox that can change gears quickly, so the car can feel more responsive than some older automatics.

Term

invoice minus hold back

"So what he's willing to do in a way pretty much any of the units that we have in stock [964.3s] He's okay doing uh will be invoice minus hold back just because we try to do it to meet our number every month"

Dealers sometimes have a “cost” number from the factory (invoice). They also get a little extra money back from the manufacturer called “holdback.” “Invoice minus holdback” means the dealer is offering you a price close to what they paid, after accounting for that extra back-end money.

Term

add-ons packages

"We don't have any add-ons packages. No, nothing [995.7s] It'll be taxes fees and registration based on the customer zip code for brooklyn"

“Add-ons packages” are extra items the dealer tries to sell on top of the car—often bundled together. They can raise the total price, so it’s worth checking exactly what’s included and whether you can remove them.

Car

Hyundai Ioniq

"...12346 of them are in the northeast like I need an Ioniq five and pa right now I need a nfa hybrid"

The Hyundai Ioniq line includes cars that use alternative power, like hybrid or electric systems. People bring it up when they want better fuel economy or a different kind of powertrain than a typical gas car.

Car

Hyundai Palisade

"... need a nfa hybrid I need a another sonata need a palisade. I got cars of the wazoo So if you guys trying to..."

The Hyundai Palisade is a larger SUV with three rows of seats, meant for families or groups. People talk about it when they’re shopping for a roomy vehicle and trying to get a good price at a dealership.

Car

Hyundai Sonata

"I need a nfa hybrid I need a another sonata need a palisade. I got cars of the wazoo So if yo..."

The Hyundai Sonata is a regular four-door car (a sedan) for daily driving. It’s often mentioned because it’s a popular model people consider when they want something reliable and reasonably priced.

Term

MSRP

"They told you MSRP. Yeah, they were barely giving me a deal [1612.2s] They were barely giving me a discount."

MSRP is the “list price” the carmaker sets for the car. The dealer might sell it for less than that, but in some situations they try to stick close to MSRP.

Term

discount

"They were barely giving me a discount. They were they were like, what are you? What are we doing? [1615.8s] I don't want to do deal. They're kind of upset"

A discount is how much cheaper the dealer will sell the car than the list price. Negotiation is basically trying to get a bigger discount.

Concept

walk away

"Then you just got to walk away. They don't have to sell it to you at that price [1633.0s] So here we are as I've walked away and now I'm looking at other dealers"

“Walk away” means you stop negotiating and leave if the price isn’t right. Dealers sometimes change their offer when they realize you might actually go buy somewhere else.

Term

negotiated three grand off your hard line

"We'll be able to get negotiated three grand off your hard line. You're not moving off it [1683.28s]"

A “hard line” is the dealer’s firm price they won’t budge from. “Three grand off” means they’re offering to lower the price by $3,000 if you agree to move forward.

Term

net zero deal

"I can't do the three you're the only person that's telling me you're losing money at two grand [1780.0s] Everybody else has said they're at a ten dollar or net zero deal"

A “net zero deal” means the dealer says they’re not really making money on the sale. But the final price can still include extra charges, so it’s worth checking the full breakdown.

Concept

hard stance

"I got a guy braided by this car how much money you're okay with us losing to make a deal with him He's got a pretty hard stance. He said he's okay with me taking the 3000 off"

A “hard stance” means the dealer (or salesperson) isn’t flexible. They’ll only agree to the deal if it stays within their limits.

Term

doc fee

"You got your doc standard doc fee and your register whatever your registration fees are. Yep Our document 800 up and you guys don't have any just tax title license"

A doc fee is a dealer’s paperwork charge. It’s added on top of the car price, so it can change the final total you pay.

Concept

deal at this price

"Do we have a deal at this price because I'm I can't discount anymore [2004.9s] So I'm not asking for more discount [2006.6s] I just want to verify the numbers seem right with that with that."

The speaker is framing the negotiation around reaching a mutually agreed “deal price,” then verifying the math that leads to the final out-the-door number. This highlights a common negotiation concept: the headline price and the final total must match the agreed terms.

Term

taxes and the registrations

"You're going to get all of your tax and the registrations are out of my control [2015.7s] So once I add them in that's just going to be your bottom line ... [2047.3s] But like I just need to make sure that you're out the door lines up like I said, I'll get all your taxes on here"

Taxes and registration are extra costs you pay to legally own and drive the car. They can change the final price, so you can’t judge a deal by the discount alone.

Term

3k off

"[2098.8s] Okay, so I'm good. I'll hear from you soon. This guy's being so rough [2102.5s] I don't even know if I would recommend this guy to my client. Call me. I'll do 3k off and where are you at jcr [2108.5s] You'll do 3k off in Alantra and I like it. Where are you at?"

“3k off” means they’ll take about $3,000 off the price. It’s part of the negotiation before the final total cost is agreed on.

Term

outdoor

"[2162.6s] Oh, send me the outdoor. I suppose it's rock and roll make this the you're making this you're supposed to fight me a little bit [2167.3s] You know, just what? [2169.4s] I've been watching you for years, man."

They’re talking about the “out-the-door” price, meaning the total cost to actually buy the car. It includes the extra stuff like taxes and fees, not just the sticker price.

Concept

take delivery tomorrow

"“We can take delivery tomorrow, man. I'm ready to go.”"

“Take delivery tomorrow” means you’re getting the car and finishing the paperwork so you can drive it away. The timing can matter for the deal details.

Term

manual

"“So the earlier one at 39 out the door is a manual not an automatic. This is an automatic”"

A manual car requires you to shift gears yourself using a clutch and gear stick. It’s different from an automatic, and that difference can change the deal.

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